Joanne Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 7 years ago, when I was a struggling single mom, I met him. He respected, and supported, my rules about dating as a single mom. He respected my rules about intimacy. He respected my rules about dating (only when xh had the kids and some other stuff). When introducing him to the kids was possible (met my criteria), he cried that I had given him the honor. Right there in CiCi's, he cried. He was over at the house one weekend. He was trying to help with outside projects. I didn't have the correct tools/stuff. He took the boys, went to Home Depot and returned with the boys ;) and an outdoor broom, a quality rake, and some basic tools. He taught the boys how to build, fix things, take care of tools. He coached baseball 4 seasons, for both boys. He earned money purposely to buy a keyboard for my dd (who can't do sports). He went to my dd's JRA Doctor's appointment. He took my dd to see Taylor Swift. He made me watch sappy movies that made me cry (Christmas shoes? What's the POINT of all that emoting?) When financial burdens were imposed on us, he took any and all odd jobs he could. He designed alarm systems. He put siding on a home. He ran firework stands. He drove school buses. He planned family outings: a fishing contest, a trip to Six Flags, a trip to the amusement park in Houston before it closed, a trip to Schlitterbahn. Movies. He taught me how to play Texas Hold Em. He is THE REASON I am a therapist. Once, when he was listening to me on the phone counseling a woman about parenting, he asked me incredulously why WASN'T I DOING THAT FOR A LIVING. Finally, we made things happen to make me getting my Masters a priority. He supported and cheered me on every single day I was a student, including my final semester in which he was getting very sick. He began his own Masters. He was going to be a Chaplain at a hospital, nursing home, etc. And, tomorrow, he goes in one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soonermomma Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: I can't even imagine how tough this is for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little Nyssa Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: Joanne :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alenee Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 Joanne, What a beautiful tribute. I am so sorry. I pray for God's mercy upon you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cammie Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: He is an amazing man. I am sorry you are going through such a difficult time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corraleno Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :crying: That is beyond heartbreaking. I am so so sorry, Joanne. :grouphug: Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DianeW88 Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :crying: :grouphug: My heart is breaking for you. I'm so, so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Murphy101 Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::crying: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenn in FL Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 (edited) :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: This board has been the collective recipient of your words, and your wisdom, and your occasional wry humor for more than a decade. We are all so fortunate to have crossed paths with you. I shall be forever grateful for almost everything that you have written and shared over the years. Your candor and honesty is unparalleled. We are all fortunate to have shared your insights, and your sorrows, and every so often, your victories. Do you remember the board euphoria that spread like wildfire when you married Adrian? There was cheering in the streets that night. Your tribute was heartfelt and heartwrenching. I simply cannot fathom just how many collective hearts and minds are absolutely aching with you tonight. We love you and we are here. May God give you strength and peace to cope with yet another unimaginable burden. Jen Edited June 26, 2012 by Jenn in FL typo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myfunnybunch Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: Oh, Joanne. :grouphug: I'll be praying for you all tomorrow. Cat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amber in AUS Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 He sounds like an incredible man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeidiKC Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 Both wonderful and heartbreaking. What great people you both are. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ibbygirl Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 Oh Joanne! I have no words. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ailaena Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 Thank you for sharing this; I feel so helpless that this is all I can do... :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhotoGal Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JennyB Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: This board has been the collective recipient of your words, and your wisdom, and your occasional wry humor for more than a decade. We are all so fortunate to have crossed paths with you. I personally shall be forever grateful for almost everything that you have written and shared over the years. Your candor and honesty is unparalleled. We are all fortunate to have shared your insights, and your sorrows, and every so often your victories. Do you remember the board euphoria that spread like wildfire when you married Adrian? There was cheering in the streets that night. Your tribute was heartfelt and heartwrenching. I simply cannot fathom just how many collective hearts and minds are absolutely aching with you tonight. We love you and we are here. May God give you strength and peace to cope with yet another unimaginable burden. Jen :iagree: I will continue to pray for your family. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UmMusa Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 That is so touching. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirch Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: I'm so, so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mumto2 Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug:I am so sorry this is happening to both of you. Your tribute was absolutely lovely.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 That was an amazing description. The love you have for him really comes through. I am so sorry. My heart is breaking. For all of you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lara in Colo Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 You have said it all, and your love shines through. Lara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomandlorih Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fraidycat Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: I can't begin to imagine the pain you are going through. All I can offer is cyberhugs and prayers. :grouphug: It seems so inadequate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosie_0801 Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 Sounds like a top bloke. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StaceyinLA Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tress Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 You have an amazing husband! I'm so so sorry he is so ill. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Free Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 What a lovely tribute indeed. Thank you for sharing Joanne. :grouphug: to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annabel Lee Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 Joanne, :crying: I'm so sorry and will pray for your family. He sounds wonderful, a perfect compliment to your caring nature. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kolamum Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: Joanne, I can only imagine how difficult this is for you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cassy Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 Your tribute was heartfelt and heartwrenching. I simply cannot fathom just how many collective hearts and minds are absolutely aching with you tonight. We love you and we are here. May God give you strength and peace to cope with yet another unimaginable burden. Yes, this. I'm so very sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ksr5377 Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hannah Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 That is beautiful Joanne. Wishing you continued strength. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bettyandbob Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WishboneDawn Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 He sounds like a wonderful man. I'm thankful you shared him with us. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudoMom Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
linders Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: You grace each other. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alessandra Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Your tribute was heartfelt and heartwrenching. I simply cannot fathom just how many collective hearts and minds are absolutely aching with you tonight. Jen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kelly1730 Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 A beautiful tribute, thank you for sharing. I'm so sorry for this heartache :grouphug:. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Down_the_Rabbit_Hole Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 There are no words I can say... :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FaithManor Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: This board has been the collective recipient of your words, and your wisdom, and your occasional wry humor for more than a decade. We are all so fortunate to have crossed paths with you. I shall be forever grateful for almost everything that you have written and shared over the years. Your candor and honesty is unparalleled. We are all fortunate to have shared your insights, and your sorrows, and every so often, your victories. Do you remember the board euphoria that spread like wildfire when you married Adrian? There was cheering in the streets that night. Your tribute was heartfelt and heartwrenching. I simply cannot fathom just how many collective hearts and minds are absolutely aching with you tonight. We love you and we are here. May God give you strength and peace to cope with yet another unimaginable burden. Jen THIS! You may be physically far away from me, but I hold you close in my heart. Faith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessMommy Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 I am so sorry this has happened. Thanks for sharing such a lovely tribute. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 Hugs and prayers, and appreciation for your sharing your story. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Keep writing, Joanne.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melissad2 Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :crying::grouphug::grouphug: What a sweet story. I am praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrothead Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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