Popular Post Pamela H in Texas Posted May 19, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted May 19, 2015 Today, TPR was granted. Our son's adoption should be late August or so. His name will be Benjamin Wyatt. We are very excited. We hope the parents get their lives together and can be healthy and happy one day. 67 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slache Posted May 19, 2015 Share Posted May 19, 2015 Congratulations! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ethel Mertz Posted May 19, 2015 Share Posted May 19, 2015 Yay! So glad this has gone through! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ikslo Posted May 19, 2015 Share Posted May 19, 2015 :party: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lizzie in Ma Posted May 19, 2015 Share Posted May 19, 2015 So happy for you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
indigomama Posted May 19, 2015 Share Posted May 19, 2015 Congratulations! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mumto2 Posted May 19, 2015 Share Posted May 19, 2015 Congratulations! :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TammyinTN Posted May 19, 2015 Share Posted May 19, 2015 Fabulous and congratulations. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HS Mom in NC Posted May 19, 2015 Share Posted May 19, 2015 Congratulations! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FaithManor Posted May 19, 2015 Share Posted May 19, 2015 Congratulations! I love his name by the way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liz CA Posted May 19, 2015 Share Posted May 19, 2015 Congratulations! And special Blessings for families like you who make room for a child who needs a real home. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScoutTN Posted May 19, 2015 Share Posted May 19, 2015 Yes, congratulations!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted May 19, 2015 Share Posted May 19, 2015 Awww! Congratulations! How wonderful! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted May 19, 2015 Share Posted May 19, 2015 :hurray: :hurray: :hurray: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Susan in TN Posted May 19, 2015 Share Posted May 19, 2015 Wonderful! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trulycrabby Posted May 19, 2015 Share Posted May 19, 2015 :party: :hurray: Wonderful news! Congratulations! :hurray: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Tick Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Yay! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Ottakee Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Congrats. So happy you can finalize so quickly. We had to wait 2 years after TPR due to appeals and bio relatives out of state. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlessedMom Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Congrats!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katy Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Congratulations! I LOVE his name! We're considering foster-adopt after several years of repeated miscarriages trying to complete our family, so I'm so happy to hear that the process worked out well, and I'm thrilled little Benjamin will now have such a wonderful family! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rachel Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Congratulations and I LOVE his name! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimberly in IN Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Congratulations! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cindy in FL. Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 That is awesome! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RioSamba Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Congratulations! Benjamin is such a sweet name! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eagle Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Congratulations! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 :party: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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BlsdMama Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Congratulations! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pamela H in Texas Posted May 20, 2015 Author Share Posted May 20, 2015 Thank y'all so much. We are really so blessed and thankful. We have to get used to calling him his name rather than "Squishy" which is what we've used for ten months now. Crazy :)Ottakee, obviously, it is possible there could be that sort of hiccup but it isn't expected. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NorthwestMom Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Wonderful news! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LMV Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Congratulations! I hope everything is smooth sailing to adoption. In our experience, with DD15, once we got the TPR it was. All of the drama occurred during the three year plus TPR process between various appeals, and continuances. Ironically with DFD11 and DFD6 we thought it would all be much simpler because we didn't need a TPR (as both parents are sadly deceased and MGF is in full favor of us adopting) but DFD6's health problems have delayed everything. We're seriously considering waiving the subsidy so we can just finalize because it isn't like we aren't going to adopt her no matter what the rest of these tests do say and in one case I really think that the test will not change how we manage things now or really even in the future and will be difficult/painful for her so we would like to just skip it. Our pediatrician is in favor of that approach from a medical standpoint and while the geneticist thinks the test will be helpful even he admitted it is somewhat his own intellectual curiosity that would be helped. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pamela H in Texas Posted May 20, 2015 Author Share Posted May 20, 2015 Oh, we adopted the first kids with outstanding medical testing, but they qualified based on being a sibling group. Squishy qualifies for subsidy based on what is known though he is being followed by everyone and his brother. Now, we are going to leveling in June which is dependent on documentation. That will affect the amount of subsidy. But I'm not going to fight it. What they give us, they do. I just don't care that much. I almost didn't bother. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenn&charles Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Congrats!!! Yay! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ottakee Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 We're seriously considering waiving the subsidy so we can just finalize because it isn't like we aren't going to adopt her no matter what the rest of these tests do say and in one case I really think that the test will not change how we manage things now or really even in the future and will be difficult/painful for her so we would like to just skip it. Our pediatrician is in favor of that approach from a medical standpoint and while the geneticist thinks the test will be helpful even he admitted it is somewhat his own intellectual curiosity that would be helped. I would highly suggest AGAINST that. I have known families that have waived the subsidy and then years later something comes up where the subsidy would have been extremely beneficial. It isn't just about the money but about the services that having the subsidy opens up to you.........at least here in Michigan that is the case. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
momto10blessings Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Congrats. Love his name! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pamela H in Texas Posted May 20, 2015 Author Share Posted May 20, 2015 preview of Benjamin Wyatt :) 45 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Those cheeks! :) Congratulations! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spryte Posted May 20, 2015 Share Posted May 20, 2015 Gorgeous!!!! What a beautiful person!!!! A huge congrats to you, and hopes that it's all a smooth, easy ride to finalization! So, so happy for you. :) Sending out warm thoughts to his biofamily, and hoping that they all find peace and a path to a better, more stable life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PuddleJumper1 Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 Absolutely Adorable!! Congratulations! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 Adorable. Congratulations. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Susan in TN Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 Hello Sweet Baby! What a cutie! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hkpiano Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 Oh my gosh! He is so sweet! Congratulations! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gingersmom Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 He's beautiful!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pam in CT Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 Awww...he's gorgeous!! Blessings to you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evergreen State Sue Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 He's beautiful . . . and he looks like you! Perfect addition to your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 Congrats! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TammyinTN Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 He's adorable!! :001_wub: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Renai Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 Oh, my word, what a charmer! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mumto2 Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 Such a cutie! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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