ProudGrandma Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 My 2 sons have asked for at least 3 years is a pillow pet. With limited funds, we find gifts that we feel are more appropriate and better for them....but that hasn't kept the boys from asking time and time again. I can't, for the life of me figure out why they want these? When I ask them, they just say they think they are cute and would like to cuddle with them. Has your child ever done anything like this? And if so, did you finally give in? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mytwomonkeys Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 After 3 years, I would get them a pillow pet. Amazon and Walmart have them for various prices. My son has this puppy. Walmart has it for only $10 with free shipping to store. If your boys don't mind the same pillow pet, that would only be $20 for the both of them. Not bad at all! :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kim in Appalachia Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I would get them the pillow pet. It's Christmas. Yes, there are always more practical things, but if they want one that much, I'd buy it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LibraryLover Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I found my dd's at Bed, Bath, and Beyond. It was under $10. Easy present. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Χά�ων Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I would get them the pillow pet. It's been long enough and enough new as seen on TV things to distract them if it was just a fly by want. If you can hit a Wal-Mart or Target you should be able to get them for cheap. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlmiraGulch Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 Yep. Just get the pillow pets. DD10 has asked for 2 years, Christmas and birthday, for some software that lets her record her Minecraft activities and post them on YouTube. She's getting it this year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoobie Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 My kids love theirs and bring them on vacation. I wouldn't see it as "giving in" at all. It's not a live animal that would require continued effort or have any negative impact. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alessandra Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 If it's been 3 years, that says to me that your ds are not just having a flash in the pan, knee jerk reaction to an advertisement or something they saw at a friends. I would do my bast to get them what they asked for and put off your ideas of what is 'appropriate/better' for another year. Kids can develop a lot of compassion by caring for stuffed animals. Truth be told, we have one animal that *I* treat as real. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gardenmom5 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 not every gift has to have substance. if this is the third year, it's obviously important *to them*. which is more important to you - get them what you feel is appropriate, or give them a happy memory of their childhood to look back upon when they are adults? my advice is give them the pillowpet, or what they will remember years from now is how they repeatedly asked for one, and you put your preferences ahead of theirs, and wouldn't buy one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emzhengjiu Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 At my age I'm a bit uncomfortable admitting this, but I want one too! If you possible can, I would get a pillow pet for each boy. They may tire of them, but they'll remember that you fulfilled special Christmas wishes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProudGrandma Posted November 2, 2013 Author Share Posted November 2, 2013 I forgot to mention that they are 9 and 11...does that change anybody's mind...if not, then I will get them a pillow pet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gardenmom5 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I forgot to mention that they are 9 and 11...does that change anybody's mind...if not, then I will get them a pillow pet. no. get the pillow pet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janie Grace Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I forgot to mention that they are 9 and 11...does that change anybody's mind...if not, then I will get them a pillow pet. Doesn't change my mind at all. I think it's really sweet that they want them and that they're unwavering in their desire. Go for it. :) By the way, I remember being a kid and how there were some people who would only get you what THEY thought was worthwhile (educational stuff) and how there were others who were willing to indulge a want even if it wasn't their thing (too trendy, too cutesy, too silly). The latter were the ones who I felt really loved/"got" me. There is just something so affirming about your desires being valued! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mama Geek Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 My 3 1/2 yo has one and loves it. She often sleeps on it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twoxcell Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 Get them a pillow pet! My dc love theirs and you can get them now for 10 dollars at Walmart. ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NotSoObvious Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 My 11 year olds LOVE their pillow pets. They've had them for several years. They take them on car trips and to camp. They are great because you can just throw them in the washer. For all the crap kids usually ask for, this is actually something that might get some use and they aren't very expensive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AimeeM Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 Get the pillow pets. I do understand that funds are limited, but I'll tell you a secret - I still harbor a bit of resentment at that my parents always asked what I wanted for Christmas, but instead purchased what they thought I should have. I do not really remember a single Christmas gift; whereas, while my husband didn't get MUCH for Christmas, his parents went out of their way to pay attention to his interests and wants, not their own preferences. I got loads of gifts - but nothing I really wanted. I would have rather had one or two gifts that showed my parents were thoughtful of what I wanted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mafi39 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I have a 10 and 11 yo boy and girl. They both love their pillow pets and take them on trips, sleepovers and to lounge around in the floor. The pure joy you will see on their faces will make it worth it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammi K Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I forgot to mention that they are 9 and 11...does that change anybody's mind...if not, then I will get them a pillow pet. My 15 and 12 year old still have them on their beds after receiving them from their sister 4 or 5 years ago. They still use them! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProudGrandma Posted November 2, 2013 Author Share Posted November 2, 2013 I am so glad I asked....we ususally get many things on their list...I just couldn't figure this one out...thanks for helping me sort through this....and you are all right, a $10 gift isn't bad at all...they want a penguin and a dolphin, so I hope I can find both of those. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Live2Ride Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I forgot to mention that they are 9 and 11...does that change anybody's mind...if not, then I will get them a pillow pet. It's just a pillow....that looks like a stuffed animal. It doesn't matter how old they are :). It's Christmas and they are cheap as far as Christmas gits go. If my 16 yr old wanted one, I'd oblige. I think they're cute and I'm 35 :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maize Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 Get them! After reading this I'm tempted to get them for my kids as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 My dd's friends have them. I've seen a lot of kids entering puberty who suddenly want things that much younger kids might want. It's like they are somehow aware, deep down, that childhood is fleeting and that they are growing up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amy in NH Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 When I chaperoned a cross country trip for a group of 18 teens ages 14-18 this summer, multiple teens kept pet-napping to love on the one that one girl brought. If they've wanted it this long, I'd go ahead and get it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustEm Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 If there are Five Belows in your area they have Pillow Pets for $5. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KungFuPanda Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 My 13-year-old has a Baltimore Ravens pillow pet. He travels with it. He's had it for about 3 years. He loves that thing, and since you apparently cannot outgrow sports merchandise I don't see him giving it up until it falls apart from overuse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pippen Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 When I chaperoned a cross country trip for a group of 18 teens ages 14-18 this summer, multiple teens kept pet-napping to love on the one that one girl brought. If they've wanted it this long, I'd go ahead and get it! I chaperone high school band trips all the time and kids often bring them. They're great travel-sized pillows. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Word Nerd Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 My girls both still use theirs. Presents aren't about what *you* would like. They aren't expensive and the kids really want them. Get them! :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Santi Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 Dd got one when she was 11 and still has it now that she's 15. Right now there are some on sale at toysrus so they're only $4.99. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trish Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 They get a few years older and suddenly they're hard to buy for. There's NOTHING that they really want, other than gift cards, money, etc. I would LOVE it if my tween and teen had such a simple, easy-to-fulfill want! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisbeth Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 Get the pillow pets. I do understand that funds are limited, but I'll tell you a secret - I still harbor a bit of resentment at that my parents always asked what I wanted for Christmas, but instead purchased what they thought I should have. I do not really remember a single Christmas gift; whereas, while my husband didn't get MUCH for Christmas, his parents went out of their way to pay attention to his interests and wants, not their own preferences. I got loads of gifts - but nothing I really wanted. I would have rather had one or two gifts that showed my parents were thoughtful of what I wanted. I agree. My mom is like that. She gets what she thinks a person should want, not what they ask for. (Note: She is the one asking what they want, otherwise, I wouldn't have much to say about it...but if you ask...why not go with what the person really wants?) Sadly I learned and my kids have learned to never ask her for what they really want, but instead to pick some random thing they don't care much about, because chances are great she won't get them. This has nothing to do with money, either. So yep, I say def. get the pillow pets! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProudGrandma Posted November 2, 2013 Author Share Posted November 2, 2013 Dd got one when she was 11 and still has it now that she's 15. Right now there are some on sale at toysrus so they're only $4.99. it looks like those are the pee wee ones...not the big ones...my daughter has a big one, so I am sure they are wanting a big one too...the 18" size. thanks for the thought. I did find some on ebay, new for $10...so that is what I am going to do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I'm 46 and I still remember the presents I repeatedly asked for and didn't get. Not the pony, that one doesn't count, but the feasible ones. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clarkacademy Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I forgot to mention that they are 9 and 11...does that change anybody's mind...if not, then I will get them a pillow pet. My 16 year old got one last year. Christmas is not all about what is practical Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DianeW88 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I always get my kids most of what they want for Christmas...it's a magical time of year. Santa brings the awesome stuff. They get the practical stuff from Mom & Dad. And now that they know who Santa is...it's all good. ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Word Nerd Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I forgot to mention that they are 9 and 11...does that change anybody's mind... Nope! DD loves hers so much she picked out a PP of my alma mater's mascot for my birthday a couple of years ago. It's great as a travel pillow or to curl up with on the couch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PeachyDoodle Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I agree... get them a pillow pet! FWIW, I'm guilty of falling into the "what they want is dumb and this would be so much better for them" trap too. Fortunately, dh is a big kid and usually drags me kicking and screaming into the world of stupid, junky toys... at least for one or two little gifts. :laugh: Even if we can only afford one thing, I think it really is better to get them the thing they want (within reason, of course) -- especially at Christmas! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ElizabethB Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I am so glad I asked....we ususally get many things on their list...I just couldn't figure this one out...thanks for helping me sort through this....and you are all right, a $10 gift isn't bad at all...they want a penguin and a dolphin, so I hope I can find both of those. My 8yo has a penguin, my 11yo has a dolphin! They have had them a bit over a year and still love them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ailysh Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I'd get it if you can afford it. I asked for a Bob Ross master paint set every year as a child for probably ten years. my parents could not afford it. Finally last year they got it... for my twin sister, lol. They couldn't remember who had always wanted it. It gave us all a good laugh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErinE Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I forgot to mention that they are 9 and 11...does that change anybody's mind...if not, then I will get them a pillow pet. My kids have our college mascot as a pillow pet and the local NFL team sells one as well. They are not just lady bugs and unicorns. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Only me Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 My 21 year old daughter has one that she got a year or two ago. Not only does she really like it but it is practical. She has used it so many times for bus rides home to lean up against or as a small pillow to use when she is going to a friends house overnight etc. All 3 of my kids use them when we go on vacation in the car. I have another daughter who is 18 and a son who is 15. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luanne Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 My daughter is 25 and she has Miles (the Broncos mascot). I want Dinger (the Rockies mascot). I don't think you can be too old for a pillow pet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NotAVampireLvr Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 All three of mine have them and LOVE THEM. Wait for a sale and if you can swing it, indulge them. They aren't my first choice for a sensible gift, but I have to say they are the most USED toys they have. I'm actually SHOCKED about how loved they are. Make sure you keep a needle and thread handy... sometimes they do get holes and its a DISASTER when the fluff comes out ;) They each have 2 (one year we gave them to them and then they received some as gifts unexpectedly) and they are all loved. FWIW at 11 years old I had a pillow person and I was CRUSHED when it got lost in one of my ADULT moves... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JessReplanted Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 My kids all got pillow pets a few years ago (I think from my mom) and they all still love them. They use them as actual pillows. They have proved to be a worthwhile gift around here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alisoncooks Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 Both of my kids sleep with their pillow pet. They love them & they're great for long card rides. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProudGrandma Posted November 2, 2013 Author Share Posted November 2, 2013 Well, I just bought them...from ebay for $10 each...no shipping...I will have 2 happy, surprised boys come Christmas Day!...thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Plateau Mama Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I forgot to mention that they are 9 and 11...does that change anybody's mind...if not, then I will get them a pillow pet. My kids are 5, 11, 13 and they all LOVE their pillow pet. They have had them for a couple of years. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anne in CA Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 My mother did not like Barbies and Barbie stuff. Completely understandable. But she never let me have one and I still feel deprived, lol. My vote is that after three years you should get them pillow pets. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gingersmom Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 Years later and my now teenagers still love their pillow pets. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caclcoca Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 Another vote for my kids love their pillow pets. My dd has the penguin and it's really cute. I'm glad you were ble to find them inexpensively. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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