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How often did you visit the library as a child?


How often did you visit the library as a child?  

  1. 1. How often did you visit the library as a child?

    • Regularly (every week or two, or more often)
      174
    • Seasonally (regularly during the summer or when the whim hit but not year-round)
      24
    • Occasionally (A few times a year)
      27
    • Rarely (once every few years)
      32
    • Never
      18
    • Other
      10


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My kids and I were leaving the library today, and DD mentioned that she was surprised that she didn't run into more of her classmates at the library. I said that many of them probably visited libraries closer to where they lived but that many kids really didn't visit libraries at all. My kids were SHOCKED. The library has been a constant part of their lives since before they can remember.

 

It got me thinking, though, that my own mother was what I would call a 'seasonal' library visitor. We visited over the summer but never hit up the library during the school year until I was old enough to need the resources from the reference section (I'm showing my age a little bit here... the Internet wasn't something we had until I hit high school). I'm sure that my situation is not unique. I hope. ;)

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I just did a library-related poll, also :001_smile:

 

I chose "other". It was different through every phase.

 

When I was young (2-6) we went about every two weeks.

 

When I was about 6-10 we went about once/month.

 

When I was 11-15, whenever the mood struck. Sometimes once/month, sometimes more than once/week.

 

Now that I can go to a library unaccompanied, I go about once/week, though I would like to go more. Maybe once school starts...

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my mother would go to the hairdresser every Sat and would leave me at our HUGE city library. I would check out the max number of books each week and read them all (I think it was 7). I loved it and as a single adult whereever I lived I made sure I was close to a library. When I lived in Los Angeles, the first 2 years I did not have a car but I lived only 1 block from a library.

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Depends on what stage of childhood really. Regularly when I was little. Then, once I was about 8 or so, rarely. Then, only when I had to do a school project by about middle school. Then in high school, I discovered the joy of university libraries! Ah, so much better for research.

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We had a very nice old neighborhood branch library about a mile away - very bike-able... We went there probably weekly, all through childhood. Then there was the school library in all but one of the schools I attended, and then my mom was a school librarian too, and I basically spent every summer there. :) And with all of those books available, we still owned so many I think they're actually a structural feature of my parents' house now.... ;)

 

(Oh and the downtown library! I forgot about that one! It's gorgeous, and we went there pretty frequently too. Then I went to college downtown, so I hung out at the library all the time. I still remember where most of the sections were!)

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I haven't voted yet, because I can't honestly remember. I just know that books were an important part of our life. I do have memories of going to the library with my mom, but I seem to have more of us going to the Second-hand bookstore. It was not too far from our home, and it was in a building that used to be a house. Each room was a different genre of book...I LOVED that place. I also remember going to Walden Books, that was in our mall, a lot. My mom certainly encouraged reading. I remember being on a waiting list forever at the elementary school library. The book was Superfudge, which was a follow up to Tales of a Fourth Grade Nothing, by Judy Blume (showing my age, and my childhood appreciation of twaddle, lol). Everybody wanted it, and I was so far down on the list. I mentioned it in passing to my mom (not sure why I hadn't thought of that prior), and remember leaving right away to go to Waldens...:D I guess she didn't agree with having to wait forever for a book you were that eager to read, lol.

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My parents took us to the library most every Friday evening. We stayed for a couple of hours and each came home with a big stack of books.

 

One thing I loved in childhood- if we were sick, my mom would put sheets on the couch and we would lie there with our pillows and she'd bring a huge stack of books home from the library for us to read while we were sick.

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The public library was literally across the street from my school when I was growing up, so I went for about two hours every day after school, and even popped in on weekends when I had research to do. And in the summer, it was one of the few things to do in town.

:iagree:My school was directly across the street as well. When I was in 5th & 6th grade I spent 1-2 hours at the library practically every day after school. I read TONS of books in those 2 years. The librarians were also friendly and much more lenient about letting us use the phone than our school secretary. I remember one boy using the library phone to call his mom because he had a broken arm in a cast, no coat, and it started pouring rain. The school didn't think this was a legitimate reason to call :001_huh:.

 

Once I started jr. high I would ride my bike or drive to the library several times per week and I continued going once I was in high school and driving. In the summertime I would spend even more time there.

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We only went a few times a year. Perhaps we would have gone more often if it had been closer than the next suburb, but perhaps not. In primary school, we had access to the school library every week, so that was probably sufficient. In high school, we could use the school library whenever we liked. Now I'm curious why Mum didn't take us more often. I suppose it wasn't necessary because we could access books elsewhere with regularity.

 

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To the public library, only once in a great while. Maybe like 3 or 4 times a year. I never did story time or anything like that. In elementary school we went regularly to the school's library with our class. In jr high, they had teen magazines in the library so friends of mine would go regularly to read magazines and chat. We also had a reading program where we had to read a certain number of points worth per month and then test on it, so I would check out books then. In high school, I went frequently, again to chat with friends and read magazines. I also was able to get aim on there and chat with my now husband, then bf, but i didn't do that often because im sure getting caught would have resulted in revoking my Internet privileges at school and who knows what else. I never once checked out a book, thanks to the forced reading in middle school.

 

I don't take my kids much. I used to but then we always racked up huge fines because I forgot to bring them back on time. So now we go to the thrift store and I buy them for around a quarter a piece. They always have a ton of children's books in good shape and its well organized for a thrift store. Not exactly library organized, but that's part of the thrill too, coming across books i wouldn't have bothered to seek out intentionally before. I am spending less and the kids are thrilled they get to keep the books. When our collection gets out of hand, we bring a stack back.

 

Personally, I rarely go. I don't enjoy reading as a leisurely activity, I do it pretty much solely as a means to gain knowledge about a particular topic, and even then I almost always use the Internet.

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Growing up, I always had a library close by and visited regularly. As a young child my mother would bring us every week or so, more in the nicer weather since we walked. From 4th grade on, I walked myself or with friends. We lived two streets out from the center of town and things seemed safer then. If I lived on that same street now (in what has since become a city) my very responsible DD would be waiting until 6th grade to walk there alone.

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Ok, this is going to be weird but I don't remember my mom taking me to the library, but the guy that babysat my brother and I (aka my sexual abuser) took me there fairly regularly. I spent my entire grade school years hanging out with him...at the library, the park, the mall, the arcade, going to the store (and shoplifting for him), etc.

 

I also rode my bike there on my own. I taught myself to draw by checking out Ed Emberley books. I read a lot too.

 

When we moved, I used the library a lot for high school writing assignments, research papers, and term papers, but the library was further away so usually my mom dropped me off, or after I could drive, I borrowed the car.

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OP, showing your age?? You had internet in high school?? You have no reason to hide your age:)

 

We didn't go often. I only have one memory of going to a library outside of our school library with my teachers and classmates. We were all big readers, including my mom. I guess we got our books other places! We did not live anywhere remotely near a library most of my life.

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I remember going to the school library for read-aloud time - great memories (Charlotte's Web, The Hundred Dresses, Many Moons).

 

My parents only took me to the library once though. My 4th grade teacher had read The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe to us and when we moved to another duty station I wanted to read it again (7th grade). I couldn't remember the title so my mother took me to the library and had me speak to the librarian. I described the wardrobe, the snow, the lamp post, the lion (couldn't remember his name) and Mr. Tumnus - I went into a great deal of detail. The librarian had no idea what I was talking about and we left empty handed. I was extremely disappointed to say the least.

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I grew up across the street from the library. It was my second home and I probably read over half the books in that building. I have always been a voracious reader--as are my sister and brother.

 

Now I take my kids weekly to the big library that's 15 mins away and twice a month to the tiny local library. I figure the more time they spend in the library picking out new books the more likely they will fall in love with reading and become readers. So far my plan is working.

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I voted, Seasonally, but I really don't remember.

 

I don't remember my Mom taking me to the library much when I was really young. Now that I think about it, my sisters probably took me, they were 12 and 16 when I was born and they loved to take me places.

I got lots of books from the school library when I was in elementary school. My Mom read to me every night. I don't know where all those books came from, I think I must have brought them home from the school library.

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Rarely. I was not encouraged to read much. (I wasn't discouraged from it either; it wasn't like Matilda.) Truly good books were never any kind of priority either. So, if I was reading, it was probably mediocre literature. I did get lucky and read a few really good books, but most of what I can remember reading was just okay.

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My mom is a librarian, so...a lot. I used to stamp due-date cards for the clerks. In summer we went almost daily--we lived in Bakersfield and had a swamp cooler, so every morning we would have swimming lessons and then walk across an empty field to the brand-new library on China Grade Loop to spend half the day.

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My mother took us at least weekly when I was little, and once I was old enough to walk there on my own I went constantly. I take my kids at least once a week now.

 

My mother remembers going to the library weekly as a child, too. I should ask her how she got there . I can't possibly imagine my grandmother took her -- she must have gone alone or with an older sibling.

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We went to the public library every week or two weeks or three weeks, depending. I grew up in the library. I was their youngest volunteer ever (at the age of 12).

 

When I got older I didn't go as often, but I would go to the school's library. In college, I worked at the library. :D

 

I love libraries!

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When I was a child, our library was downtown. (Yes. One branch. Downtown. In a capitol city. That was it.) We lived on the edge of town, perhaps 20 minutes away by car. So we only went once every couple of months during the school year, but more often in the summer.

 

 

Nowadays, there are tiny local branches all over the place, and it's much more convenient to go.

 

However, I was at my *school* library 2-3 times per week during the school year.

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It's funny, but I don't remember going to a library that wasn't a school library as a child. However, my mother had us in the weekly reader program and we got new books regularly. I got Scholastic books from school book sales, and used books from yard sales. I read all my books over and over. I even read my school books from cover to cover. :-)

 

I'm sure we must have gone to the public library, I just don't remember.

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My mom was a big reader. We went regularly for as long as I can remember. Usually, it would be every other Saturday, but sometimes we'd go on a non-library Saturday just because it was a fun thing to do.

 

Ah... fond memories. I miss my mommy.

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When I was a kid, my family went every week, sometimes twice. We LOVED the library. But that library is very different from the libraries I've visited as an adult with my own children. Frankly, the library just isn't a cozy inviting place anymore. I don't even take the time to browse. It's strictly a *get in and get out* errand. I use the website to find books I want and make sure they are available so I don't have to spend anymore time in there than I need to.

 

I don't even think of libraries as being the same kind I had when I was a kid. I see them as media centers. When I'm in my library, the majority of comfy chairs and chairs/tables are empty. I never see more than a couple of people in the aisles where the books are. But I have never seen an unoccupied computer. Honestly. And usually, all the cubbies where people can sit with their own laptops and use the free wi-fi are generally filled too.

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