Seasider Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 UPDATE: He passed away this evening. I had come home because he was was stable but it turned out one of his last real interactions was with me before I left. I was planning to go back tonight but now I'm going to wait for the funeral. Basically I keep going in circles- I literally went in a circle on 85 and I went to the airport and am now going home. Sigh. I'm frustrated that step mom and my dad made almost no funeral plans, but I don't have it in me to be bitter or anything. Thanks for the support and kind words, everyone. Oh Farrar! I am sorry for your loss, but so glad that you had some precious time with him before the end. Take some deep breaths and try to get some sound sleep before the funeral. Don't worry about the details - the most important opportunity has come already, and you seized it like a champ. You will remain in my thoughts these next days. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoobie Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm so sorry, Farrar. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pawz4me Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eagle Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I am so sorry, Farrar. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slache Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 Hugs. I'm glad you got to say goodbye. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hornblower Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
school17777 Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 So sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RootAnn Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 Many, many hugs. I'm so sorry for your loss, but I hope you are comforted by having been able to spend a little time with him. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maize Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I am so sorry for your loss. :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosie_0801 Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm so sorry, Farrar. Thank goodness you were able to get there to see him before he passed away. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm so sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luckymama Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 So sorry :grouphug: I'm glad you were able to see him one last time. Parent death is one of the sucky parts of adulthood. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bibiche Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm very sorry for your loss, Farrar. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lllll Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
creekland Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 :grouphug: I'm sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dancingmama Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LMD Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 Sorry for the loss of your Dad. *hugs* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vida Winter Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 Very sorry to hear this, Farrar. Prayers and support for the coming days. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melmichigan Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm very sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teachaheart Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bettyandbob Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sbgrace Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 :grouphug: I'm sorry you lost your dad. :grouphug: I'm so glad you were able to have that last visit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minerva Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 :grouphug: I am glad you got to see him and that he got to see you too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarawatsonim Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JennyD Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 Oh Farrar, I am so very sorry. May his memory be a blessing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spryte Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm so, so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
matrips Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm so glad you were able to see your dad, and interact with him. And yet so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErinE Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 My thoughts and prayers are with you. It is good that you were able to see and interact with him. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azucena Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RioSamba Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I am so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mermo Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm so sorry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TechWife Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm so very sorry for your loss :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoPlaceLikeHome Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I am so sorry for your loss, Farrar. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junie Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Serenade Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm so sorry for your loss and the difficulty you had with your step mother. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meriwether Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm sorry, Farrar. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
idnib Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 Farrar, it's so good you got a chance to go see your dad before he passed. I'm sorry for your loss. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forget-Me-Not Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HollyB Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm sorry for your loss, Farrar. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MEmama Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 So sorry for your loss, Farrar. It's good you were able to see him one last time. (( )) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StaceyinLA Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I am so very sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Another Lynn Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FO4UR Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThisIsTheDay Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 :grouphug: :grouphug: I'm so sorry, Farrar. What a blessing that you were able to get down early when you did. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alisoncooks Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm sorry for your loss. So glad you were able to be with him near the end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roadrunner Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 Many hugs to you. I am so sorry you lost him. Glad you had a chance to see him one last time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melbotoast Posted December 14, 2015 Share Posted December 14, 2015 I'm so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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