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  1. Thank you so much for the congrats. And comgratulations to the others who have decisions already!
  2. Can it be? I don’t know. Somewhat waiting for a change of mind but... I asked about applying to Rice a month or so ago. It was seriously on the table at one time because it felt like such a good fit for DS. (DS has a neuromuscular condition that requires a smaller campus and somewhat close to home or family.) We decided to hold off on applying to Rice and see what happens at other colleges first. In early July, DS applied to two state universities in the DFW area, both with rolling admissions. One was his safety school, the other was the somewhat competitive engineering school he has wanted to attend since he was 10 years old He was accepted into both. No word on financial packages yet, but that won’t be an issue or deciding factor at either of these two schools. Was it really just that easy?!? We have searched and reviewed colleges for several years and DS has always maintained he wanted to attend this one school. It is a great college with great reviews and great location and it has the exact major he wants to study. Feels odd to be done so soon.
  3. Thank you so much everyone for the advice. We know the odds are very small that he would be accepted, but it is one of the few that meets our criteria. Thankfully his other options are nowhere near as selective. (DS has a mild physical disability and really needs a small campus.) Hoggirl, we are in state.
  4. Any tips for applying to Rice? And how is a teacher evaluation different from a letter of recommendation? Thank you.
  5. I had two very close family members die from aggressive cancers, both fought with aggressive treatments until the very end. They had no quality of life at all. It comes down to quality over quantity, I think. Watching their journey has left me with very specific ideas about what I myself would do and that is to decline treatment. I have talked with others in our family and they all have said the same thing. The added days, weeks are not worth the loss of quality of life. It comes down to dying on your own terms and that is powerful in the end When my FIL was diagnosed with terminal cancer two years ago, his family wanted him to continue treatments, even past the point where the doctors were saying they had nothing left. My DH wouldn’t accept not fighting the cancer. It was much harder on him, even though he was by my side when my family members had cancer, he could not grasp not fighting. But it isn’t not fighting, it is deciding to fight it from a different angle. Blessings to you, Quill.
  6. The religious schools we have looked at don’t have anything near what our child is interested in studying. To attend a religious school a grandparent would pay for would mean our child wouldn’t be studying what he has wanted to for years now. That right there would be main consideration. I would let the children know about the offer. But I would sit down and look at what it would take to transfer. As has already been said, housing and classes have already been picked for the fall. How much would it cost to change now? I don’t think most older people today realize what college and the job markets are like today.
  7. I had extreme exhaustion for about a year before I was diagnosed with celiac. Like, had to take a nap after walking to the mailbox and back type of exhaustion. In most people, celiac makes them lose weight. Not the case with me. It made me retain weight. Still, for me, my first symptom is extreme achy joints and fatigue, not stomach. I also have Epstein Barr and often have flare ups. I have three autoimmune disorders and thyroid issues. (Have you been tested for Hashimoto’s?) I have had a lot of health issues and found that two things that help with my fatigue is working out and eliminating caffeine. I know. Crazy. But after a week of zero caffeine, I feel so much more awake. Like a fog has lifted from my brain. For working out, I have found that there is a happy medium. I have to work out really hard, but not too hard. Light workouts make me tired. I think it has something to do with how I sleep after working out. Maybe keep a food and activity journal to monitor for patterns? And I do agree with a sleep study, though I have not had one personally.
  8. We put our son in cc as a sophomore, age 15. We had planned to wait another year, but one of his outside teachers recommended a class she knew we were interested in. Her own children had started cc at 15 with this class and teacher. In the end, I think he could have started at age 14 and done well, but I am also content that we waited. He has now taken two years of de and done very well. This is my generally non-social child with a speech disorder (much better with extensive therapy) and a mild physical disability. He loves cc and the community there, and has really thrived and grown since starting there. It forced him out of his comfort zone, which he needed. He wasn’t sheltered prior, as we live in a large city and travel quite a bit. (And we had a drug house next door several years ago where a teenager died of an overdose.) He has seen and heard a lot growing up. I just asked him about language on his campus and he said he doesn’t hear much fowl language. He says he hears about parties but has never seen anyone doing anything illegal or dicey on campus. I will say - one of the first people he got to know on campus was an older lady that is a massage therapist. As he was talking about this lady, my momma bear radar went off. I was picturing a cougar... LOL
  9. Our young male cat recently had blood in his urine. In his case, he had two crystals blocking his urethra. It became very serious very quickly. My DH thought I was being paranoid for taking the cat in, but both vets that worked on him said we ended up with best case scenario bc I took him in so fast. Males are more prone to urinary crystals than females are. Also, our cat was vomiting and lethargic. But we were told that cats generally tend to hide symptoms until it is too late. Our regular vet worked with the emergency vet as it was over the weekend. Both were around the same price. Best wishes! And hugs. It is always a hard decision on what to do!
  10. My DS has cerebral palsy and has undergone two full neuropsychologist evals for his accommodations. He took the ACT with accommodations, including additional time. I don’t know if it ended up being 1.5 or 2x the normal amount, but I know I wouldn’t consider that accommodation to be a benefit to him. He took half of the exam the first day of the ACT, after the other kids had taken the exam and left for the day. Which meant - he went to the school at 5pm and started the test then, which interfered with his normal eating schedule and he was already physically tired. He took half the test that day. Then he went back at 8 am on Sunday morning and took the other half of the test. Testing at the end of a day, for a child that is not neurotypical, was awful. And then to get up early the next morning, just a bit over 12 hours later, and complete the test was terrible! And one of his main accommodations was for a quiet test environment. The proctor re-arranged her classroom, changed out a bulletin board and wrote on the whiteboard during son’s test time. According to him, it was anything BUT quiet. We were going to file a complaint and ask for a re-test but he did well enough that we decided not to. (Re: time - DS didn’t need extra time for the actual test, but he was allowed physical breaks every hour, which accounted for his extra test taking time.) I am furious about the implications this can have on kids with learning and physical disabilities. We jumped through all the formal hoops to get accommodations that our son rightly needs.
  11. Re: the shelf you pictured. Those look like Made in Occupied Japan figurines. Market is mixed. I just did an auction and bought a shelf full of OJ items, just like the one you pictured. I paid $18 for the contents of the shelf. I sell antiques and vintage wares. I anticipate to make about $500 profit if I can sell everything, but I will work them into my business over a year’s time If you were to sell that shelf at an estate sale, you are looking at $3-10 for each item or pair, first day of sale. Most estate sale companies do 25% off second day of sale and half to 75% last day of sale. Figurines like those are often left and sell the last day, so you are looking at most selling for $1-5 each. That is average, there might be a few worth more mixed in there, it is hard to tell without looking each one up. You need to decide what is worth your time. The 40/60, if you just want to be done with it. Hold you own one or two day bargain basement priced estate sale and list on estate Or donate everything. (I have not seen second hand stores here limit donations.) Maybe contact an antique store and see if they have a dealer that is interested in picking through anything of value. I would personally consider doing something like that. (Or post on local Facebook group and see if you can find someone that way...) i posted on your other thread. I go to a lot of estate sales, since I sell antiques. I just went to one last week that was privately done. They had family helping, few in garage/outside, few inside. Maybe five family members. You would need some packaging material. (Have everyone save up grocery bags, doesn’t have to be much.) This family had gone through and researched a few collectibles. They knew, say, McCoy pottery was valuable and had that marked as such. Other pottery, they didn’t know and had priced low. Garage and shed items were not priced, you asked for price and went from there. All books were $1-2. Everything in the kitchen was $1 each, except for a few nicer items which were researched and priced at market value. (Based off Etsy, eBay, ruby lane...) Everything was full price first day, half off second day. That said - I bought several boxes of stuff first day and they were, like, let’s just call all this $50 and be good with it, okay? They were glad to be done with it and get $50. I felt like I got a great deal. We were both happy. Another possibility - take golf clubs to sports consignment shop. Take furniture to consignment shop. Donate the rest. I don’t know your Market for used golf clubs. I do know I see a lot of golf clubs at garage sales and estate sales and second hand stores. That, to me, means they probably don’t have a lot of resale value, though would depend on brand obviously. Look up new value and half that (bc clubs often go on sale half off before new line comes out) then consider half to 75% of that. Were you asking about camera equipment on last thread? Older camera equipment is collectible now. Can you find a camera store in your area? I have bought,traded and sold camera equipment before at a camera store. (I am in big city with an actual camera store. You may not have in your area.)
  12. I sell antiques/vintage items and attend a lot of estate sales and have friends in the industry I don’t know how most could do an accurate inventory. If there are enough items for an estate sale, there is generally a lot of stuff! Like boxes of old magazine, books, tools, etc. It is also hard for family to say what might sell. Using two items OP mentioned - walkmans are actually collectible right now, while Toby mugs are a dime a dozen at many second hand stores right now. Magazines from the the ‘60s and ‘70s are collectible, while newer ones aren’t. But people buy odd things at estate sales. Some people go to buy things like household cleaning items for cheap, so - yeah, there is a market for that. Some people go to look for new bedding, while another person (like me) would be looking for, say, old tea towels. A good estate sale will attract both type of shoppers. You cant plan on getting top dollar for everything. Yes, some items will sell for a good price while others will practically be given away. Think, everything balances out in the end. An estate sale is about convenience for the family. A quick way to clear out a house. There are several large franchise estate sale companies that have good reputations. Look at For households with large collections - like above mentioned records or books where some might be highly collectible or first edition - a good company will sort through and pull some out to price higher. Just yesterday, I was at a sale with thousands of great books. Maybe 100 were pulled out and priced individually while the rest were $2 hardback and $1 paperback. Yes, they are likely to miss a few treasures, but again - getting top dollar for everything isn’t the goal of an estate sale. Most people in the business have an eye for certain categories, like ceramics or books, and can tell with a quick glance what items may be worth more.
  13. I was hospitalized earlier this month for mental,health reasons and to be monitored during a medication change. I am in a suburb of one of the largest cities in US. I was in the local ER for half a day, then transported an hour away to the nearest facility. A good freind’s daughter attempted suicide in a large socially progressive city almost two years ago. It took them forever to find a facility for a teen, and then it was over an hour away. I cannot even imagine what it is like in rural areas when options are so awful in large cities!
  14. DS has severe aphasia from cerebral palsy. We found that a foreign language actually helped his English skills. I don’t know if it would be the same with dyslexia. But I would be hesitant to write it off in 9th grade. DS is now continuing his language of choice in community college with accommodations and is doing very well with it.
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