DaffodilDreams Posted April 26, 2013 Share Posted April 26, 2013 Thinking of you, Bill, and hoping you're still seeing signs that allow you to feel "cautiously optimistic". I hope you can soon drop the "cautiously" part. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spy Car Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 Dear Friends, It is with deep regret that I wish to inform you that my father passed away on Saturday evening. It is impossible for me to make an adequate tribute to my father here at this time, but in the near future I will return and share some details of his extraordinary life. For now, let me just say that I was blessed to be by his side constantly since early Wednesday morning. That day, I sensed a change in him (even where his doctor's and nurses couldn't see it) and we entered hospice at a wonderful VA facility here in Los Angeles. I had the great opportunity to alert friends, family, and admirers of my father's in the cultural community, and they had the opportunity to gisit and show him their love and respect. My father was alert and aware until the end. I never left his side. We had a huge room with couches that pulled into beds, so I stayed by his side and held his hand while he slept, and tended him from Wednesday until Saturday when he passed. My bother Bob spent the last couple nights with us too, he (not) sleeping on one side of Dad's bed holding one hand, and me on the other side holding his other. While is was (and is) profoundly hard to lose him, his passing could not have been more beautiful. There are few things I wanted more in this world than to be at my father's side when the time came, holding his hard and telling him how much he was loved. I feel extremely blessed that I had this chance. My dad and I were so close. We spoke almost everyday of my life. He nurtured me, and so many others. It was so moving in the final hours how may significant people came forward and spoke about my dad being the person who recognized their talents and encouraged them to achieve their greatness. Forgive me if I leave this post at that for now. Between serious lack of sleep, the numerous people I need to reach out to, and arrangements that need to be made, I don't expect to have much time. I'm sorry to bring sorrow to the forum, but I appreciate all the kindness you all have extended in the past, and felt it was right to let you know. Peace to all, Bill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudoMom Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 Dear Friends, It is with deep regret that I wish to inform you that my father passed away on Saturday evening. It is impossible for me to make an adequate tribute to my father here at this time, but in the near future I will return and share some details of his extraordinary life. For now, let me just say that I was blessed to be my his side constantly since early Wednesday morning. That day, I sensed a change in him (even where his doctor's and nurses couldn't see it) and we entered hospice at a wonderful VA facility here in Los Angeles. I had the great opportunity to alert friends, family, and admirers of my father's in the cultural community, and they had the opportunity to show him their love and respect. My father was alert and aware until the end. I never left his side. We had a huge room with couches that pulled into beds, so I stayed by his side and held his hand while he slept, and tended him from Wednesday until Saturady when he passed. My bother Bob spent the last couple nights with us too, he (not) sleeping on one side of Dad's bed holding one hand, and me on the other side holding his other. While is was (and is) profoundly hard to loose him, his passing could not have been more beautiful. There are few things I wanted more in this world that to be at my father's side, holding his hard and telling him how much he was loved. I feel extremely blessed that I had this chance. My dad and I were so close. We spoke almost everyday of my life. He nurtured me, and so many others. It was so moving in the final hours how may significant people came forward and spoke about my dad being the person who recognized their talents and encouraged them to achieve their greatness. Forgive me if I leave this post at that for now. Between serious lack of sleep, the numerous people I need to reach out to, and arrangements that need to be made, I don't expect to have much time. I'm sorry to bring sorrow to the forum, but appreciate all the kindness you all have extended in the past, and felt it was right to let you know. Peace to all, Bill I'm so sorry, Bill. It sounds like he was a fabulous father and man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
unsinkable Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 (((Bill))) I'm so sorry. How precious it must be to have been with your Dad until the end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Peregrine Posted June 4, 2013 Author Share Posted June 4, 2013 Sorry to hear this, Bill. ((((Spy Car and family)))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 Bill, I am so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dana Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 (Hugs) Very sorry for your loss. Glad you were able to be with your father at the end and he knew your love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caroline Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 Bill, I am so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura Corin Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 I'm sorry to hear this, Bill. My best wishes to you and your family. Laura Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
********* Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 I'm glad you were there with him, Bill. And I'm sorry for the pain you're in now. You know this is a topic dear to my heart right now; mercy, grace, and peace to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catz Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 I'm so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Lulu* Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 I am so sorry for your loss. I agree there can be much peace found in those moments of saying goodbye; I am glad you had that opportunity. May that peace extend into this time of remembrance for you and your family. (((Bill))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
texasmama Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 What a beautiful tribute to your father. I am so sorry for your loss and am so glad that you were able to share those last precious days with him. (((hugs))) Peace to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TN Mama Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 I am so very sorry to hear of your father's passing. So thankful that you and your brother were able to be by his side. Hugs to you & yours. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayne J Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 I am so sorry Bill. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mekanamom Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 I'm so sorry, Bill. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elfgivas Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 we share the joys; tis only right that we share the sorrows, too... we're about an hour north of you if you need anything.... ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alte Veste Academy Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 (((((((Bill))))))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lllll Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlmiraGulch Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 I'm so sorry for your loss, Bill. Your story of his passing, though, is beautiful, and I can only hope to be given the gift of sharing that time with my loved ones when they go. Take care of yourself. All my best to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QuirkyKapers Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 I'm sorry for your loss. I am glad that you were able to be with your dad until he passed. :grouphug: :grouphug: as you work through the changes happening in your life now that he is gone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen500 Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 I'm sorry for your loss, Bill. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Florida. Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 I'm so sorry for your loss, Bill. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azucena Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 So sorry for your loss - and yet happy for you that his end was peaceful and surrounded by love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amo_mea_filiis. Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 I'm so sorry, Bill. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirty ethel rackham Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 Bill, I am so sorry for your loss. Praying for peace and comfort during this difficult time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheApprentice Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 Sorry for your loss. But there is comfort in knowing you were there with him and that is was beautiful and something you wont' regret. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosie_0801 Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meriwether Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 :grouphug: I'm sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pod's mum Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 What a wonderful sign out. It is special. Thinking of you, your Dad and his extended family Bill. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: How lovely that you were with him till the end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest inoubliable Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 So sorry to hear this, Bill. Best wishes to you and your family. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 :grouphug: Bill, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know you will miss your father, and am sorry for the grief you bear. I am glad that his passing was full of love and friendship for both of you, glad that you were there with him. I will pray for you and your loved ones in the days to come. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garddwr Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 I am sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delighted3 Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 Bill, I am so sorry for your loss. It is so painful to lose a beloved parent. :grouphug: Joy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinder Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denise in IN Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 I'm so sorry for your loss. May you have peace in the days ahead. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eagle Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 What a beautiful description of your father's last days spent surrounded by love. I am so very sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slartibartfast Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 I am deeply sorry for your loss. I am glad, for you, that his passing was peaceful and filled with love. There is little comfort one can provide after such a loss, but I hope that the world goes a little easy on you and yours during this time of grief. It is lovely that your father touched so many others, that his footprint left on this earth may be a deep one, long felt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 Bill, I am so sorry to read this news. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathy in Richmond Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 {{{Bill}}} Your beautiful story brought tears to my eyes. I know how difficult it is to lose such a dear father. So sorry for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jane in NC Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 Clearly he was an extraordinary man with extraordinary sons. Peace to all within your family. Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessMommy Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 so sorry for your loss. What a lovely tribute you've written here. May he rest in peace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassenach Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 My deepest sympathies, Bill. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 :grouphug: I'm sorry, Bill. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HRAAB Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 I'm so sorry for your loss. Your father sounds like a extraordinary man evidenced by the support he had from family and friends. Peace to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErinE Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 Bill, you and your family have my deepest sympathy. From your lovely tribute, he sounds like a wonderful man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
unfrumpable. Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 I'm so sorry for your loss, Bill. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twinmom Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 Bill, I am so sorry for your loss and I am praying for you and your family. Rejoicing with you that you were able to be at his side as you desired and that you have those memories to sustain you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cricket Posted June 4, 2013 Share Posted June 4, 2013 So sorry to hear of your loss. I'm sure you and your brother were a great comfort to him. Having such a close relationship with your father is a wonderful gift! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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