Arcadia Posted April 8, 2022 Share Posted April 8, 2022 (edited) Edited: My mom passed away peacefully. My maternal cousins are helping my dad with all the legalities. My entry permit is approved by the immigration there. Flying tonight 17hrs non stop. ETA: PCR rapid test done at SFO. Negative so all required documents done. While on the pricy side, the process is very efficient. They use Abbott machines. ETA: reached. Now at immigration for special case clearance. Edited April 13, 2022 by Arcadia 2 34 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kassia Posted April 8, 2022 Share Posted April 8, 2022 Sending lots of positive thoughts for your mom! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted April 8, 2022 Share Posted April 8, 2022 Praying she’s feeling better soon and all is quickly managed by the doctors ! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted April 8, 2022 Share Posted April 8, 2022 Oh no sending positive thoughts hugs 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilaclady Posted April 8, 2022 Share Posted April 8, 2022 Prayers for your parents and the healthcare team. That she is able to get a bed and her better soon. Lots of hugs 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katy Posted April 8, 2022 Share Posted April 8, 2022 Praying 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tenaj Posted April 8, 2022 Share Posted April 8, 2022 Prayers 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pawz4me Posted April 8, 2022 Share Posted April 8, 2022 Lots of good thoughts heading your mom's way. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mmasc Posted April 8, 2022 Share Posted April 8, 2022 Prayers lifted up for your mom. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa Louise Posted April 8, 2022 Share Posted April 8, 2022 Sending good thoughts for your mum. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MEmama Posted April 8, 2022 Share Posted April 8, 2022 I hope she gets the treatment she needs! ((Hugs)) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Arcadia Posted April 9, 2022 Author Share Posted April 9, 2022 My mom feel so bad that she ask my dad to look into nursing homes. My dad said she was crying 😭 (not US) For nursing homes as well as home based help, they charge based on type of housing as well as summation of children’s income. My dad is worried they will ask about my husband’s pay 😞 which means my mom would only be eligible for the expensive private nursing homes and not the midrange ones. 18 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TravelingChris Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 Praying that everything is resolved well and that she feels better.. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyoffive Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 sending all the prayers her way 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 Praying for your mom!!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 sending more positive thoughts huge hugs 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ausmumof3 Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 Praying for your parents 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arcadia Posted April 10, 2022 Author Share Posted April 10, 2022 (edited) Bumping because my mom is still not doing well 😞 Thanks all of you ETA: She is losing her will to live. My country of origin still have strict travel restrictions. My dad is hoping for the best and expecting the worse. Edited April 10, 2022 by Arcadia 29 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MercyA Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 Praying right now! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa Louise Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 Thinking of her. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corraleno Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 I'm so sorry Arcadia. Sending positive thoughts for your mom and hugs for you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drama Llama Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 Still praying! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storygirl Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 I'm sorry. I hope that she can start to improve. Praying for you and your mom and your family. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 I’m so sorry, Arcadia — I will keep praying for your mom. I wish you were able to go there and see her. 😞 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arcadia Posted April 10, 2022 Author Share Posted April 10, 2022 (edited) 12 hours ago, Catwoman said: I’m so sorry, Arcadia — I will keep praying for your mom. I wish you were able to go there and see her. 😞 The flight back is 17hours and I would have to quarantine for 7 days on arrival. ETA: I would also need to apply for a visa (country of origin do not allow dual citizenship) and buy $30k worth of covid travel insurance before flying Edited April 10, 2022 by Arcadia 2 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spryte Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 I’m so sorry. Your family is in my thoughts! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carol in Cal. Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 Praying right now. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura Corin Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 Best wishes to your whole family. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frances Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 Thinking of you and your family and sending healing thoughts to your mom. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 continuing to send positive thoughts for you and your parents. hugs 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 Thinking of your family 🙏 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathy in Richmond Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 Praying for your mom's health and for your whole family, Arcadia! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
footballmom Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 Praying for your mom, you and your family 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maize Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 I am praying for your mom this morning. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Innisfree Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 Thinking of your mom and your whole family. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DawnM Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 Prayers for healing. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkTulip Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 Praying for all of you today. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Selkie Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 (((Arcadia))) Sending good thoughts for your mom. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JennyD Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 I am so sorry. Holding your mom and your whole family in my thoughts. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arcadia Posted April 10, 2022 Author Share Posted April 10, 2022 (edited) The doctors are going to try one last bag of IV medications. If it doesn’t work, they will just let my mom slowly pass away. My dad called me and thinks there isn’t a point in me flying back now. ETA: The unspoken reason is I am the weakest person in my extended family and my relatives are probably scared I would fall sick on the 17hr nonstop flight back. Edited April 10, 2022 by Arcadia 40 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storygirl Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 I'm very sorry things have gotten worse. I lost my own mother a little over a year ago. We also knew that the end was coming. My heart goes out to you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wintermom Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 I'm so sorry. It's really hard being far away from parents who are ill. I just went through this with my dad. ((big hugs)) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ddcrook Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 I am so sorry. Prayers for your family. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyoffive Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 Oh I am so so sorry. I am sending so many prayers to your mom. Thinking of your whole family now and sending you some hugs. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KSera Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 I’m so sorry. Prayers for you and your family. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prairiewindmomma Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 I am so sorry, Arcadia. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mlktwins Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear this news!!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kassia Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 Oh, I just saw the latest. I am so very sorry. 😞 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spryte Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 Oh no. I’m so sorry. Sending hugs. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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