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  1. Depends on how bad I needed it! I don’t think it would hurt anyone but might be stale.
  2. Scarlett

    WWYD?

    No one is trying to stir up drama.At all.
  3. I saw this article....so cute. Who knew. 🙂
  4. Really? I had no idea. We are careful to take them away from her once she starts pulling the out layer off....but I guess now we can't let her chew on them at all. She does like to chase them.
  5. Not much has held up to our pup. She goes through a couple of tennis balls a week. She does have a kong frizz bee that has held up well for a couple of months. Frozen apple slices and frozen bananas are some good treats to keep her occupied for a minute. apples or peanut butter stuffed in a kong too.
  6. Scarlett

    WWYD?

    I don't know that I would be. I told her I didn't know. I told her I wanted to think about it and not be rash. And the next morning I told her she should absolutely invite him if she wants. She just knows I have had a very very bad year and wanted to be thoughtful toward me.
  7. Scarlett

    WWYD?

    It is the bride's mother...but yeah I do question the judgment of them having a big wedding right now. And no one is trying to 'manage' me. They are just trying to make sure I am ok with it.
  8. Scarlett

    WWYD?

    I think I have said this many times already in this thread alone. She has the impression I would be upset because I have been upset and devastated for over a year. I don't understand what is difficult to see about that. She loves me and wants me to enjoy the wedding without the stress of the other relationship. She really really insisted it be my decision because she cares about my feelings.
  9. Scarlett

    WWYD?

    I have done enough thinking about this in the past year to last me a lifetime. I don't know what is so difficult to believe about someone who knows me knowing how upset I have been and wanting me to be happy at the wedding. You really don't know anything about what is going on with my son and me and you as well as a lot of people here assume way more than you should. I realize I bring some of that on by sharing too much at times and then not sharing other things....but honestly I asked a simple question in this thread just wondering how others might handle it. Some people are able to an
  10. Scarlett

    WWYD?

    Well, I don't know what to tell you other than what she told me. She said she knows how upset I have been and she doesn't want me to feel bad at the wedding. Which is apparently going to be a non issue thanks to Covid.
  11. Scarlett

    WWYD?

    You don't have enough information to know what kind of mother I am and why I made the decision I did. And I am not going to share all of the details.
  12. Scarlett

    WWYD?

    It has been a brutal year plus I can assure you of that.
  13. Scarlett

    WWYD?

    Thanks. It has been settled. And I probably won’t be there anyway because of Covid.
  14. Scarlett

    WWYD?

    No not everyone thinks I am wrong but that is beside the point. I don’t make decisions like I was forced into based upon popular opinion. And I am not sure why you and others are under the impression I haven't done everything I possibly can inside the bounds of my conscience. SMH
  15. Scarlett

    WWYD?

    You don’t know me and you don’t know all there is to this story including that I am not mad. And I don’t always have to be right, but I will do for myself what I believe is right for me.
  16. Scarlett

    WWYD?

    If he was one of 10 kids it would be different? I am not going to rehash this issue— I did what I believed and believe was right. I have done a large amount of begging and crying and there is really nothing more I can do. I was put in an impossible situation and now the ball is in his court. I continue to be kind and supportive and open.
  17. Scarlett

    WWYD?

    She knows how upset I have been. She doesn’t want me to be upset. She and I talked it out and he is invited. She was never worried about me or him being uncivil or not cordial.
  18. Huh! All of this time I thought you lived in Seattle!
  19. Oh no! I missed the post @happysmileylady! I am so so sorry. What in the world happened! 😢😢
  20. Scarlett

    WWYD?

    Exactly. I am sure we won’t go because of that.
  21. Scarlett

    WWYD?

    I don’t believe I said anything about not being cordial or civil .
  22. Scarlett

    WWYD?

    I am not sure what you think I need forgiveness for. I am doing everything in my power to get back to our normal relationship but there is only so much one person can do.
  23. I am going to have to miss a wedding that I really wanted to go to. It is just not safe regardless of what your sister and her family are or are not doing.
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