********* Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 Dad's ARDS (acute respitory distress syndrome) got worse today. The cardiologist estimates dad has a 5% chance of recovering. Mom is 'giving dad the weekend'. Apparently that means she isn't ready/willing to go to hospice care over the weekend. She and I spoke about setting up a meeting on Monday or Tuesday for that. She signed a DNR for dad today. Honestly, I think she's hoping he dies this weekend so she doesn't have to officially make the hospice decision. I don't blame her. My 11th wedding anniversarry is tomorrow. I cancelled babysitting with my SIL. I'm just not up to going out. I'm going to go be with dad all day on Sunday. If he's still here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1bassoon Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug: So sorry, Bethany. I know we all say that over and over - but really, it's true. Wish I could give you a hug in real life. And pray with you. :grouphug: again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danestress Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 It is a very hard thing to go through - and hard on relationships with other family members sometimes. (((((Bethany)))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twilight Woods Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i.love.lucy Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 Bethany, :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:. I am so sorry! My prayers are with your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mama Geek Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessMommy Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 I'm so, so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 I'm so very sorry, sweetie. I really wish this wasn't happening.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Desert Rat Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 Oh, Bethany, my heart is just breaking for you. I think this is the hardest part. It's the limbo. And the waiting. I'm so, so sorry. Rest in your faith. Feel free to PM me any time. I've just been through it. And I'm so sorry you have to, too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happi duck Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catz Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm so sorry, Bethany. I kept thinking that because he is only 56, that he would have had a great chance at recovery, but my brother passed away at the same age, so I guess none of us can really predict what will happen. I kept praying for a miracle for your dad, though, and I guess now the best thing to pray for is that if he has to pass away, that it will be very peaceful and painless for him. I wish I had some words of comfort for you, but I know that nothing anyone says can help right now. I feel so sad for you and your family, and will pray for your strength, peace, and comfort. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenny in Florida Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 Thinking of you, your dad and your family, Bethany. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirch Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elinor Everywhere Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 I'm so, so, sorry. :grouphug::grouphug: I know what you're going through....wish I could help in some way. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Denise in IN Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 Bethany, I'm just so, so sorry and so very sad for you. There are no adequate words, but I know that your hope is in the Lord. He knows your heart cries and walks the path before and with you. I am continuing to pray for you and your family. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forget-Me-Not Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug: I'm very sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fraidycat Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosie_0801 Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HollyB Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melmichigan Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug: There just aren't words, I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newlifemom Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom4him Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug: I am so sorry. It is a hard place to be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoughCollie Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Plink Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 Praying for you and your family this morning :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 Tons of hugs :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reflections Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pdalley Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug: Praying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freeindeed Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug: Prayers for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug: Bethany, I'm so so sorry. I'm still praying for you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lulubelle Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 Sorry for your family going through such a difficult time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Night Elf Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug: I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amyable Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: I'm so sorry. Sending more prayers and love your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 Bethany -- I am so sorry. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 How awful. I'm so very, very sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mommyfaithe Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug: So sorry, Bethany. I know we all say that over and over - but really, it's true. Wish I could give you a hug in real life. And pray with you. :grouphug: again :iagree: And I am sending many, many:grouphug:'s as well. I wish I could be there in person to help you out, but I am with you in love and spirit. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HollyDay Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug: I am so sorry. We went through similar decisions for my father early last spring. It was very difficult. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
celticmom Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jayb842 Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug: prays for your family!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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happyhomemaker Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: I'm so very sorry. I will continue to pray for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justLisa Posted September 15, 2012 Share Posted September 15, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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