Um_2_4 Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 (edited) <<< Original Post deleted for privacy>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> I just needed a safe place to virtually scream/cry if that is all I can do. :001_unsure: :crying: Thanks for "listening". UPDATE: Thanks all. I thought I would just come back and post a bit of an update. So the worst case seems to be off the table. Not sure everything will go back to they way it was. Some things seem changed too much and not for the better. Time will tell. Again, my kids and I are OK, nothing dangerous, just drama. Thanks to all who asked. Some people were hurt/disappointed. But the person whose actions started this has still not faced consequences. <That I am not pleased with. I think I may reach out to someone at a later date (after the dust settles, to prevent a big blowup) who can enact some consequences. Edited July 17, 2017 by Um_2_4 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
regentrude Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
creekland Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 Been there done that. It is so bad. I am sorry. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 I'm so sorry. It's probably not healthy but I either read a book and do some escapism, watch an engrossing movie with too much chocolate to accompany, or if I'm feeling virtuous I pop on headphones and do a massive to do list. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hen Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: praying for you. If you could get out every morning for a 30 -40 minute walk in the sunshine, that could really help. Just do it, even though you don't want to. And, I second Arctic mama's suggestion of escapism t.v. -pick a series on netflix and start watching. I am so sorry, praying for you, and I know it doesn't seem like it, but this will all pass and you will pick up and move on to a new normal and even learn to thrive again. <<<hugs>>> 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirty ethel rackham Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 :grouphug: Sent from my SM-G900T using Tapatalk 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoobie Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 :grouphug: Any chance of a group therapy session with you and the person involved to figure out a plan of action? Or nudge them to make one for themselves? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junie Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ethel Mertz Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ethel Mertz Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 Meant to add: Are you and the kids physically safe? If not, what can you do to be more safe? (You don't have to answer this here.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
historically accurate Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScoutTN Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenCat Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 :grouphug: Take care of yourself, please. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GailV Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimm Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I'm so sorry. I hope you will look back on this time in a year or two and realize it made you stronger and you were more capable than you are currently giving yourself credit for. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Valley Girl Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 The pain in your "voice" is heartbreaking. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this situation. I sincerely hope that it resolves itself in a way that isn't the worst you fear. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimberly in IN Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosie_0801 Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Artichoke Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 Hugs and prayers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MEmama Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Okra Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 Hugs. Life can be so hard sometimes. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Um_2_4 Posted July 8, 2017 Author Share Posted July 8, 2017 Thanks all. Really since I can't speak to anyone IRL about this, these hugs mean more than you could know. We are physically safe, nothing of that sort. Just drama and upheaval and heartache, which I loathe. Interestingly, a bright spot appeared after I posted this, although I"m still not sure there will be the consequences there should be. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilaclady Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 ((((Hugs)))))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
solascriptura Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 Truly((((hugs)))... vent and cry all you want here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AimeeM Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 I'm so sorry you're going through this. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RootAnn Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MercyA Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happi duck Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 Many (hugs) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlessedMom Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 ((((((Hugs & Prayers)))))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J-rap Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fraidycat Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theelfqueen Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 Get out and walk while listening to an audio book or podcast... when my anxiety is running high I must have distraction or I wallow in it and make it worse. My earbuds are pretty much constantly in if I'm not actively doing something for which I need full attention (teaching a lesson) . I can't let my brain fall in the put for fear of it digging itself deeper. Sent from my SM-G930V using Tapatalk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonhawk Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 Hugs You are in my thoughts Hugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hikin' Mama Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 Hugs. That would be very difficult. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MeghansMom Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 I am very sorry. Hugs to you. Something that helps me a little bit when I go through times like this is to remind myself that this too, shall pass. Do the best you can to get through this. Hugs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
almondbutterandjelly Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 ((hugs)) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alessandra Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 (((Hugs))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lizzie in Ma Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 Wish I could help, I can certainly relate! Hang in there. Rant, cry and scream as needed. We are here for you. :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
umsami Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 :grouphug: Making du'a for you. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiguirre Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 :grouphug: Agonizing. I'm so sorry. :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Um_2_4 Posted July 8, 2017 Author Share Posted July 8, 2017 Thanks all. You know the saying "1 step forward, 2 back"? That was me last night after my last post. I'm out for a 4H activity right now, so that's helping. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
idnib Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Praying it turns out as well as it can and that you find peace while you wait. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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