Joanne Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 I've been busy enough to be numbed out until now. I'll be dropping off original documentation, shot records, etc @ xh's attorney's office tomorrow. I take all 3 kids to xh tomorrow at 6, and pick up only 2 on Sunday. :glare: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HRAAB Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amy g. Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 Oh, my heart is breaking for you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dana Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evergreen State Sue Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 :grouphug: That's gotta be rough. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meggie Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:I'm sorry you have to deal with this, especially with so much other stuff going on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carol in Cal. Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 This is not right. The world is wrong here. This should not be. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pam L in Mid Tenn Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Renee in NC Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Inna* Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 I'm sorry, Joanne. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellie Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EJCMom Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 I've got nothing but :grouphug:. I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TN Mama Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 :grouphug: I don't have any words. I can't imagine your heartache. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caitilin Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 Oh, Joanne. :crying: So sorry that things have worked out this way. Still praying for you daily.:grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rebel Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 I am so sorry you have to go through this, especially with everything else going on.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mommyfaithe Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom22ns Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalypso Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amy loves Bud Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 :grouphug: I'm sorry, Joanne. I pray that something really wonderful will come of this sorry situation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carol in Cal. Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 Joanne, I know you know this but, you may not be his custodial mother, for a season, but you'll always be his real, true, loving, capable, homeschooler, ultimate parent mother. You'll always be the one he refers to. He will never leave you behind. Your parenting is what got him going. It will be the reflexive style that he'll think of as 'normal' for his own children. When he has children of his own, he will remember all you did for him and with him, and he will be in awe. I'm sorry about this season, but I pray that it is merely a short one. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 Joanne, I know you know this but, you may not be his custodial mother, for a season, but you'll always be his real, true, loving, capable, homeschooler, ultimate parent mother. You'll always be the one he refers to. He will never leave you behind. Your parenting is what got him going. It will be the reflexive style that he'll think of as 'normal' for his own children. When he has children of his own, he will remember all you did for him and with him, and he will be in awe. I'm sorry about this season, but I pray that it is merely a short one. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Very beautiful and true. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amo_mea_filiis. Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PollyOR Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slartibartfast Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8circles Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Joanne Very beautiful and true. :iagree:This made me teary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MamaT Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: Joanne, I can't imagine how difficult this is for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FO4UR Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 Joanne, I know you know this but, you may not be his custodial mother, for a season, but you'll always be his real, true, loving, capable, homeschooler, ultimate parent mother. You'll always be the one he refers to. He will never leave you behind. Your parenting is what got him going. It will be the reflexive style that he'll think of as 'normal' for his own children. When he has children of his own, he will remember all you did for him and with him, and he will be in awe. I'm sorry about this season, but I pray that it is merely a short one. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: :iagree: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Peregrine Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 I'm sad for you. :grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Night Elf Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 Joanne, I know you know this but, you may not be his custodial mother, for a season, but you'll always be his real, true, loving, capable, homeschooler, ultimate parent mother. You'll always be the one he refers to. He will never leave you behind. Your parenting is what got him going. It will be the reflexive style that he'll think of as 'normal' for his own children. When he has children of his own, he will remember all you did for him and with him, and he will be in awe. I'm sorry about this season, but I pray that it is merely a short one. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Yes, this. My oldest dd lived with my ex-husband from ages 5 to 14 (story not relevant in this thread). It was really difficult to be the noncustodial parent, but it didn't affect my relationship with my dd. In fact, I attribute the closeness we had to the situation, much to the dismay of her dad and stepmom. I sincerely hope that good things for you and your son come out of this situation as well. Will you be able to still talk with him every day? Maybe that would help? You definitely deserve big :grouphug::grouphug:! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1bassoon Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 Joanne, I know you know this but, you may not be his custodial mother, for a season, but you'll always be his real, true, loving, capable, homeschooler, ultimate parent mother. You'll always be the one he refers to. He will never leave you behind. Your parenting is what got him going. It will be the reflexive style that he'll think of as 'normal' for his own children. When he has children of his own, he will remember all you did for him and with him, and he will be in awe. I'm sorry about this season, but I pray that it is merely a short one. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: :iagree: And :grouphug: Thinking of you, dear one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nakia Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 Many hugs and prayers. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
********* Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 I can't imagine how hard that must be. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pretty in Pink Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 (((Joanne))) I'll be praying for you. You've had so much on your plate, well, for so very long. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melinda in VT Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlessedMom Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosie_0801 Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TravelingChris Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tree House Academy Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 You are in my thoughts and prayers. Will you get visitation? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liz CA Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 Joanne :grouphug: Also wanted to say that your ds may not want to stay there for very long. All of us often think the grass is greener on the other side only to come to the conclusion that it is not. In other words I would not start painting his room pink...or something like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 you are going through SO much. I'm SO sorry.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sahamamama Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 :grouphug: I can't imagine not saying good morning and good night each day to my child. Hopefully, this season of change will bring good things to both of you, even though it's hard now to see how that could be. I'm praying for God to comfort you and help you through the hurt and loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer in MI Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 Joanne :grouphug:Also wanted to say that your ds may not want to stay there for very long. All of us often think the grass is greener on the other side only to come to the conclusion that it is not. In other words I would not start painting his room pink...or something like that. :iagree: Maybe this will be good for all of you in the long run.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natalieclare Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 Big squishy hugs coming your way... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LibraryLover Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 That has to be awful. You're still his mom, so try to hold onto that. I am so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amy in NH Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 I'm so sorry, Joanne. My heart aches for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JennyD Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 I'm so sorry. You're going through so much. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stacia Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Desert Rat Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 What she said. I'm so sorry, Joanne. I'm so sorry, Joanne. My heart aches for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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