KSera Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 40 minutes ago, Vintage81 said: The police officer at the press conference confirmed that the shooter identified as trans and that it may have been a motive for the shooting. I'm seeing that too, and had been hoping that wasn't the case ever since hearing the shooter was a woman (since female shooters are extremely rare). You just know there are going to be groups of people focusing on that fact rather than the easy access to the weapons that the shooter killed people with. As if young people who identify as trans aren't already dealing with enough vilification from others 😢. I really hope this doesn't become a point of focus and distraction from the actual problems in this tragedy. 8 12 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katy Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 7 minutes ago, KSera said: I'm seeing that too, and had been hoping that wasn't the case ever since hearing the shooter was a woman (since female shooters are extremely rare). You just know there are going to be groups of people focusing on that fact rather than the easy access to the weapons that the shooter killed people with. As if young people who identify as trans aren't already dealing with enough vilification from others 😢. I really hope this doesn't become a point of focus and distraction from the actual problems in this tragedy. I don’t see how it can’t. I really hope you’re right though. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
math teacher Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 I'm so sorry, @ScoutTN. Your church and school are in my prayers. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa Louise Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 9 minutes ago, KSera said: I'm seeing that too, and had been hoping that wasn't the case ever since hearing the shooter was a woman (since female shooters are extremely rare). You just know there are going to be groups of people focusing on that fact rather than the easy access to the weapons that the shooter killed people with. As if young people who identify as trans aren't already dealing with enough vilification from others 😢. I really hope this doesn't become a point of focus and distraction from the actual problems in this tragedy. It's an unusual crime for a female, and I suppose there will be interest in the factors predisposing a female to commit a male-typical crime. I'm not going to lie; I'm curious to know if this murderous gun-crime spree by a female person is an outlier, or if it reflects an ongoing shift ie are females committing more male-typical crime than in the past? Because it's a really unusual shift, and worth understanding. I'm sorry to sound cold. The rest of the world looked on at American mass murders by gun in sorrow and concern for a long time, and now look on in acceptance. Sadly, this is how it is. My sociological curiosity is, of course, utterly unimportant in the face of the suffering of the victims, their families and friends, their community, and also the suffering of the survivors and first responders. I hope it doesn't become a focus, and I can see that the temptation, on both sides of the debate, is to make it a focus. I hope the focus remains on gun culture/access. 3 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KSera Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 (edited) 29 minutes ago, Melissa Louise said: ie are females committing more male-typical crime than in the past? Because it's a really unusual shift, and worth understanding. This probably isn't the thread to discuss, but in a nutshell, my understanding is that crime profiles of transgender people tend to be closer to that of their biological sex than their gender identification, eg transwomen (biologically male) are more likely to commit sex crime or violent crime than transmen (biologically female). [edited to delete anecdotal comment] Edited March 27, 2023 by KSera not relevant 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junie Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 Scout, I am so sorry. Praying for your church and school. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa Louise Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 3 minutes ago, KSera said: This probably isn't the thread to discuss, but in a nutshell, my understanding is that crime profiles of transgender people tend to be closer to that of their biological sex than their gender identification, eg transwomen (biologically male) are more likely to commit sex crime or violent crime than transmen (biologically female). Purely anecdotally, I wouldn't be surprised for both to occur at lower rates than among others they share biological sex with as the trans people I know tend to be particularly gentle people, whatever way they identify. But that's speculation and clearly not related to this case. I think anecdote is probably what needs to be avoided, tbh. Clearly those who murder children and teachers in cold blood are not gentle, regardless of their identity. Females do make up a % of mass shooters, I believe, although it's a very small % and I think tends to be as part of a crime carried out with a male accomplice, but definitely, mass murder, while male-typical, is not impossible for a female to commit. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoVanGogh Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 I am so sorry. My heart hurts for you and your community. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hshibley Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 28 minutes ago, Melissa Louise said: It's an unusual crime for a female, and I suppose there will be interest in the factors predisposing a female to commit a male-typical crime. I'm not going to lie; I'm curious to know if this murderous gun-crime spree by a female person is an outlier, or if it reflects an ongoing shift ie are females committing more male-typical crime than in the past? Because it's a really unusual shift, and worth understanding. I'm sorry to sound cold. The rest of the world looked on at American mass murders by gun in sorrow and concern for a long time, and now look on in acceptance. Sadly, this is how it is. My sociological curiosity is, of course, utterly unimportant in the face of the suffering of the victims, their families and friends, their community, and also the suffering of the survivors and first responders. I hope it doesn't become a focus, and I can see that the temptation, on both sides of the debate, is to make it a focus. I hope the focus remains on gun culture/access. I think it may be different in the USA due to the ubiquitous nature of guns. It doesn’t take much to be a mass murder here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KSera Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 (edited) 12 minutes ago, Melissa Louise said: I think anecdote is probably what needs to be avoided, tbh. Clearly those who murder children and teachers in cold blood are not gentle, regardless of their identity. Females do make up a % of mass shooters, I believe, although it's a very small % and I think tends to be as part of a crime carried out with a male accomplice, but definitely, mass murder, while male-typical, is not impossible for a female to commit. For sure, and I think I'll delete the anecdote part. I typically stay away from that and clearly pointed out that was not the case here. I saw earlier today that of mass shootings in the US since 1996, 164 were perpetrated by men and 4 by women.** eta** not quite accurate. Corrected below Edited March 27, 2023 by KSera Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katy Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 8 minutes ago, Melissa Louise said: I think anecdote is probably what needs to be avoided, tbh. Clearly those who murder children and teachers in cold blood are not gentle, regardless of their identity. Females do make up a % of mass shooters, I believe, although it's a very small % and I think tends to be as part of a crime carried out with a male accomplice, but definitely, mass murder, while male-typical, is not impossible for a female to commit. Before the shooter’s identity was announced I think CNN said there had been 3 female mass shootings since sometime in the early 1980’s. Maybe 1982. I assume they mean in the USA. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Not_a_Number Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 I'm so sorry 😞 . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa Louise Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 Just now, Katy said: Before the shooter’s identity was announced I think CNN said there had been 3 female mass shootings since sometime in the early 1980’s. Maybe 1982. I assume they mean in the USA. Yes, the % is low. Having 50% of the population vanishingly unlikely to commit this type of crime is a benefit, regardless of gun laws. Any significant increase probably needs to be monitored and investigated, because it's not good. Jeez, those poor 9 year olds. And of course, their teachers/principal/carers. And their peers. How does a nation recover from these incidents? I'm so sorry 😞 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KSera Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 I found the sta 3 minutes ago, KSera said: For sure, and I think I'll delete the anecdote part. I typically stay away from that and clearly pointed out that was not the case here. I saw earlier today that of mass shootings in the US since 1996, 164 were perpetrated by men and 4 by women.** eta** not quite accurate. Corrected below I found the statistics again and it's actually of 172 mass shootings since 1966, 4 were female. In two of those 4, the women acted alongside male accomplices. None of the K-12 shootings involved female shooters. Now I'm seeing today's perpetrator was a transman not a transwoman, so who knows. So, so sad. And infuriating that this keeps happening over and over and over. And of course there are all the people saying the problem is there should have been more people with guns there. Yeah, cause clearly the problem is America doesn't have enough guns 🤬. 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katy Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 Trans man not woman? Why the name Audrey? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WildflowerMom Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 I wonder if maybe a new thread should be started. I have no clue and am not trying to speak for her, but it’s possible Scout doesn’t want to see some of this current discussion right now. Just a thought is all, not pointing fingers. 16 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prairiewindmomma Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 Regardless of whatever gender the shooter was, the reality is that assault style weapons were used. No one outside of the military needs those. If the perpetrator had only had access to a knife, there likely would have been fewer victims (both in number, and in that those attacked could have lived long enough for surgery/medical care). Even if the weapon used had been of smaller caliber and smaller clip size, fewer people would have died. 18 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa Louise Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 3 minutes ago, WildflowerMom said: I wonder if maybe a new thread should be started. I have no clue and am not trying to speak for her, but it’s possible Scout doesn’t want to see some of this current discussion right now. Just a thought is all, not pointing fingers. Very fair. Thank you for the gentle reminder. 4 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ottakee Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 My heart goes out to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeaConquest Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 Scout, I am so terribly sorry for this tragic loss. May their memories be for a blessing. Sending you much love and prayers for peace and healing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
historically accurate Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 Scout, I am holding you and your loved ones in the light. What a horrible tragedy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
historically accurate Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 24 minutes ago, Melissa Louise said: Yes, the % is low. Having 50% of the population vanishingly unlikely to commit this type of crime is a benefit, regardless of gun laws. Any significant increase probably needs to be monitored and investigated, because it's not good. Jeez, those poor 9 year olds. And of course, their teachers/principal/carers. And their peers. How does a nation recover from these incidents? I'm so sorry 😞 We don't. We just watch the same reactions on replay over and over - there doesn't seem to be any recovery anymore before the next one happens. 3 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heartstrings Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 29 minutes ago, Katy said: Trans man not woman? Why the name Audrey? Not sure, but it could be their dead name. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
footballmom Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 Scout, I really don’t have the right words, but am sending so many prayers to you, your church family, your community. My heart is so heavy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kassia Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 Scout, I am so sorry about all of it. So many feelings to express but I don't have the words other than I'm so very sorry. 😞 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MercyA Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 Started a new thread for discussion of the issues, if anyone cares to join: 4 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalmia Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 I am so so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maize Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 (edited) Scout, I am so, so sorry. It sounds like you might know some of the victims since the school is associated with your church. I am heartbroken for your entire community and will be praying for you. Edited March 28, 2023 by maize 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katy Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 This isn't behind a paywall. Apparently Audrey still used the name but used male pronouns on LinkedIn. There appears to be no other confirmation Audrey was trans. https://www.nytimes.com/2023/03/27/us/nashville-school-shooting-audrey-hale.html 4 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LifeLovePassion Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 I'm so sorry Scout. Words escape me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KSera Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 It strikes me this evening how the fact that your church is attached to this school makes the grieving all that much more difficult, as I'm sure people are unable to gather there now. And often when a school shooting happens, they end up tearing the school down and building a new one (I don't know what percentage of the time they do that vs clean and reopen the school though), but that's not likely to be an option with a church school. I'm very sorry for what your entire community is going through. My heart can't even really "go there" with what the parents and families who lost children and loved ones are dealing with tonight. 9 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lauraw4321 Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 The pastor of the church lost a daughter. 20 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sneezyone Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 1 minute ago, lauraw4321 said: The pastor of the church lost a daughter. OMG. Wow. I’m disgusted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktgrok Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 2 minutes ago, lauraw4321 said: The pastor of the church lost a daughter. Which means yes, Scout knows at least one of the victims personally. Scout, I'm praying for you and all involved, and sending love and peace to you from afar. Let us know how we can help. 7 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just Kate Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 I’m just now reading about this and Scout, I’m so very sorry. I will be praying for you, your church, and your community. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lawyer&Mom Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 I’m so sorry. I have a nine year old and I’m just heartbroken at the idea of losing three nine year olds. Any kid death is tragic but nine is just such a great age as they start to blossom into big kids. What a loss. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ikslo Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 ((((Scout)))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScoutTN Posted March 28, 2023 Author Share Posted March 28, 2023 Thank you all for the prayers. Please continue to pray. The next days and weeks and months are going to be unbelievably hard. 5 45 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saraha Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 I’m so sorry scout Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caclcoca Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 I’m so sorry. I’m praying for you, your church family, and your community. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fraidycat Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 I'm so sorry. What a terrible day for your community. 😢 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
***** Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 Sad and sickened, praying for all. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkTulip Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 I’m so sorry Scout. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vintage81 Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 I’m so sorry Scout. Hugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Carrie12345 Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 I saw the news, but I’m just seeing this post now. Scout, I am so sorry. For you, for the victims and their families, for your community, and for our society. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shoeless Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 I'm so sorry, Scout. ❤️ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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