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Everything posted by Scarlett
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Yes to all of this. It is a common part of menopause. The only place I haven’t lost most of the hair is my head. Even that is less than it once was….but i still have a lot of hair on my head. I got eyebrows tattooed on…,.there is another word they use but it is basically tattoo .best thing ever.
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She has lost a lot of weight it seems. That would be in line with some type of serious abdominal surgery. I will say she was moving very quickly!
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I am very happy to see that she seems fine.
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@Corraleno that is horrific. I am so sorry for him. I do wonder if when begging his parents to not send him back if he told them what was going on.
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My first husband and I did our taxes starting in 1983 before the software was available. We never even considered paying someone to do it for us. We just got the forms and filled them out. We were only 18 and 19 that year. I do remember it seeming to be a little overwhelming at first but we muddled through. I can’t remember when software became available but by that time I had taken on all the financial management and I did it all on my own.
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I've been reading the WTM boards almost daily for 20 years!
Scarlett replied to Hannah's topic in The Chat Board
I think I found the boards in 2004. I don’t have a super clear memory of it but I am pretty sure I was posting before ds was suppose to start K in 2005. -
I have always done ours except for one year when I hired it done and they made a 6k error which I caught. I guess sone people’s can be complicated but ours is super simple with H&R block
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I blame TT for the obsessions with various topics.
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Keep your fingers crossed/Prayers - Update in 1st post
Scarlett replied to alysee's topic in The Chat Board
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Well sure I just figured if she did have a history it was probably known.
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Does Kate have a history of colon problems?
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Not sure. I just always liked it and there wasn’t one in the family. My mom is Nana and Grandma. Our grandsons other grandparents are Nanny and papaw.
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I am Mimi.
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I always felt like I knew the deal…..like it wasn’t me, it was him…..I did not have the typical response…..like what is wrong with me.Honestly I mostly felt like, ‘what is wrong with you?’ And yet…when something catastrophic happened…..I folded into a tiny ball. 7 years before I discovered the affair, my now xh brought people in to our home that tried to harm me. I was almost raped in my own bed by the son of my then husbands friend. Did my then husband protect me? Defend me? Rally to my side? No. He did not. He spent the next 7 years berating me for ‘ my part’ (which was zero) in almost being raped. Over the course of the next 7 years he threatened to tell my mom, my best friend, ect. For some reason, reasons that I can’t comprehend now, I was terrified of him telling this story…..even though I was the victim. All I know now is to speak feeely about it. To not be ashamed of being a victim.
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I think if she is having a crisis because of her marriage it is very possible she is messing with the Firm. She is not an amateur photographer. She wrote her thesis on photography. I think. Don’t quote me on that but I did hear that.
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And I have a theory that KM did give that photo to her PR people to release and she photoshopped it badly intentionally.
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Except earlier in the day of Dec 28 Kate and William announced a trip to Italy. Later that evening about 6:30 the ambulance came to their residence. the Italy trip as well as other engagements were then cancelled. So not planned.
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That is amazing and brought tears to my eyes.
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Did I miss something? Your daughter has a son?
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I guess there have been rumblings of William having a violent temper. I don’t think I had heard that. Maybe it was in Harry’s book which I did not read. I think it is most likely she had a mental break because of his affair.
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Can we talk about "fundie baby voice" without getting political?
Scarlett replied to Eos's topic in The Chat Board
I like traditional roles. I love taking care of the home, running everything, paying the bills, running the errands, planning meals etc. I love a man who can do things around the house, fix, repair, create, etc. and make a living. Life is hard though and things change. The time in my life where I was able to be a SAHM and wife, my then husband was for some reason enraged by the entire set up. Even though I kept a spotless home, and did everything for our son and everything anyone needed. Now I work part time and my husband is so thankful for all I do as I am thankful for what he does. I spend a lot of time helping my parents or others in need which he is fine with. I don’t have the energy I once did and some days he walks in while I am in mid supper prep and I tell him I have to sit down because I am exhausted and so he finishes supper while I sit and chat with him. I don’t know why roles have to be so rigid……people need to go with the flow more. -
15 years ago I discovered that my husband of 25 years was in an affair. I immediately filed for divorced and it was final within 6 months. His affair partner was then 24 years old, married with one child. My now xh was 45. I remarried within a year of the divorce being final.. So this year we will be married 14 years. I have a wonderful husband, we have a great marriage and I am very happy with him. Xh and his affair partner broke up within 2 years which is right on track for affairs. She married someone else, had another child ( she already had one child) and they divorced after 5 years. Xh had one relationship after that where he was cheated on….and then got with current girlfriend who he has been with since about 2018. They just got engaged last month. I of course got notification of it from friends etc….it is all good. I met her a year ago at my xh’s mothers funeral…she seems nice, I have no issue with her, nor is she any of my business. I did find myself wondering if he had changed and was she now getting the best version of him. I mean it has briefly crossed my mind. He occupies very little space in my mind these days. My son and DIL went to see them this last weekend. My DIL recounted a repulsive incident that jerked me back to life with him…he has not changed one bit. Thank GOD I am not still married to him. Y’all I had a serious moment of total thankfulness. I called my best friend who went to high school with us both and she was like OMG that sounds just like him. I mean….to the point my 24 yo DIL could not possibly have made this crap up….because it is just. Like. Him. Well, that got me thinking and I googled the affair partner and she has married again…. I did the math and she is 39 or 40 now. So to all of us who have fled bad marriages……it may not seem like it sometimes but it really really is the best thing ever.
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That is what I think too.
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Here is a TT video you can see the bruise and black eye. https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLNRACRS/