footballmom Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 I would like to just curl in a ball and cry but that might scare the kids, so posting here for some support :) 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lauraw4321 Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 :::Hugs:: Start by telling everyone that he's looking. Most jobs are found through connections so start working yours. Make a list of low-hanging expenses and start canceling those. Ifile for Unemployment. It's not much but every bit helps. 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 Oh gosh. I'm so sorry. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SparklyUnicorn Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 So sorry... :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greta Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 Oh no. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jrn Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scrapbookbuzz Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 Boy, have we been down that road! More than once! I'll pray for al of you but most specifically that you don't have to go more than a couple of weeks without a good income. I promise you will survive this! 😉 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 I'm so sorry. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie G Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 :grouphug: I'm sorry. That stinks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TravelingChris Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 I am,so sorry. Not only tell people IRL but you can tell people like us what kind of job and what area of the country. Like I know of jobs here depending on the type of job he needs and I bet others know of jobs elsewhere. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
regentrude Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slartibartfast Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Selkie Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 :grouphug: I'm sorry that happened. I hope he finds a new job soon! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carol in Cal. Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 Very sorry to hear this. We can help when you're ready to talk more, and in the mean time listen and pray. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excelsior! Academy Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 Dh got laid off early last year, so I know the feeling. It is a jumble of emotions. He got several leads and his current job through his LinkedIn profile. After you take a few days to process, I would encourage you to encourage him to update or set up his profile. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janeway Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 (((hugs))) been there, doing that.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teachermom2834 Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 Such a crappy thing to go through! We've been there three times. I know it hurts. The most important thing to know right now is that you will get through this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rachel Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 I'm sorry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mominco Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
school17777 Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 (((Hugs))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellie Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 I would like to just curl in a ball and cry but that might scare the kids, so posting here for some support :) :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyoffive Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 :::Hugs:: Start by telling everyone that he's looking. Most jobs are found through connections so start working yours. Make a list of low-hanging expenses and start canceling those. Ifile for Unemployment. It's not much but every bit helps. Good advice. Maybe others can pipe up with more. Can you or he do anything part time? Can you sell things? Baby sit? Dog walk? Uber? Micro gigs? Quit any money things that you can. There are lots of free things to do. Library events. Going on walks. Did he get a severance package? Any weeks before this happens? Do you have an e-fund to rely on? Eat out of the pantry. Update the resume and social media. Get on Linked in. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gardenmom5 Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 I'm so sorry. Btdt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ethel Mertz Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ravin Posted February 27, 2017 Share Posted February 27, 2017 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DawnM Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 Oh man, sorry. DH just heard a few weeks ago that they may be laying off this summer. We are prepping. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MomsintheGarden Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 I am so sorry. From personal experience, unemployment sucks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lllll Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 (edited) nm Edited March 2, 2017 by --Kathy-- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clementine Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 Let yourself process it all - then make a plan. I'm so sorry!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Innisfree Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
creekland Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Then I'll add my name to the list of those suggesting networking - even via the Hive if you want to share some about what kind of job and/or area of the country (sort of anyway - and folks could send you private messages if they know of anything). Don't limit networking to the Hive though - anyone you know could be the lead you need. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kassia Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 (edited) I'm so sorry. Happened to us a long time ago and it was such a scary time. :grouphug: ETA - it all worked out for the best for us, though! DH got a job where he is much happier and got to spend so much more time with the kids. Hope the change ends up happy for you, too. Edited February 28, 2017 by Erica H Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cindy in FL. Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 I am so sorry. I am hoping and praying that you all weather this well and that there is something fabulous out there for him! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rainbowmama Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 So sorry! I hope a new, wonderful job finds him quickly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jjeepa Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 :grouphug: So sorry to hear this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MooCow Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 I'm sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 That's stressful, I'm so sorry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LarlaB Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 I'm so sorry as know the feeling. (((((hugs))))) to you and your family- hoping & praying its not a long transition period for him. We succeeded in shielding our kids from the majority of it all- although our lifestyle had to radically shift. And I won't lie, some of my friends scattered simply because I think I was living their fears, but other friends have been so incredibly dear during the 'finding a new path'. (((hugs))) again. I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 I would like to just curl in a ball and cry but that might scare the kids, so posting here for some support :) So sorry! I feel your pain. It will work out. We have gone through it several times and none of us have starved yet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EMS83 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiguirre Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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BlessedMom Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 ((((((Hugs)))))) I am so sorry!! Praying he will get a new job very soon! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
footballmom Posted February 28, 2017 Author Share Posted February 28, 2017 Thanks everyone - I really appreciate your prayers, advice and support. To give more info, DH hasn't been at this job very long - less than 18 months. He's getting a small severance package, and I'm grateful he's getting something. It took him almost 6 months to find this job after his position was eliminated with his previous company, so I feel very fragile since it feels like we *just* went through this. He does have a good Linked In profile and an updated resume, so tomorrow he will start networking and applying like crazy. He works in technology though he isn't technical. The biggest thing that hurt him in his last search was not having a degree. Some companies won't even interview you without one which is discouraging going into this. Right now, he is completely set against relocating as this is the only area he has ever lived and he has family here. I work part time, though I don't have an option to go full time with this job so I will be job hunting for something full time too...sigh. I'm praying mightily. I don't want to give up homeschooling, but working part time and schooling has pushed me to the edge some days and I know I can't scale full time workand schooling. DH does not feel called himself to homeschool so swapping roles won't work. I'm just so sad and stressed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
creekland Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 Thanks for the update. You'll be in my prayers that he (or one of you) can find a great job locally soon. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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happi duck Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 (hugs) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zoo Keeper Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 :grouphug: and prayers for your family at this time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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