Faith-manor Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I am just gutted. I don't know how to comfort my daughter and son in law. (This daughter is not officially ours but would have been had she been available for adoption.) We are Marmee and Papa Mark to little A. I am leaving in a while to drive home from Alabama so I can be there to take care them when they get home from the hospital tomorrow. We don't know why she died. I am worried that the doctors and pathology will not look for the cause because our daughter is on Medicaid because both she and her husband's full time jobs do not provide medical insurance. I am not in a good place emotionally at the moment. I also need to be strong for them. 122 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaybee Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 Oh Faith, I am so very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amira Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I'm so sorry. I'll be thinking of you and your family often over the next few days. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyoffive Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I am so so sorry for your loss. I am sending all my prayers to you and to your dd and sil. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marbel Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 Oh, how heartbreaking. I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa Louise Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stephanier.1765 Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 Oh Faith, I am so incredibly sorry! Hugs! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kassia Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I'm so sorry. That is devastating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junie Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 Praying for you and your family. Be sure to take care of yourself, too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jrn Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 Oh I am so sorry. Prayers for your families. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carol in Cal. Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 Oh no. I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arcadia Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I’m so sorry. My first obgyn in the states didn’t care about anything either for my second pregnancy, even though my obgyn from my country of origin wrote a stack of notes and already classified both my pregnancies as high risk. We went hunting for a better one and luckily found an obgyn with her own clinic that was good. My friend had a miscarriage 17 years ago and her obgyn didn’t look into why either. We had United Healthcare and Aetna for insurance so insurance wasn’t the issue. Hopefully you are able to advocate for them. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YaelAldrich Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 That news is so terrible. My prayers and condolences are with you and your families. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calm37 Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 One of the things I remember most about losing my son, Joshua, over 27 years ago this fall is that my mom came from CA and stayed with me. I remember shopping at an antique store with her at one point and choosing a small item to remind us of our time together. Your presence is a great comfort. 21 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spryte Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I’m so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toocrazy!! Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 Oh my, I’m so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LifeLovePassion Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vintage81 Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I’m so sorry 😞 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LinRTX Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I am so very sorry. It is hard to be the parent of a child facing/experiencing the loss of a baby. I am walking my daughter through this right now. I never feel like I know what to say, but I am there if she ever wants to talk. Your emotions are all over the place right now. You are grieving your grandchild as well as trying to comfort your child. My thoughts are with you. 12 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El... Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 Oh, no. I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drama Llama Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I am so very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ottakee Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 So sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alysee Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I'm so sorry. How awful. I hope you can be a comfort to them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pam in CT Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 Oh, (( Faith )) . Holding you and all the family in the light. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faith-manor Posted April 26, 2023 Author Share Posted April 26, 2023 Thank you everyone. I made it ten miles and had to pull over and cry. I am drinking coffee and trying to pull myself together. 2 14 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lauraw4321 Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 Oh, Faith. I am so sorry. Prayers for all of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freesia Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I’m so sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pawz4me Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Innisfree Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I’m so very sorry. Holding you all in my thoughts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alte Veste Academy Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 (((((((Baby A and all who love her))))))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WildflowerMom Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I’m so sorry. Gentle hugs for the entire family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom31257 Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I'm so very sorry!! Praying for you all! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corraleno Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 What heartbreaking news, I am so very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katy Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 Heartbreaking. I’m so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 Ahhhh…. I am so very sorry. How terribly sad for your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Florida. Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 Oh, I'm so sorry Faith. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScoutTN Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 Oh, I am so very sorry. 😢💔😢 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I'm so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indigo Blue Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 You have my deepest condolences, Faith. 😞 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QumaCote Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 Words are completely inadequate, but I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sneezyone Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 (edited) I’m so sorry!! Prayers for you and your family. Ugh. TAKE YOUR TIME and be safe on the road. Edited April 26, 2023 by Sneezyone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forget-Me-Not Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I’m so very sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I am so sorry. Sending gentle hugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porridge Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I’m so sorry, Faith. Praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenCat Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 (((((Faith))))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirty ethel rackham Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I am so sorry. How devastating! Praying for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fraidycat Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I am so, so sorry. 😢 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scholastica Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I am so, so sorry for your family’s loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arctic Bunny Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 I’m so sorry. What an absolute shock. 😪 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saraha Posted April 26, 2023 Share Posted April 26, 2023 Praying for you all. I’m so sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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