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Mimm last won the day on May 21 2015

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  1. I've never had an Erin Condren but I bought a Plum Paper for this coming year and I like it a lot so far. I shopped the EC and was unimpressed with their options compared to the PP.
  2. I figured they thought NHS would take care of him. Maybe they couldn't afford to take care of him here. 😞
  3. "Why don't women report it?" Anyone intellectually honest needs to ask why women ever bother to report a rape. 😞
  4. Absolutely love my tankless water heater. We don't even think about showers, and saving water for someone else.
  5. I feel like a failure a lot too. Even when only one of your children is especially challenging, it's amazing how much you can blame yourself, wonder what you should have done differently. It's a daily effort to let myself off the hook. To realize that even if I did make mistakes, I've been a loving, hard working, conscientious mother her whole life. And I'm sure you are too.
  6. Don't over explain. Obviously you value this person's friendship, so SOME explanation is appropriate. But a simple, "After much consideration (and prayer, if that is appropriate), my husband and I (harder to argue with a joint decision) have decided that the co-op is not the right fit for us next year. I know I said I would join and I'm sorry to back out. I will miss meeting with everyone. I hope you all have a wonderful and productive year." Then if there are any supplies or teacher books or whatever, let her know you'll bring that to her.
  7. I say, "I'm going out with friends Saturday night." I don't really address who is watching the kids because we are equal parents who do not need to ask if the other person will parent in our absence. This is reasonable to expect. (I'm the keeper of the family calendar and generally know if he has other plans.) You've got a man who refuses to fulfill his obligation of co-parenting, and if he's forced to, mistreats the kids?? In such a way that he feels guilty for days afterwards? First of all, this is completely unacceptable and just because it's not uncommon doesn't mean it's more ok
  8. What is allowance for if not for the fun stuff? That's WHY I started giving my kids allowance is I wanted them to budget their fun more carefully instead of always coming to me begging for money.
  9. I never gave my husband the same "courtesies" as a baby sitter. Even when the babies were brand new. By the time we came home from the hospital, he had changed more diapers than I had. He prioritized MY sleep in the following weeks. We wrote diaper changes and bottles on the wipe off board so we were both on the same page (I needed this as much as he did.) He knew how to mix a bottle, swaddle a baby, and tie a moby wrap on himself. My husband is not a very nurturing guy by nature. He doesn't like babies much (though he doesn't especially dislike them.) But he's very much a "fulfill your obliga
  10. Typical. Once I ordered a phonics book from Abeka. I sent it to my name and paid with a credit card with my name on it. But in filling out the information on the site, they asked for my husband's name. And guess who the box was addressed to?
  11. Incredibly strange complaint, but I'm glad it was resolved so well.
  12. It's hard to get people to think about how education should be different when there isn't an agreement on what education is for. I feel like public school tends to treat children like buckets to be filled up and most of the discourse is about what belongs in the bucket, or the most efficient filling methods, or at what age to begin filling, or if Finland or Japan or whoever are better at filling their buckets. And you're trying to tell people that children are more than buckets and they might not know how to have that conversation. (I have two teens in public school and I'm not thrilled a
  13. Perhaps I'm being unjust to this particular mom. And perhaps it was just the way it was worded, which made it clear she had no desire to spend very much effort understanding anything, but was looking for a "recipe." A little this, a little that, bake for several years, and you have created one classically educated child. 🙂 I definitely relate to wanting to know the practical applications of all the high minded theory that gets thrown around. 🙂 I will say that I have tons of grace for parents doing their very imperfect best they can manage at that time. I am very much that parent. T
  14. I do understand that, of course. :) I'm knees deep in Charlotte Mason right now and can't imagine just trying to do a CM education or a classical education without knowing the WHY behind it all. :) I'm not trying to imply that the WHAT is irrelevant, but that it won't be successful without an understanding of the philosophy behind it. But hey, maybe I'm wrong about that too. :) It wouldn't be the first time.
  15. So much this. A recent question in a Facebook group I'm part of, was (paraphrased) "Can you just tell me real quick how to classically educate my children? I don't want to read a book. I just want someone to tell me how to do it." As someone recently delving into books and articles and podcasts and so on, I felt like the question was kind of insulting to people who are spending hours teaching, mentoring, and reading, and learning. It seems to me, with my limited knowledge, that classical education is much more about WHY you do things, than WHAT you do, and if you don't want to bother lear
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