fairfarmhand Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 It's a rough day here. Some family mess is all shaking out and the people involved are not willing to work on the issues so the problems just sit there. And it makes me so so very sad. I don't even know why I'm posting. I'm just feeling very alone and discouraged. And so very sad. 72 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drama Llama Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 I'm sorry. I hope things look up soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katy Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 I’m sorry. I’m having a hard day too, but it has to do with injuries and a 4 year old’s poop issues so it’s minor in comparison Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happi duck Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 Many (hugs) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted January 7, 2023 Author Share Posted January 7, 2023 It's also one of my kids birthday. And I hate that she's sad on her birthday. 27 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faith-manor Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 I am so sorry! Hugs hugs hugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScoutTN Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 (((FFH))) Praying for you and yours. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kassia Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 I'm so sorry. Sometimes it helps a bit to vent and get some support. We're here for you always. Sending hugs to you and your birthday girl. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 I’m so sorry it’s rough. Warm hugs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katilac Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 I'm sorry. I'd be upset for my birthday kid, too. Sometimes I wish that smacking people in the head would shake them out of a mental glitch, like we used to smack old TVs when they glitched (I think you're old enough to remember that). 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura Corin Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 I'm sorry - that's rough. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Innisfree Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 I’m sorry. Sending hugs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freesia Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 I’m sorry. We are here for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 I'm sorry 😞 (hugs) 🤗🤗🤗 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 You can always go over to the clubs if you need to vent with less exposure 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted January 7, 2023 Author Share Posted January 7, 2023 9 minutes ago, katilac said: I'm sorry. I'd be upset for my birthday kid, too. Sometimes I wish that smacking people in the head would shake them out of a mental glitch, like we used to smack old TVs when they glitched (I think you're old enough to remember that). I am old enough to remember that, and I've done it many times. And yes, I wish I could just smack someone and they'd shake their head and go, Oh. Yes, I see now. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirty ethel rackham Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 {{FHF}} Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenCat Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 Hugs, Fairfarmhand. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted January 7, 2023 Author Share Posted January 7, 2023 Thank you, folks. Tears just keep leaking out, 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scholastica Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 It is so heartbreaking when these people we love so much can’t love each other. Hugs and prayers. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted January 7, 2023 Author Share Posted January 7, 2023 4 minutes ago, scholastica said: It is so heartbreaking when these people we love so much can’t love each other. Hugs and prayers. That's it exactly. 3 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anne Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 (((Fairfarmhand))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 I’m sorry. Hoping for better days soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DawnM Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 So sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ottakee Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 Family stuff can be so hard Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lauraw4321 Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 ::hugs:: You aren’t alone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eos Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 Holding you in the light as this day ends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saraha Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 I’m sorry Fairfarmhand and hugs for your birthday kiddo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mominco Posted January 7, 2023 Share Posted January 7, 2023 (((Hugs))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyoffive Posted January 8, 2023 Share Posted January 8, 2023 Sending some hugs to you. I am sorry today is so sad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted January 8, 2023 Author Share Posted January 8, 2023 Was watching the last hobbit movie and I began sobbing when the elf Tauriel weeps beside Killis body. This exchange gutted me. Tauriel: If this is love, I don’t want it. Take it away, please! Why does it hurt so much? Thranduil: Because it was real. This is it. Loving people can be so painful sometimes. 8 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corraleno Posted January 8, 2023 Share Posted January 8, 2023 I'm sorry things are so sad for you and DD, I hope the people involved are able to resolve the issues. {{{hugs}}} Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
popmom Posted January 8, 2023 Share Posted January 8, 2023 Goodness. And here I am posting my happy wedding thread. I'm so sorry. I can certainly identify with that sort of brokenness and it's heartbreaking. One of the reasons my dd wants a tiny wedding is because of our estrangement with my parents. So even in this happy time there is sadness mixed in. Hoping you can find some peace during this time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Florida. Posted January 8, 2023 Share Posted January 8, 2023 I'm sorry. (((hugs))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilaclady Posted January 8, 2023 Share Posted January 8, 2023 Much hugs to you((())) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stephanier.1765 Posted January 8, 2023 Share Posted January 8, 2023 Yesterday was my birthday too and I thought it was a bad day because I was having my worst day of Covid so far. It was a lonely, not feel good, kind of day. But the day your child was having was so much worse and I'm so sorry for that. These kinds of things are so much harder for us moms because not only are we hurting for ourselves but we are hurting for our kids too. I'm hoping today is a better day. If not good, at least better than yesterday. Hugs to you all. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted January 8, 2023 Author Share Posted January 8, 2023 (edited) 1 hour ago, stephanier.1765 said: Yesterday was my birthday too and I thought it was a bad day because I was having my worst day of Covid so far. It was a lonely, not feel good, kind of day. But the day your child was having was so much worse and I'm so sorry for that. These kinds of things are so much harder for us moms because not only are we hurting for ourselves but we are hurting for our kids too. I'm hoping today is a better day. If not good, at least better than yesterday. Hugs to you all. That sounds like a really bad day too. I hope you’re soon feeling better! And happy birthday! I hope you get a do over birthday when you feel good enough to celebrate. Edited January 8, 2023 by fairfarmhand 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom31257 Posted January 8, 2023 Share Posted January 8, 2023 I'm so sorry! Sending hugs! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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