If you are within 3 years (either side) of 50, how do you wear your hair? UPDATE

Ali in OR · February 5, 2016

Hitting the big milestone soon and contemplating cutting my hair a bit shorter than it's current mid-back length. It's too thin and my basic pony tail looks a bit limp and scraggily. Not going to go too short (still want a pony tail--I think a shorter tail will look cuter), but trying to figure out what it should look like when it's down. Maybe some hairdos are kinder to the aging face/body?

UPDATE: Went in this week and got 4-5" cut off the length of my hair--mid back to now at the top of my back. Kept the basic style the same--shorter near my face (just under chin) tapering to the shoulder length hair. Love it! So much happier with some of that length cut off. No one in my family noticed without being told, so not a drastic change.

Edited February 14, 2016 by Ali in OR

VaKim · February 5, 2016

I will be 50 this month. I'm personally going for the aging hippy look. Parted in the middle and long. :tongue_smilie:

Wait! I didn't bother to read that thread, so is hippy a bad word now?

Edited February 5, 2016 by VaKim

TechWife · February 5, 2016

I have a stacked bob. I've worn it like this for about 15 years and plan to keep it like this.

freesia · February 5, 2016

My is really long right now--mostly I pull it into a pony tail.

Hilltopmom · February 5, 2016

I'm growing out a pixie for the second time.

I love, love a very short pixie. But, alas, my husband hates it, & I cannot fit in time to get it cut every month, so I'm growing it out, likely just to a stacked bob.

I used to always have long straight hippie hair, but putting it up in a bun every day gives me a headache.

Scarlett · February 5, 2016

http://beauty.about.com/od/celebrityhairstyles/ss/Medium-Length-Hairstyles-for-Women-Over-50.htm#step3

I love this look. Long layers. Her hair doesn't look too think or too thin...so would work for lots of middle types of hair I think.

Scarlett · February 5, 2016

And this one as long as it is long enough for a pony tail. That is my number one requirement.

http://beauty.about.com/od/celebrityhairstyles/ss/Medium-Length-Hairstyles-for-Women-Over-50.htm#step14

Edited February 5, 2016 by Scarlett

Scarlett · February 5, 2016

http://beauty.about.com/od/celebrityhairstyles/ss/Medium-Length-Hairstyles-for-Women-Over-50.htm#step15

And this one is nice. Her hair looks thinner than mine.

happi duck · February 5, 2016

Long and often braided

Pawz4me · February 5, 2016

A Dorothy Hamill-ish wedge/bob type style that I've had for years. I get compliments on it all the time. And that's not an exaggeration -- people stop me in stores and walk up to my table in restaurants to ask about my haircut. I'm very fortunate to have found the perfect style for my hair, and I'm sticking with it!

HRAAB · February 5, 2016

http://beauty.about.com/od/celebrityhairstyles/ss/Medium-Length-Hairstyles-for-Women-Over-50.htm#step3

I love this look. Long layers. Her hair doesn't look too think or too thin...so would work for lots of middle types of hair I think.

I really like this one. Classy yet you could easily pull it back in a clip. Dh and I have an overnight date for Valentine's weekend, and I need to do something with this mop of hair. I think I'll take this picture.

wintermom · February 5, 2016

Why does age 50 become a factor for hair style? Is it some magic number? Will you change your style drastically every new decade? If so, maybe do it with themes. ;)

Carol in Cal. · February 5, 2016

I am 58 and I still wear my hair long.

I read once that once you're over 25 you're really too old for this; advice that I have been ignoring for over 25 years.

It's thinning somewhat, but it's wavy so it gives the illusion of volume. I'll take it!

February 5, 2016

Mine is so thin that people stopped telling me I should cut it and just assume that I already did.

I wear it in a bun that stays put with a single hair band most days or in a Gibson Tuck:

http://www.prettydesigns.com/hair-tutorials-gibson-tuck-hair-tutorials/

when I want to look nice. It also looks nice and tidy in a French Twist, which was sloppy and impractical when I had enough hair for the styles that look nice on younger women.

ETA: if I put all of my hair into a single braid, it is about as thick as one of my 8yo's sixteen cornrows, lol.

VaKim, I decided to go with "older gentleman" or "baby boomer" to describe my 60yo Babydaddy, but I personally like the way you wear your hair and wish I had enough left to do the same. :)

Edited February 5, 2016 by Guest

Scarlett · February 5, 2016

I have very thick hair and I wear it long but layered. Layer around my face is chin length. I get lots of compliments on it. My hair dresser says I don't have to go shorter just because I'm 50. :)

Night Elf · February 5, 2016

I just wear a pony tail. My hair is at the bottom of my shoulder blades so it's a long pony tail. I'm not interested in cutting it shorter yet.

Laura Corin · February 5, 2016

I have a bob (just below chin, no fringe) but am thinking about a Jamie Lee Curtis or a Judi Dench cut.

Edited February 5, 2016 by Laura Corin

amy g. · February 5, 2016

Long layers here too.

Ali in OR · February 5, 2016

http://beauty.about.com/od/celebrityhairstyles/ss/Medium-Length-Hairstyles-for-Women-Over-50.htm#step3

I love this look. Long layers. Her hair doesn't look too think or too thin...so would work for lots of middle types of hair I think.

Thanks for the link--very helpful! My hair has long layers now and one of my main questions was whether or not to keep layers of some sort--looks like the answer is yes. I just go to a cheap no-appointment kind of place to get my hair cut and they do a good job as long as I give pretty specific instructions. Will look through the pics carefully and see if I can find a good cut to copy.

umsami · February 5, 2016

Currently I have a chin length bob. It's been pixie short and to the top of my shoulders as well

Ali in OR · February 5, 2016

A Dorothy Hamill-ish wedge/bob type style that I've had for years. I get compliments on it all the time. And that's not an exaggeration -- people stop me in stores and walk up to my table in restaurants to ask about my haircut. I'm very fortunate to have found the perfect style for my hair, and I'm sticking with it!

I had this cut in my youth (as did my whole ice rink--I was a skater).

Wheres Toto · February 5, 2016

And this one as long as it is long enough for a pony tail. That is my number one requirement.

http://beauty.about.com/od/celebrityhairstyles/ss/Medium-Length-Hairstyles-for-Women-Over-50.htm#step14

Mine kind of looks like this from the front but I have full straight bangs and a center part. The rest of my hair is in long layers (cut using the ponytail method all over Pinterest). It's very very thick and wavy so short cuts make it look too full and frizzed out. I need the weight to keep it semi-controlled. It's about mid-back at it's longest point dry, hits my waist when wet.

I wear it in a low ponytail when it's wet and then pull it out when dry. I can't wear it in any real "up" hairdo because the weight will give me a headache.

I think I successfully added a semi-recent picture.

Azalea · February 5, 2016

My parental control filter thingy won't let me access the sites Scarlett linked! Are you guys being naughty?

Scarlett · February 5, 2016

My parental control filter thingy won't let me access the sites Scarlett linked! Are you guys being naughty?

Ha! No it is just hairstyles for women over 50.

Ali in OR · February 5, 2016

Why does age 50 become a factor for hair style? Is it some magic number? Will you change your style drastically every new decade? If so, maybe do it with themes. ;)

I think since the milestone is coming up anyway, I was struck by my youngest's comment that my hair is thinner than hers (she always had very thin hair but it's thickened up in the last few years), and that my ponytail is small and skimpy. I was thinking that this is a change--that my hair used to have a little more body. The website Scarlett linked above actually says that our hair loses body as we age, so maybe it's true. The comments just got me thinking that there may be a better cut for me and now may be the time for a change.

HRAAB · February 5, 2016

I have a bob (just below chin, no fringe) but am thinking about a Jamie Lee Curtis or a Judi Dench cut.

If I could get away with it, I would in a heartbeat. Those styles mean regular trips to the stylist, and I hate going to the beauty as much as I hate shopping.

Starr · February 5, 2016

Haha azalea, just pictures of hair styles on women over 50.

Azalea · February 5, 2016

Isn't it silly that my filter won't let that site through? It allows through plenty of things it really shouldn't. I'd like to see the pictures, so I will find a work around, I need a new hairdo, I'm 51.

TravelingChris · February 5, 2016

I have a bob with bangs, I just went to the hairstylist this week and got it cut shorter than before since it was looking too thin and I think aging me.

bettyandbob · February 5, 2016

My hair is shoulder length. I usually grow it until it's a few inches below and then cut it above the shoulder below the chin.

Often it's in a ponytail.

When it's not in a ponytail, I'll wear it side parted. The front is pulled back in one of three ways:

Headband

The front on both sides pulled back and secured in a small ponytail over the loose hair in back

Front sections on both sides pulled back and secured.

Often at the end of the day my hair will be in a ponytail because I don't like feeling of loose hair.

Shellydon · February 5, 2016

like this http://pophaircuts.com/12-stacked-bob-haircuts-short-hairstyle-trends/stacked-bob-hair-styles

CAMom · February 5, 2016

I'm 46 1/2. ;)

I wear mine in a stacked bob right around my jawline. It's the most flattering cut for me. I wish I could wear it around shoulder length but it just doesn't look good. :/

It's still close to what it is in my avatar photo...just a little bit shorter than that. That was taken just after my 45th birthday.

Edited February 5, 2016 by CAMom

SKL · February 5, 2016

Depending on how long it's been since my last professional haircut, my hair is anywhere between shoulder length and mid-back. The front is cut about eyebrow length and is theoretically "feathered back" (do they still call it that?) but in reality just hangs like bangs. :P I part in the middle. My hair is naturally somewhat wavy. But yeah, it is thinning as I get older, and looks scraggly if I go too long between haircuts. (Which I usually do.)

kewb · February 5, 2016

I will be turning 50 this year. I have always worn my hair short. Well, except for the 80's and early 90's when I was a big haired perm queen. I stopped coloring my hair last year and have never been happier.

gardenmom5 · February 5, 2016

My hair has yo-yo'd many times over the years. a couple years I finally decided - short hair is a huge hassle. (it was chin length). it has to be cut every month, and styled every day to look good. (unless it is super short - which I hate.) I've also decided it's elegant to wear long gray hair up in a french twist or chignon. (even if mine is on the messy side. thank you frizzy gray hair . . ..)

It is now long (into my shoulder blades) and I plan on at least another year before the trims are for maintaining length as opposed to evening ends.

I usually wear it up (there are sites online that give good suggestions for something different, or useful comb/picks for holding it up), or in a french braid. I will do a french twist with a comb if I want something dressier. (or a half -up if I want to show off my hair. . . . ) i loath hair in my face. I sleep in a french braid or a "half-up".

eta: my hair grows on the fast side (my stylist frequently expresses her disbelief with how fast it grows)

Edited February 5, 2016 by gardenmom5

regentrude · February 5, 2016

Bob, a bit shorter than shoulder length.

I don't want fuss. I want to be able to be done showering, hair washing, blow drying and getting dressed in ten minutes total- and still look professional.

Edited February 5, 2016 by regentrude

Alice · February 5, 2016

Mine is right about shoulder length. I has long layers but no bangs or layers around the face.

My big request to the hairdresser is always that I have to be able to read a book while drying my hair. I can't have a style that requires anything in the way of actual styling because I just won't do it.

Artichoke · February 5, 2016

I'm in my kid-forties and still have long hair. It's to my midback length and curly. Getting a devacut twice a year has kept it almost maintenance free.

February 5, 2016

http://beauty.about.com/od/celebrityhairstyles/ss/Medium-Length-Hairstyles-for-Women-Over-50.htm#step3

I love this look. Long layers. Her hair doesn't look too think or too thin...so would work for lots of middle types of hair I think.

I love this hairstyle, too, but I have one strong opinion about hairstyles - bangs are great on many women over 40. I think a lot of women do not realize how much more youthful they would look with bangs. Foreheads are rarely our best feature as we age.

I like to picture women who fon't have bangs woth them and - yup. It is usually better looking. :)

Matryoshka · February 5, 2016

I'm 50. Mine is just below my shoulders, I get it cut to just about at them, then let it grow. My hair has gotten straighter as I've gotten older - it's always been thin, but when it was wavy, it disguised how thin it was. I have one long layer (not enough hair to make more layers), and it's angled a bit in the front. Not stunning, but not sure what else to do with it. It grows veeery slowly, so I'm hesitant to do anything drastic, because it would take years to undo if I didn't like it!

KrissiK · February 5, 2016

I'm 48. My hair is shoulder length, layered, no bangs, I blow dry it, scrunch it, curl it a little in loose waves. I like it.

Wheres Toto · February 5, 2016

It's funny how some of us have long hair because we don't want to fuss and others have short hair because they don't want to fuss.

:001_smile:

VaKim · February 5, 2016

I love this hairstyle, too, but I have one strong opinion about hairstyles - bangs are great on many women over 40. I think a lot of women do not realize how much more youthful they would look with bangs. Foreheads are rarely our best feature as we age.

I like to picture women who fon't have bangs woth them and - yup. It is usually better looking. :)

I have had bangs forever, but am currently letting them grow out. I will probably have them again, but want to see how it looks. My forehead actually looks very good. Now, if I could figure out a way to cover my mouth and chin, other than growing a beard, I'd look about 15 years younger. Seriously, lol. That is where all my saggy-ness and wrinkles are.

Chris in VA · February 5, 2016

Mine looks like Night Elf's avatar picture.

I'm tired of it, but don't want to go shorter. Longer drags my face down.

Right now I'm considering color for the first time in about 10 years.

Alicia64 · February 5, 2016

Why does age 50 become a factor for hair style? Is it some magic number? Will you change your style drastically every new decade? If so, maybe do it with themes. ;)

I understand what she's asking. Christie Brinkley can do long, blonde hair (for a pretty penny), but most can't pull it off (or afford it).

At the same time, if a woman over 50 wants to have fun w/ the aging hippie look -- I say go for it.

Alley

Alicia64 · February 5, 2016

http://beauty.about.com/od/celebrityhairstyles/ss/Medium-Length-Hairstyles-for-Women-Over-50.htm#step3

I love this look. Long layers. Her hair doesn't look too think or too thin...so would work for lots of middle types of hair I think.

This long bob is what I think looks great!

Alley

OnTheBrink · February 5, 2016

I have thick hair with a natural wave. I wear it shoulder length and layered, with bangs in the front. I'm 49.

Matryoshka · February 5, 2016

This long bob is what I think looks great!

That's probably the same cut I have, but I only have about half the amount of hair, so it doesn't look quite the same. :(

On the positive side, I'm only just starting to get a few gray strands... they're starting to come in a bit faster than I can pluck them now...

Edited February 5, 2016 by Matryoshka

Peach · February 6, 2016

I will be 53 in June. I have long hair, almost mid-back, and it's curly with no grey. I wear it parted on the side. The back is one length, shorter on top and gradually lengthening to meet the long layer. It's really low maintenance and easy to put up as well. This is it almost exactly: http://www.hair-styles-secrets-revealed.com/hair/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/hairstyle-for-curly-hair.jpg

I don't hold with the idea that you can't have long hair when older either.

Edited February 6, 2016 by Peach2

wintermom · February 6, 2016

I understand what she's asking. Christie Brinkley can do long, blonde hair (for a pretty penny), but most can't pull it off (or afford it).

At the same time, if a woman over 50 wants to have fun w/ the aging hippie look -- I say go for it.

Alley

I ask because people's hair colour/thickness/what have you changes in a huge time range. Some turn grey in their 20s, some people's hair becomes thinner, some becomes more wavy. There is no "one style fits all 50-year-old ladies". Focusing so much on specific ages seems to have little meaning. Not only that, but there are so many more factors than age which determines hair style choice. Edited February 6, 2016 by wintermom

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