bluemongoose Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 (((hugs))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom23Boys Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so very sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 :grouphug: I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnneBlessedx4 Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so very sorry. I can't imagine your pain. I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just Kate Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so sorry for you loss. And I am in agreement with everyone else here that you did not fail your daughter. It is so obvious how much you love her and that you gave her a wonderful life. Many prayers for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zoo Keeper Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 My deepest sympathy on your loss. Praying for healing and rest for you and your family as you grieve. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeaConquest Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 Devastating. I am so sorry for your loss. May her memory be for a blessing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guilfordlake Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SEGway Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so sorry, too. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robin M Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so very sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
idnib Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. You were very blessed to have her, and she was very blessed to have you. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
creekland Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 :grouphug: I am so, so sorry. I can sense the love in your words. I wish there were a way to change the past, and having a lad with epilepsy, yes, I shudder at the thought of what you are going through - more than just her passing (which is absolutely bad enough) - then add the "what ifs." Honestly? You don't know that anything you could have done differently would have changed anything. I'm glad there's comfort in knowing she's waiting for you in heaven, but I wish you'd had more time here too. :grouphug: 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sbgrace Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 Thank you for giving us all a glimpse of your beautiful daughter. She was clearly loved incredibly well. It brought tears to my eyes. I'm so sorry. :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liz CA Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 You are walking such an unimaginably difficult road. I hope you have good, supportive friends walking with you - figuratively and literally. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimm Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I'm so sorry. I can't imagine. I know you may not ever feel this, but it doesn't sounds to me like you failed her at all. It sounds like you gave her a rich, wonderful life for the time that she was here. It's so unfair she is gone now. Too young. I'm so sorry. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ILiveInFlipFlops Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 :grouphug: You did not fail her. By what you wrote, I can tell you poured a lot of life into hers. She was so very blessed to be in your family. Sounds like everyone in your family was a blessing to her and vice versa. Grieve now. It really is okay. Your heart has been torn to pieces, we get that. Grieve. It's not going to be an easy path. And you're right, she is in a much better place now. Find joy in that. And know that she loves you and smiles over you, even now. I'm so, so sorry, mama. You did not fail your beautiful girl. I can't find any words that sound sufficient, so I'm going to let scrapbookbuzz's eloquent words speak for me as well, because I agree with every one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sahm99 Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so very sorry for the loss of your daughter.â¤ï¸ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lgliser Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 Thank you for sharing your story - you are obviously a WONDERFUL mom. Your family is in my prayers - I am so very sorry for the loss of your sweet girl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlebug42 Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so sorry for your loss. My extended family lost one of our precious children to epilepsy this fall. It is truly heartbreaking although not your fault at all. I know from reading your post that your daughter felt your love every day. That is the best gift we can give our children whether their lives are too short or long-lived. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellie Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Oh, my dear, I am so sorry. Many prayers for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Familia Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mabelen Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so sorry. Your daughter felt your unconditional love every single day of her life. Prayers that you can find peace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Noreen Claire Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 My oldest has epilepsy. This is my constant nightmare. My heart breaks for you, your family, and your daughter. I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktgrok Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 When you regret deleting, PM me and I'll give it back. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Bless you for that kindness. The post was a loving tribute, and I'm glad it isn't lost. SaveSave 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NorthwestMom Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: My heart breaks for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
applethyme Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilaclady Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 So sorry for your loss (((hugs)))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tsuga Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so sorry. I want to say it's not your fault, but I know as a mother--I cannot tell you what is true and what is not for your own daughter. But you are right that she is in heaven. It's impossible that she is not. And I fervently hope that you can understand that you too will be there with her someday. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amira Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denise in IN Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I'm so very sorry for your loss. Praying you can find hope and comfort in your grieving. Your daughter sounds like an amazing young woman who was deeply and dearly loved and cherished. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom31257 Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I'm so very sorry for your loss. Words can't express the sorrow that I feel. I helped care for my nephew with severe epilepsy. I often feared that this would happen while I had him. He passed away almost a year ago from a different illness. Losing those we love dearly is so difficult. Peace be with you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nansk Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am very sorry for your loss. She was an wonderful girl and you parented her the best you could. I hope sharing her story has given you solace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fraidycat Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 (edited) I am so sorry for your loss. Such a beautiful tribute for a beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing her with us. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Edited February 2, 2018 by fraidycat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frogger Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 Regrets. They are can be soooo painful even when you did do your best. No matter how great a mom you were or maybe the greater the mom you were, the more you cared, the harder they hit. I pray that as time passes you will find peace. That you will remember the good times. The doing your best to provide opportunities with language with dance with just being near even when she slept. You loved her. I know it is so hard to get past those overwhelming feelings but I pray you can because she had a good mom. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LMD Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so very sorry. She sounds like a wonderful person, and so do you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TravelingChris Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so very sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roadrunner Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 My heart breaks for you. I am so very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
appyonthebeach Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I'm so very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lizzie in Ma Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so deeply sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joules Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 There are no sufficient words...I'm so, so sorry :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kiwik Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kewb Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am sorry for your lost. You did not fail your daughter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juliegmom Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious daughter. You did not fail. Please give yourself grace. Praying for you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amo_mea_filiis. Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so sorry. :( I know this doesn’t matter to you right now, but you did not fail her. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassenach Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am incredibly sorry for your loss. You couldn’t know the end from the beginning, but you ran your race so, so well. She was well loved, the most precious thing in the world. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lulubelle Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 Thank you for sharing. You are a great mom! Hold on to the positive, beautiful memories of your lovely daughter. The pain will never subside. Do not blame yourself. If you don’t already, get out in nature and exercise. Use your energy for positive, uplifting things. Go to a support group. Very sorry for your loss. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cindy in FL. Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so sorry for the loss of your precious daughter. I pray that you will have the peace, comfort, and support that you will need to get through the coming days. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
unsinkable Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 For when you are ready: The Epilepsy Foundation has a SUDEP Institute that includes supporting the bereaved, Remembrance Days, research and education. https://www.epilepsy.com/learn/early-death-and-sudep/sudep/support-bereaved Again, I am so sorry. :grouphug: 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LinRTX Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so sorry. And you did not fail. You will see her again in heaven. Hold on to that. I lost my oldest at 31 just 8 short months ago. You will blame yourself. You will ask what you could have done differently. You will cry. You will be angry. You will want to scream why. I hope this brings you comfort. It is the place I have had to get to. God loves my child more than I ever could and did what was best for my child. It may not seem the best but it is the best. For the child. I know it will never seem the best for me (or you probably) and I grieve for him every day, but I have great comfort in knowing God did what was best for him. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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