Joanne Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 Without going into details, I have had to ask Adrian to move out. I've tried for months to respond with grace to the manifestations of the reduced brain function and maturity. I can't anymore. He's made a series of decisions that I can't, literally, life with. I never wanted one failed marriage. I certainly never wanted 2. I will never, ever, ever willingly live with another adult. Plan is to get these kids into adulthood, into their lives and to build my career for the couple of decades I hope to be healthy enough to work. I am going to be more fully considering my Ph. D. options. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danestress Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 (((Joanne))) hugs to you tonight. I am sure your decision was a hard one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happypamama Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 Joanne, just (((HUGS))). I'm sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenCat Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 So many :grouphug: s for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freckles Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest inoubliable Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 Oh, Joanne. :( Big hugs and lots of love to you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reflections Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perry Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 I'm sorry. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandelion Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 I'm sorry, Joanne. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosie_0801 Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tex-mex Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1bassoon Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 :grouphug: What a long, long road you've traveled. I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PachiSusan Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 Joanne, I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justamouse Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 OMG, I am so sorry. I can't imagine how hard that decision was for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirch Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 I'm so sorry, Joanne. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellie Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Oh, honey girl, I'm so sorry. :sad: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Lulu* Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 I know that there was nothing easy about that choice. (((Hugs))) I am so sorry you were in a position where it was necessary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eagle Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 *hugs* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thescrappyhomeschooler Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 I'm very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caitilin Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 So sorry, Joanne. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom-2-7 Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elfgivas Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 sometimes there are no good choices left, and we just need to choose the least bad one. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bang!Zoom! Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 I'm sorry Jo. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KrissiK Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 I'm so sorry, Joanne! You have been through so much! (( hugs)) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThisIsTheDay Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: Joanne, I am so sorry to hear this. To say things have been rough is such an understatement, and I'm sorry that you're going through this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MyLittleWonders Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 I'm so sorry Joanne. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heather in Neverland Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 With even just the small part we know of the story, no one can say that you have not gone above and beyond. I am so sorry it has ended this way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myfunnybunch Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 :grouphug: Joanne, I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gracesteacher Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 ((((HUGS))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crimson Wife Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Sending prayers/good vibes in your direction. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenny in Florida Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 I'm sorry, Joanne. I can imagine how difficult this is for you. I'll be thinking of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hannah Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MotherMayI Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: You have been through so much. I wish you peace and I hope you find some relief. I think Dr. Joanne has a very nice ring to it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unicorn. Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how difficult a decision that had to be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julie in CA Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 I'm very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carol in Cal. Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 Oh Joanne, this is awful, especially on top of everything else. I wish that we could just scoop you up and take care of you. It's not right that one person should have to bear so much. ((Joanne)) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Negin Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 So very sorry, Joanne. You've been such a help to so many of us here. I'm so sad to see you go though this. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
milovany Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 I'm sorry, Joanne. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ailaena Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SunnyDays Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 :grouphug: Joanne, I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how difficult that decision was. I pray you'll be filled with strength in the coming days. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mumto2 Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bettyandbob Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 I am sorry you have had to do this. As another poster said sometimes you can only choose the least bad option. Prayers for you as you move forward. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoughCollie Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessMommy Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 I'm so sorry you're going through this. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
athomemom Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 ((Hugs)) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna Posted January 21, 2013 Share Posted January 21, 2013 Joanne, so sorry you are going through this. Wishing you continued strength as you handle what lies ahead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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