DawnM Posted December 10, 2022 Share Posted December 10, 2022 (edited) 12/30- Dad passed away this afternoon at 12:08pm Original post: Since you all know I have absolutely nothing going on in my life right now......🤪 Dad has fallen twice this week and been taken to the hospital both times. Today was the 3rd ambulance ride to the hospital. He was talking out of his head, making no sense, all the things we saw when he was in pain or had a fever, etc..... They are running more tests but his blood pressure is through the roof, he is in A fib, and now they think they have found cancer in his bone. I don't know what is going to happen from here. UPDATE 12/13- He finally got admitted to the hospital side and out of the ER. It is definitely bone cancer. The tumor goes from his spine to his femur and is eating away at the bone around his hip replacement prosthetic. No wonder he can't stand up. I am surprised he didn't break something in his falls! But it is bad and terminal. His blood pressure was 196 over 126. And he is in A-fib. On his chart they put: Advanced Dementia, chronic kidney disease, pleural effusion, acute kidney injury, persistent A-fib, osteolytic lesion, and recurrent falls. Isn't he the picture of health? Edited December 31, 2022 by DawnM 75 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kassia Posted December 10, 2022 Share Posted December 10, 2022 Oh Dawn, I'm sorry. I know it's been a hard road with him. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freesia Posted December 10, 2022 Share Posted December 10, 2022 I’m sorry, Dawn. I was actually wondering today what was happening with him. I will pray for him and you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katy Posted December 10, 2022 Share Posted December 10, 2022 I was thinking about him several times in the last 24 hours. Praying that whatever happens, it goes as smoothly as possible and they find a correct diagnosis right away. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
footballmom Posted December 10, 2022 Share Posted December 10, 2022 I’m so sorry, Dawn. This sounds so hard and so much at once. Praying for y’all. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted December 10, 2022 Share Posted December 10, 2022 I'm so sorry, Dawn. It's rough at any time, and that goes double at the holidays. It's always hard to watch the people you love suffer. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hilltopmom Posted December 10, 2022 Share Posted December 10, 2022 Hugs. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carrie12345 Posted December 10, 2022 Share Posted December 10, 2022 I’m so sorry you all are going through this. I hope they help you come up with a good plan moving forward. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted December 10, 2022 Share Posted December 10, 2022 Huge huge hugs Sending positive thoughts 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fraidycat Posted December 10, 2022 Share Posted December 10, 2022 (edited) Hugs. I'm sorry it's so rough right now. I hope the medical staff are able to get him sorted out and comfortable ASAP. Edited December 11, 2022 by fraidycat 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScoutTN Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 Oh no! Dawn, I am so sorry. Praying for him and for you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
East Coast Sue Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 Hugs. I’m so sorry. I’m praying for both of you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EKS Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 I am so sorry Dawn. Big big hugs ❤️ 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie G Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 Hugs, Dawn. Juggling the needs of a 5 year old and an elderly father is a lot. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saraha Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 Aw, I’m sorry 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TechWife Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 Thinking about you all. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 I’m so sorry, Dawn. 😞 I’ll pray for him. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YaelAldrich Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 Golly Dawn! This isn't the kind of news you need right now! I hope he gets the treatment and care he needs quickly and easily. And that y'all all get extra love and support. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faith-manor Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 💓💓💓 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyoffive Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 Oh I am so sorry. I am sending hugs to you and prayers to him. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anne Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 I’m so sorry, Dawn - praying for you both.. Anne 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storygirl Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 I'm sorry, Dawn. I've been wondering how he is doing, and I'm sad to hear that his health is getting worse. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura Corin Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 I'm so sorry. Is there any way to know what his wishes would be with regard to treatment? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LifeLovePassion Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 I'm sorry to hear this. Sending hugs and strength 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DawnM Posted December 11, 2022 Author Share Posted December 11, 2022 1 hour ago, Laura Corin said: I'm so sorry. Is there any way to know what his wishes would be with regard to treatment? We can ask him once he is more lucid. My guess is that he will choose no treatment. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DawnM Posted December 11, 2022 Author Share Posted December 11, 2022 (edited) So, what happens after he is diagnosed and sent home? The facility said they want me to consider hiring a 24 hour babysitter to make sure he doesn't try to walk on his own. That could last a long time and we pay close to $8k for the facility, I can't afford an additional $18k for 24 hour care. I guess we will wait and see what the diagnosis is and what they say. I mean, if he needs 24 hour personal care from now until he dies, I may just bring him back to his apartment and pay people to come in there. But if he can be compliant and not get out of his chair without waiting, he should be fine where he is. But he won't do it, which is why he fell twice this week. I see that there are several hospice and palliative care facilities in my area. Are they covered by insurance typically or are they out of pocket? Edited December 11, 2022 by DawnM 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TechWife Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 57 minutes ago, DawnM said: … I see that there are several hospice and palliative care facilities in my area. Are they covered by insurance typically or are they out of pocket? Hospice is typically covered by insurance, Medicare included. If he chooses not to get treatment, I highly recommend hospice care. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TexasProud Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 First of all Dawn, so sorry about everything. Yes, as someone mentioned, hospice is covered...sort of of. What I was told is that for an actual hospice facility, the hospice part was covered by insurance, but the room and board was not. Also, recognize that once he is under hospice care, hospice WILL BE his doctor/nurses. He cannot get treatment by anyone else or he will get released. ER ok if they don't keep him. But that is one thing I wish I had investigated more. My mom did not want anymore cancer treatments. However, she did want basic care, like giving fluids, which hospice would not do. The hospital did a much better job of keeping her ascites at bay, yet giving her fluid and morphine to keep her comfortable than hospice did. In retrospect, for us, I wish I hadn't done hospice but just agreed together on a DNR and not to take anymore cancer drugs. I think her ending would have been much more peaceful. But I also know hospice is not the same everywhere. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
historically accurate Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 Awww, Dawn, I am sorry. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TexasProud Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 Also, so we hired 24/7 care in my mom's home for what turned out to be the last 3 days of her life. Best money I spent, EVER. My mom, like your dad kept trying to get up and didn't understand that she couldn't anymore. Having someone there with her, enabled us to sleep. That said, they cannot give medicine so we were giving medicine every hour or two the last couple of days. ( And yes, I thought that is what hospice nurses would do, but no, the family's responsibility.) But caregivers helped tremendously. If you choose the hospice facility, I would just double check that they would have somebody that would be there 24/7 to make sure he doesn't get out of bed. Or is the expectation, the patients are too weak and someone just checks occasionally. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 @DawnMmy experience with hospice has been wonderful. My husband’s step father had hospice at home, my best friend’s dad had hospice at the hospital, and my X-MIL died this past Thursday with hospice at home. XMIL she also had 24/7 sitters for years (even before she went on hospice) at $10 per hour. But she had morphine for the pain and she died relatively peacefully. It is very hard handling end of life caregiving with a full time job and a 5 year old. Once you have a better idea of time frame you might consider utilizing the FLA. I suggested my XH do that but he would not for some reason. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teachermom2834 Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 When my mother was in a hospice facility the hospice care was covered by insurance but the room and board portion was not. So there was an out of pocket portion. It was quite a drama for our family because she really needed to be there but my dad was really not prepared for the expense. However, the time was short and looking back it was not something worth worrying about at all because she just wasn’t there long enough to worry about the cost and she really needed to be there. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grace Hopper Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 2 hours ago, DawnM said: So, what happens after he is diagnosed and sent home? The facility said they want me to consider hiring a 24 hour babysitter to make sure he doesn't try to walk on his own. That could last a long time and we pay close to $8k for the facility, I can't afford an additional $18k for 24 hour care. I guess we will wait and see what the diagnosis is and what they say. I mean, if he needs 24 hour personal care from now until he dies, I may just bring him back to his apartment and pay people to come in there. But if he can be compliant and not get out of his chair without waiting, he should be fine where he is. But he won't do it, which is why he fell twice this week. I see that there are several hospice and palliative care facilities in my area. Are they covered by insurance typically or are they out of pocket? He will have to go through a qualification process and then if approved it is completely covered by Medicare. I highly encourage your to pursue this. It won’t provide for 24/7 care, but what hospice does offer is of great value, not only financially but emotionally. Some facilities have exclusive arrangements with certain providers, so I’d start by asking the staff there which one they use. If you’re going to bring him home your providers options will be different. Also, if he doesn’t qualify for full hospice care yet, ask about a level of palliative care. It doesn’t provide as much but is still helpful. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grace Hopper Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 1 hour ago, TexasProud said: First of all Dawn, so sorry about everything. Yes, as someone mentioned, hospice is covered...sort of of. What I was told is that for an actual hospice facility, the hospice part was covered by insurance, but the room and board was not. Also, recognize that once he is under hospice care, hospice WILL BE his doctor/nurses. He cannot get treatment by anyone else or he will get released. ER ok if they don't keep him. But that is one thing I wish I had investigated more. My mom did not want anymore cancer treatments. However, she did want basic care, like giving fluids, which hospice would not do. The hospital did a much better job of keeping her ascites at bay, yet giving her fluid and morphine to keep her comfortable than hospice did. In retrospect, for us, I wish I hadn't done hospice but just agreed together on a DNR and not to take anymore cancer drugs. I think her ending would have been much more peaceful. But I also know hospice is not the same everywhere. This was not exactly our experience with our two different elders who received hospice care. Upon choosing hospice, the choice was to not treat the terminal condition. So, nothing for the cancer other than pain management. However, we could stipulate treatment would be provided for things like falls (ie broken bones, stitches for a head laceration), whether antibiotics would be used for an infection unrelated to the cancer, that sort of thing. Regarding fluids, they will explain thoroughly about the dying process and how administering fluids/IV nourishment is not beneficial to a person in the active stages of dying (close to end of life). Once enrolled, certain medicines may be discontinued. Strong blood thinners that require lots of monitoring may be dropped. Medicines for things like blood sugar regulation and fluid reduction may be continued. You will have a meeting to thoroughly outline your individual patient’s plan of care. In an emergency, it’s not 911 that you notify, but a hospice call line. Specific policies will vary by state. Some hospice organizations have hospice houses, others provide services in homes and SNFs. We can share experiences with you, but you have to investigate the services in your area. We found hospice to be a wonderful resource. Most people wait til the very end to utilize these services, but they are available and a great help when used as soon as a terminal patient qualifies. Also, people do go on and off hospice care. One of ours was off and on for over two years depending on disease status and progress. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grace Hopper Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 Not sure if this was clear - ime, if the patient is in a facility, you still pay the regular monthly cost. The additional hospice services are covered by Medicare, but I don’t think 24/7 sitters are included (maybe in the last day or two, depending on the provider). At home, hospice care is typically covered via Medicare. Again, not 24/7 but quality assistance. Regarding hospice houses, when palliative care is the specific function of the facility, we were told that’s covered by Medicare but usually only patients in their last few weeks are admitted to the ones here. A person can qualify for hospice with an anticipated life expectancy of 6 months ( a year in some cases) but ime moving into an actual hospice house wasn’t available that full time. But services vary - what’s available in your location may be different. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mlktwins Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 I think you may have mentioned this before, but does he have Medicare Part A? If not, hospice won't be covered by Medicare. DH thought my dad was overpaying for his Medicare for both Part A and Part B. Then when his parents needed hospice, he found out they didn't have Part A so Medicare wouldn't cover it. It ended up ok because their supplemental insurance kicked in for up to $15K for each of them per year (at 80%). Neither lived long enough to make it to $15K, but we would have had to pay out of pocket at that point if they had lived longer. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grace Hopper Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 17 minutes ago, mlktwins said: I think you may have mentioned this before, but does he have Medicare Part A? If not, hospice won't be covered by Medicare. DH thought my dad was overpaying for his Medicare for both Part A and Part B. Then when his parents needed hospice, he found out they didn't have Part A so Medicare wouldn't cover it. It ended up ok because their supplemental insurance kicked in for up to $15K for each of them per year (at 80%). Neither lived long enough to make it to $15K, but we would have had to pay out of pocket at that point if they had lived longer. Oh right, I guess this is a good starting point. My experience was with someone who had part A and someone who was a long term Medicaid patient (so at that point part A was the only option that person had had for a while). 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storygirl Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 Mom lived in a nursing home on Medicaid and had hospice during the last week of her life. Evidently, she also was on hospice a couple of other times, but I didn't know (my Dad is a poor communicator). So she was able to receive her regular nursing care from the staff, as well as help from hospice. Dawn, as for the cost -- I think you said that your dad has some savings. Although paying for 24 hour care will sting, if he needs it, it is an appropriate use of his funds. I know that many people hate to use up their parents' assets for things like this, but end of life care is one thing that people who were able to save intended the money to be used for. Seeing that balance go down quickly can be scary. But if he lives for a length of time, he's likely to need skilled nursing care. Is he in assisted living currently? If they can't meet his needs, instead of bringing him home, it may be time to look into a skilled nursing facility. In that case, paying down his assets is actually a good thing, even though it feels horrible, because it will eventually allow Medicaid qualification. 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mlktwins Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 23 minutes ago, Storygirl said: Dawn, as for the cost -- I think you said that your dad has some savings. Although paying for 24 hour care will sting, if he needs it, it is an appropriate use of his funds. I know that many people hate to use up their parents' assets for things like this, but end of life care is one thing that people who were able to save intended the money to be used for. Seeing that balance go down quickly can be scary. But if he lives for a length of time, he's likely to need skilled nursing care. Is he in assisted living currently? If they can't meet his needs, instead of bringing him home, it may be time to look into a skilled nursing facility. In that case, paying down his assets is actually a good thing, even though it feels horrible, because it will eventually allow Medicaid qualification. Yes, it is scary and it's expensive :-(. I pay my dad's bills and the $8400 every 2 weeks is like 😩. But we are blessed that he has the funds to cover it for a while. I joke that I'm spending the inheritance, but this is what it's there for. It is a lot on top of what her dad is paying for the nursing home too though. I've kept my dad home with 24/7 care for that reason. It's a hard place to be Dawn. So sorry! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheryl Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 Dawn, hoping that tests will not reveal that. Sorry to hear your Dad is not doing well. That's just hard! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsheresomewhere Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 Hospice has been wonderful many times with our family in different states. I am sorry Dawn. I hope there is a peaceful transition with your dad. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mominco Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 (((hugs))) Dawn 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TexasProud Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 7 hours ago, Grace Hopper said: We found hospice to be a wonderful resource. Most people wait til the very end to utilize these services, but they are available and a great help when used as soon as a terminal patient qualifies. Also, people do go on and off hospice care. One of ours was off and on for over two years depending on disease status and progress. This is what I thought as well. I was SO happy mom chose to do this. She was feeling fine and getting around pretty well because she had quit taking the cancer meds. I was in complete agreement for her to stop any further treatment since they were not helping and she couldn't tolerate the side effects. I wanted her to enjoy her last few months....which is what I thought ( and the docs thought) she had. I didn't think we had waited. When the hospice manager talked to us, she also thought mom would do well for several months. Instead, she was dead in a little over a week. And my cousin in Oregon told me she had the exact same experience as far as having to do all the medicine giving, cleaning up poop and all the other hard stuff that hospice didn't do. She also thought they would be there a lot more. Another friend also had a similar experience with hospice. Now, it should be noted that all of these experiences happened after Covid. I think it may have caused a serious staff shortage for hospice. I am glad others have had better experiences. I was seriously disillusioned. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted December 11, 2022 Share Posted December 11, 2022 30 minutes ago, TexasProud said: This is what I thought as well. I was SO happy mom chose to do this. She was feeling fine and getting around pretty well because she had quit taking the cancer meds. I was in complete agreement for her to stop any further treatment since they were not helping and she couldn't tolerate the side effects. I wanted her to enjoy her last few months....which is what I thought ( and the docs thought) she had. I didn't think we had waited. When the hospice manager talked to us, she also thought mom would do well for several months. Instead, she was dead in a little over a week. And my cousin in Oregon told me she had the exact same experience as far as having to do all the medicine giving, cleaning up poop and all the other hard stuff that hospice didn't do. She also thought they would be there a lot more. Another friend also had a similar experience with hospice. Now, it should be noted that all of these experiences happened after Covid. I think it may have caused a serious staff shortage for hospice. I am glad others have had better experiences. I was seriously disillusioned. It sounds like your expectations were off. I don’t think hospice was ever intended to provide 24 hour care. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TexasProud Posted December 12, 2022 Share Posted December 12, 2022 1 hour ago, Scarlett said: It sounds like your expectations were off. I don’t think hospice was ever intended to provide 24 hour care. No, I knew that... well, that is I knew they wouldn't provide 24 hour care until they knew death was imminent. But when my mom was no longer conscious with very labored breathing. The nurse checked her for 20 minutes and then left, leaving us to wonder whether we were giving enough morphine or not. I did think the meds would be monitored. I did think that a hospice nurse would be there for her last 24 hours. But they lead me to believe that they would help her death be comfortable and pain free. She had MUCH less pain before she was with hospice. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted December 12, 2022 Share Posted December 12, 2022 6 minutes ago, TexasProud said: No, I knew that... well, that is I knew they wouldn't provide 24 hour care until they knew death was imminent. But when my mom was no longer conscious with very labored breathing. The nurse checked her for 20 minutes and then left, leaving us to wonder whether we were giving enough morphine or not. I did think the meds would be monitored. I did think that a hospice nurse would be there for her last 24 hours. But they lead me to believe that they would help her death be comfortable and pain free. She had MUCH less pain before she was with hospice. I am not sure why her death was not pain free as I believe that to be the standard. I am sorry that was your experience. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grace Hopper Posted December 12, 2022 Share Posted December 12, 2022 4 minutes ago, Scarlett said: I am not sure why her death was not pain free as I believe that to be the standard. I am sorry that was your experience. I don’t think pain free is the realistic goal (legally, I mean, for hospice care - euthanasia is a different matter and one I will not discuss). Keeping the patient as comfortable as possible is the goal. Many pass peacefully. Others struggle in the last days, last hours. Death is a laboring process. Even with constant monitoring, and a professional present to do so, there is physical distress. It is difficult to sit with a loved one as they pass. I’m sorry it was hard for your mother. I’m sorry it was hard for you. It’s a really hard thing to experience. And grief is hard, too. 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DawnM Posted December 13, 2022 Author Share Posted December 13, 2022 On 12/11/2022 at 10:50 AM, mlktwins said: I think you may have mentioned this before, but does he have Medicare Part A? If not, hospice won't be covered by Medicare. DH thought my dad was overpaying for his Medicare for both Part A and Part B. Then when his parents needed hospice, he found out they didn't have Part A so Medicare wouldn't cover it. It ended up ok because their supplemental insurance kicked in for up to $15K for each of them per year (at 80%). Neither lived long enough to make it to $15K, but we would have had to pay out of pocket at that point if they had lived longer. He does have Part A. On 12/11/2022 at 11:31 AM, Storygirl said: Mom lived in a nursing home on Medicaid and had hospice during the last week of her life. Evidently, she also was on hospice a couple of other times, but I didn't know (my Dad is a poor communicator). So she was able to receive her regular nursing care from the staff, as well as help from hospice. Dawn, as for the cost -- I think you said that your dad has some savings. Although paying for 24 hour care will sting, if he needs it, it is an appropriate use of his funds. I know that many people hate to use up their parents' assets for things like this, but end of life care is one thing that people who were able to save intended the money to be used for. Seeing that balance go down quickly can be scary. But if he lives for a length of time, he's likely to need skilled nursing care. Is he in assisted living currently? If they can't meet his needs, instead of bringing him home, it may be time to look into a skilled nursing facility. In that case, paying down his assets is actually a good thing, even though it feels horrible, because it will eventually allow Medicaid qualification. He is already in skilled nursing/memory care and we pay $8k per month. They asked me to tack on an ADDITIONAL $18k per month, making the total $26k per month. On 12/11/2022 at 12:44 PM, sheryl said: Dawn, hoping that tests will not reveal that. Sorry to hear your Dad is not doing well. That's just hard! The tests had already revealed a large mass in his bones, honestly, it couldn't have been anything other than cancer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura Corin Posted December 13, 2022 Share Posted December 13, 2022 I'm sorry to hear about your update. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DawnM Posted December 13, 2022 Author Share Posted December 13, 2022 (edited) Updated my first post. But wanted to add that he is so confused. He ripped his IV out multiple times and his arms are all blood pooled and bruised. They have him wrapped up so much now he can't get to the IV anymore. His blood pressure was 196/126 and when they came in to give him medicine for that, he told them he hoped it wasn't for his blood pressure because he DOES NOT have blood pressure issues! He has now told everyone who has walked in his room that same thing. 🙄 The nurse looked at me and I said, "give it to him, just ignore him" and she did and dad had no idea. He is very dehydrated even with a drip. And he is very incoherent. I am praying he doesn't suffer long. Edited December 13, 2022 by DawnM 23 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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