MysteryJen Posted February 1, 2018 Share Posted February 1, 2018 I am so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Tick Posted February 1, 2018 Share Posted February 1, 2018 I am so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
displace Posted February 1, 2018 Share Posted February 1, 2018 I am so sorry 😔. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Random Posted February 1, 2018 Share Posted February 1, 2018 Thank you for telling me (us) about your lovely daughter. I'm so sad for your loss. It's not fair, you are so right. :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greta Posted February 1, 2018 Share Posted February 1, 2018 Thank you for giving us all a glimpse at what a beautiful, amazing person your sweet daughter was. You did not fail her. She was loved and cared for and treasured, and she knew that. You gave her a good life, and it was not your fault that it was cut short. If she could, I know she would tell you the same thing. :grouphug: 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mumto2 Posted February 1, 2018 Share Posted February 1, 2018 (edited) :grouphug: I am so sorry :grouphug: Edited February 1, 2018 by mumto2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
threeofakind Posted February 1, 2018 Share Posted February 1, 2018 *Hugs* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edelweiss Posted February 1, 2018 Share Posted February 1, 2018 Your post took my breath away, and I am so heartbroken for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daria Posted February 1, 2018 Share Posted February 1, 2018 I am so sorry. Your daughter sounds like a wonderful person. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarieCurie Posted February 1, 2018 Share Posted February 1, 2018 I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freeindeed Posted February 1, 2018 Share Posted February 1, 2018 I am so sorry. Those of us who are moms of children with special needs often feel as if we're failing our children, but you did not fail your daughter. Please don't carry that guilt. You are in my prayers. :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spryte Posted February 1, 2018 Share Posted February 1, 2018 I am so, so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gardenmom5 Posted February 1, 2018 Share Posted February 1, 2018 I am very sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angie in VA Posted February 1, 2018 Share Posted February 1, 2018 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I'm so very sorry for your loss. Parents aren't supposed to bury their children. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GailV Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 :grouphug: I am so sorry for your loss. She sounds like a lovely young woman; and you were a wonderful parent to her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HSmomof2 Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so very sorry for your loss. She sounds like an amazing, beautiful girl who was surrounded by a family who deeply loved her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PuddleJumper1 Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so very, very sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DawnM Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 Sorry doesn't even begin to express it anything I feel while reading your post and thinking how rough things must be. Thoughts and prayers won't express much, but they are there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insertcreativenamehere Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 This is so incredibly heartbreaking. My heart hurts for you. I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bolt. Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 She sounds like she was an awesome kid. I'm so sorry that she is no longer with us among the living. It's so hard when no one has answers. (I do want to say that there is a big difference between being a failure and failing to be perfect. No one expected you to do impossible things perfectly, based on your non-existent flawless understanding of the situation, and your imaginary ability to predict the future. Well, maybe you expected that of yourself... but it might be worth at least trying to challenge your own conclusion about 'failure' eventually.) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sharpie Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so very sorry. You're love for your precious daughter shines so brightly in your words. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
historically accurate Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so sorry. I am sorry that anything I say won't make it better, and I wish I could hug you and take some of your load for just a moment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paige Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I'm so sorry for your loss. It is heartbreaking. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwg Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
linders Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I'm sorry seems so little for such a wonderful mom and daughter. Your boundless love is clear, and she carried that with her to heaven. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merry gardens Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 :grouphug: What a beautiful tribute you wrote to your daughter! I send my heartfelt condolences to you and your family! Your story touches me deeply and I grieve with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liza Q Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 You did not fail her. I know I am right about this. We lost our son to cancer 17 years ago and we also thought we had failed him. If we had just done this/tried that/etc etc. We still feel this way sometimes but it is simply Not True. I lean on Lamentations 3:22-23. Maybe it will encourage you when you have the space in your heart and mind - The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end;they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alessandra Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 My heart breaks for you and your family. What you wrote is so beautiful. It sounds as though you gave your daughter a rich and full life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stephanier.1765 Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 There are not the words to say how truly sorry I am. :crying: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cave canem Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 Thank you for sharing this with me. I can't imagine the pain. Partial seizures are the most mysterious things in my life. There is no way to know what the weird feelings mean or whether they will lead to anything. Love, love, love to your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I talk to the trees Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so very sorry for your loss! Sending a thousand gentle hugs! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kristen18 Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 It sounds like you gave your daughter a beautiful life. I'm also a seizure mom of a teen girl with similar struggles, and I can identify with so much of what you wrote. My heart breaks for you. I am so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 Hugs. I am so so sorry. Hugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QuirkyKapers Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 This is heartbreaking. Thanks for taking the time to share about your beautiful daughter :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lispy Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 Your daughter sounds like a wonderful young lady. And I can tell her mother was a blessing to her. You loved her well, Mom. I am so very sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mama25angels Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I'm so very sorry for your loss Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lmrich Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 :grouphug: :grouphug: What a lovely and beautiful daughter you had. You will, one day, have a joyous reunion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JFSinIL Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 So, so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mothersweets Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so sorry for your loss. :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happypamama Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so sorry. This is so unfair. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
matrips Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I’m so sorry. 😢. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peaceseeker Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 (edited) Praying for you in your grief right now. It is clear to everyone here that you were an amazing mom who did all you could with the knowledge you had. Life is unfair and cruel. She was very blessed to have you in her corner all those years fighting for her. I am so very sorry for your loss. Edited February 2, 2018 by CaliforniaDreaming Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzanne in ABQ Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I'm adding my prayer as one more drop in the river of prayer and positive thoughts that are flowing for you right now. I pray that, someday, you will look back and have peace, knowing that you did not fail her. On the contrary, you were awesome and amazing and did everything you could do to give her all she needed and more. I pray that you sense the presence of Him who provides that peace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eternalsummer Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I'm so sorry for your loss. Eventually I hope you can come to a place without feeling guilt; you were clearly a wonderful mother and advocate for her. When my dad died of pneumonia after having largely unmanaged COPD for a decade, I felt guilty. I think it is very common to feel guilty when someone you love dies, and I hope it will fade for you somewhat eventually as it has for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trulycrabby Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosie_0801 Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 When you regret deleting, PM me and I'll give it back. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
readinmom Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I am so, so sorry...your family is in our prayers :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura in CA Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evergreen State Sue Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 What a privilege to know your daughter through your touching words. What a beautiful person she was and I applaud your efforts to get her involved in many activities that became her passion. I hope you can somehow collect her artwork into a lovely book you and others can treasure. You are an awesome mom. I am sorry for your loss and pain that only a mom can truly understand. You will reunited in heaven someday and what a glorious reunion that will be! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 :grouphug: :grouphug: (((many, many hugs))))) :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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