Audrey Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 I'd like to thank everyone who offered their prayers for my friend Jackie. There are many wonderful people on this forum who, no matter their religion, creed, race, nationality, gender or other realities are truly sincere and kind people. I have been on these boards since the old format and have always known that. In that regard, I am not sorry I asked, even if my asking has offended some others so much that they felt the need to trash me on another forum for having asked. To those people, I simply wish you peace. If having asked for prayers for a friend makes you think me wicked or a hypocrite, that is fine for you to think that. I don't believe you, but then, as you are aware, I don't believe a lot of things. I do, however, believe that whenever someone offers sincere kindness, it makes a difference. So all those people who are kind and sincere and offered a simple kindness with their prayers? They made a difference to Jackie. And, I won't make apologies or excuses for having asked for that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reflections Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm sorry, Audrey. FWIW I think you rock!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleIzumi Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm sorry, Audrey. FWIW I think you rock!!! :iagree::iagree::iagree: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
milovany Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 (edited) Eek. That's just weird that anyone would think ill of you for asking for prayers for a friend. Wild. Thanks for blessing your friend, Audrey. Edited October 24, 2012 by milovaný Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassenach Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 What the heck? How does anyone have the time for that sort of crap? Audrey, I saw your request and prayed. I was happy to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Fairy Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 Your friend is lucky to have you. Stepping outside of your comfort zone to support her is wicked and hypocritical? I wish I had more wicked and hypocritical friends. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoughCollie Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 I do, however, believe that whenever someone offers sincere kindness, it makes a difference. So all those people who are kind and sincere and offered a simple kindness with their prayers? They made a difference to Jackie. And, I won't make apologies or excuses for having asked for that. Gosh, you shouldn't have to. I thought it was great when you asked for prayers for your friend. Really great. I admire you for having done so. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swellmomma Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 You were trashed on another forum for asking for prayers for a friend? That's not right. I am glad to hear the prayers are/were helping your friend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 (edited) I can't think of a more horrible thing to do to another human being. D*** * to THOSE people* This is a diverse board of people with different areas of expertise. Audrey simply saw this need outside of her area of expertise and asked for help for a hurting friend. Many people on this board do that. Audrey, I'm sorry. Edited October 24, 2012 by elegantlion Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Live2Ride Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 I am always amazed at the boldness of others that do things like that....of course I can only imagine what they are saying about my recent post, lol...I wouldn't even know what other boards to visit. I don't have nearly enough time some days to even check this one! I hope your friend is doing better! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErinE Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 For a friend who believes, you asked for prayers. You respected her beliefs. Your friend would draw comfort from those kind thoughts and words. You did nothing wrong. So sorry you were criticized for your good deed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thescrappyhomeschooler Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 Your friend is lucky to have you. Stepping outside of your comfort zone to support her is wicked and hypocritical? I wish I had more wicked and hypocritical friends. :grouphug: :iagree: I don't follow any particular religion, but let me just say, that I have truly felt uplifted and surrounded by all the prayers that everyone has been saying for me these days. I literally feel surrounded by a cloud of good vibes and well wishes and healing strength and love. I am much more in contact with the spiritual/God/life force realm through all these prayers. If I can contribute in my way to someone else being lifted up in the same manner, I'm going to do it, regardless of their religious status. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheReader Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 I'm appalled that you were trashed for doing a kindness for your friend. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heather in Neverland Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 Someone trashed you on another forum for asking for PRAYERS???? I am speechless. :angry: :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twinmom Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 :grouphug: That's terrible. I think it was great that you asked for prayers for a friend to whom they would truly mean a lot. You demonstrated the true meaning of the word tolerance, IMHO! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joyofsixreboot Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 :grouphug:Sorry that this happened. I'm horrified someone of faith would be compelled to be hateful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amy g. Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 I just want to say that I'm still praying for your friend, and I've loved you since the old boards. What a model of grown up behavior you are in a sea of infants! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joanne Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer3141 Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 As an atheist, I hear the joke in my head about sandwiches instead of prayer when another pagan/atheist/humanist asks for prayers but if it made you feel better and/or your friend, cool. Going to another forum to whine about you, meh. That might be why people stop going to that other forum. Personally, I'm here to primarily discuss homeschooling. I'll delve into other stuff when the "spirit" moves me but as for going to another forum to complain about this forum? Who has time for that AND homeschooling? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 There's another forum? :confused:;) So sorry you had that experience. :grouphug: Gossip is evil. :grouphug: How is your friend, btw? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lizzie in Ma Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 I'd like to thank everyone who offered their prayers for my friend Jackie. There are many wonderful people on this forum who, no matter their religion, creed, race, nationality, gender or other realities are truly sincere and kind people. I have been on these boards since the old format and have always known that. In that regard, I am not sorry I asked, even if my asking has offended some others so much that they felt the need to trash me on another forum for having asked. To those people, I simply wish you peace. If having asked for prayers for a friend makes you think me wicked or a hypocrite, that is fine for you to think that. I don't believe you, but then, as you are aware, I don't believe a lot of things. I do, however, believe that whenever someone offers sincere kindness, it makes a difference. So all those people who are kind and sincere and offered a simple kindness with their prayers? They made a difference to Jackie. And, I won't make apologies or excuses for having asked for that. I can't believe someone trashed you for asking for prayers. In all the years I've been here, I rarely post personal stuff, but when I have, the response has always meant the world to me and warmed my heart in ways I can not describe. I think you are wonderful, I always have, and when you ask, I will always answer. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hunter's Moon Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 The world needs more people like you. Seriously. You don't believe in God or prayers but you have a friend wno does, and who finds great comfort in both. You put aside your own belief system, don't consider yourself at all, and step outside of your comfort zone to do something for a friend that you don't believe in yourself and maybe even feel umcomfortable about. But being a true friend with a heart of gold, you act. And then your loving and compassionate act gets you bashed on another forum, even though those other people know what YOUR personal belief system for YOU. Wow. What you did is about as unselfish as it gets. The people bashing you on another forum should be ashamed. I am sure you are just as kind there as you are here. Rise above is all I can say. It won't be hard as you clearly ARE the bigger person here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CalicoKat Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 Your friend is lucky to have you. Stepping outside of your comfort zone to support her is wicked and hypocritical? I wish I had more wicked and hypocritical friends. :grouphug: :iagree: I just saw your original note this a.m. and I thought, "What a great friend!" :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TN Mama Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm sorry people feel so insecure in themselves to have to resort to name calling. I believe in God and the power of prayer, and I happen to think your op was beautiful. Your friend is lucky to have you in her life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 Whoa. Personally, I think you did an awesome thing, asking for prayers for your friend. No, it's not *your* belief, but it's hers, and as you said in the other thread, it would bring HER comfort...which is the whole danged point, is it not? How anyone could crticize an unselfish act like that hurts my brain. And my heart. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nestof3 Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 Wow. It seems to me that for those people, claiming their religion is more important than actually following it. Please ask for prayers from me anytime. You are such a kind person -- they should be ashamed of themselves. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melmichigan Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm sorry, Audrey. FWIW I think you rock!!! :iagree: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen500 Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
In the Rain Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 Your friend is lucky to have you. Stepping outside of your comfort zone to support her is wicked and hypocritical? I wish I had more wicked and hypocritical friends. :grouphug: :iagree: :grouphug: I'm sorry you were trashed for helping comfort a friend. What's wrong with people? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hockey Mom Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 That is awful. I thought your request was a loving gesture. I hope your friend is doing well. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PollyOR Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 :grouphug: You have my admiration. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stacia Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 I think my response about those other people is unprintable. :grouphug:, Audrey, for you & Jackie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nukeswife Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 I think you asking for prayers for your friend was an awesome act of friendship. You were doing something that would mean a lot to her. I hope things are going better for your friend. You are a wonderful person and I've never known you to be anything but kind. I was totally taken aback by what I saw on that other forum about you. That's one of the things I love about this forum, we're all different, but I know I can come here for genuine support and kindness. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrothead Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 I'm simply gobsmacked! Good thing they went somewhere else and didn't spread their low down dirty rotten garbage here. Cowards! :grouphug: Audrey. Still praying for Jackie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Desert Rat Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 For a friend who believes, you asked for prayers. You respected her beliefs. Your friend would draw comfort from those kind thoughts and words. You did nothing wrong. So sorry you were criticized for your good deed. :iagree: And I have done the same thing, ask for prayers as a non-Christian. I'm sorry you caught grief for it. You are one of my favorites here. I think you approach others with honesty and integrity. Please don't let a few meanies stop you from showing kindness to others. I hope Jackie continues to be comforted. You are a good friend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Avila Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 Audrey, I prayed. I don't always post, but I pray when I see requests. Please let us know how she is doing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I talk to the trees Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 Audrey, how terrible that someone would respond in that manner to your kind, caring request! Shame on them! I don't often reply to the "Please Pray" threads, but usually take a moment to pray whenever I read them, as I did in this case. I am glad to hear that Jackie was comforted by the prayers and good thoughts sent by people on the board! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommymilkies Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 You were trashed on another forum for asking for prayers for a friend? That's not right. I am glad to hear the prayers are/were helping your friend. :iagree: Seriously! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GWOB Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 Really? Someone really had the audacity to follow you to another board and trash you? For asking for prayers?!?! REALLY?!?! That's klassy:glare:. FWIW, I wasn't offended AT ALL by your request. I've been thinking of your friend since you posted. I suppose I will have to add the klassy person to my prayer list. And I still love ya! Your green hair and my blue hair rock! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juniper Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 I'm simply gobsmacked! Good thing they went somewhere else and didn't spread their low down dirty rotten garbage here. Cowards! :grouphug: Audrey. Still praying for Jackie. Just stunned! Okay, cannot comprehend would be a better way of putting it! Whenever I begin to think the boards are a bit rough....I get a wake up call. I love that I can rub minds with so many wonderful, albeit different from me, people. My world is so much more vivid, because of many of you here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cindy in FL. Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 I thought it was wonderful that you cared so much for your friend that you would solicit prayers on her behalf. Sorry that you were given grief for it. I am praying for Jackie. Cindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 I can't imagine that anyone would trash a person for asking for prayers for a friend. Personally, I thought it was particularly touching that you asked on her behalf, even though your beliefs are different. It takes an amazing friend to put her friend's needs and beliefs before her own, and I truly believe that you did an absolutely lovely thing, Audrey. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justLisa Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 Wow, they sound like a stellar bunch :glare: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Audrey Posted October 24, 2012 Author Share Posted October 24, 2012 Thanks. I wasn't really looking for a round of hugs, but they're appreciated very much. :D I don't post on that other forum, although I have an account there and have used the site for other things for years and years. The trashing was brought to my attention and I'm kind of sorry I read the first couple of pages. At first, I was a little ticked off that someone would think my intentions in asking for prayer were nefarious. But mostly I was sad, because they painted whole huge groups of people with a really broad brush, including themselves (although I'm sure they don't realise that). This isn't my first rodeo, though. ;) I know there are people out there who will d**n anything I say or do just because of who I am, but I don't take it personally (mostly) because I also KNOW that there are great people in all walks. There's several hundred reasons why I asked for prayers for Jackie here. And, y'all know who you are. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 *mwah* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyCrazyMama Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 You were trashed on another forum for asking for prayers for a friend? That's not right. I am glad to hear the prayers are/were helping your friend. :confused: Yep, they'll know we are Christians by our love.:glare: I didn't post in the first thread but I'm still praying for your friend.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DianeW88 Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 Someone trashed you on another forum for asking for PRAYERS???? I am speechless. :angry: :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: :iagree: I hope whoever that was, is not professing to be a person of faith. Their actions clearly demonstrate that they are not. Sad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GWOB Posted October 24, 2012 Share Posted October 24, 2012 I figured out what forum it was:glare:. I left that forum about 3 weeks after I joined. I just couldn't deal with all the haterade those ladies were drinking. Bless their hearts;). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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