rmtzc2009 Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 Gosh, I don't know what else to say but to ask for prayer during this difficult time. All had been progressing well with the pregnancy. My 12 week ultrasound looked good & 14 week dr visit babies heartbeat was strong. Fast forward to my 18 week OB visit last night. It was confirmed by ultrasound that the babies heart had stopped. We had infertility for 5 years & this pregnancy was such a joyful surprise. I got the news Tuesday night and am still waiting on my doctors to decide the best way to move forward. The dr wanted to do a dnc however some medical issues I have had suggest that's not the best way to go. I was told I could go to L&D and would likely labor for 2 days. They said I'm at increased risk for fragmented placenta and may require an emergency dnc anyway. It is so hard to just sit & wait and be sad. Because of my previous scar tissue problems following delivery or DNC I'll need to go in to have a laparoscopy (to remove new scar tissue). Then a uterine balloon will be placed and removed in about a week. Then they'll have to do a saline ultrasound to see if any additional laparoscopy is needed. Thanks for listening to me vent, it's been a tough day. Prayers are very much appreciated for our days ahead. Sorry if my note is unclear, my thoughts are quite jumbled today. Blessings Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ausmumof3 Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I'm so sorry for your loss. Praying for healing for you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corraleno Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I'm so sorry :sad: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneStepAtATime Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 Gosh, honey I am so, so sorry. How incredibly hard for you and your family. Do you have any support there? Huge hugs. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PuddleJumper1 Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 :grouphug: :grouphug: I am so sorry for your loss :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trulycrabby Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I am so very sorry! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RebeccaS Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I am so sorry for your loss. (((hugs))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
strange_girl Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 Many, many :grouphug: . How completely devastating :crying: . I'm so sorry. You and your family will be in our prayers. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie G Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I'm so sorry! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinder Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Word Nerd Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosie_0801 Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom2OandE Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I am so sorry for your loss. I was in the same place 12 years ago. It's very emotional. Please allow yourself the freedom to grieve. Sending hugs and prayers your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gingersmom Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I'm so, so sorry. :( Praying. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ewe Mama Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I am so, so sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MysteryJen Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I am so sorry. I, too, was in the same place 8 years ago. Many prayers and :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Occasionally Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 Oh, no. I'm so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oneddmanybooks Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I am so very sorry! I am praying for you and your family during this very difficult time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HSmomof2 Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I'm so sorry for your loss. ((((Hugs)))) Praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ashfern Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 :grouphug: I'm so sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
umsami Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 Oh, how awful. I am so so sorry. I will be praying for you, your husband, and your entire family. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustEm Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 Hugs and prayers!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlessedMom Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 ((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))) So sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ripley Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 :grouphug: I wish I could hug you in person because words are rarely as comforting - despite the best of efforts. What a scary, upsetting, confusing and heartbreaking time this must be. I pray for you, your husband, and all of your children - most especially your sweet, wee baby ... for your extended families, that they may support and love you ... for those medical caregivers to whom you're entrusted ... and most of all I pray for all mothers who know your same pain. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
East Coast Sue Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 (((hugs))) As someone who suffered loss of pregnancy with baby #4, I mourn with you and will pray for you. more (((hugs))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom2myboys Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I am so very sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers. ((hugs)) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrittanyM Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I am so so sorry! My son died at 33 weeks last year and it was life changing. I'll be praying for you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KRG Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I'm so sorry. Hugs and prayers for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I am so very sorry. Do you know your baby's gender? Are you naming him or her? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caclcoca Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I am so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freckles Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I'm so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
purpleowl Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I'm so very sorry. *hugs* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
datgh Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 Many :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: . I was there 18 years ago. Everything was going well and then no heart beat. One thing that helped me was to go have a second ultra sound. I just needed to see for myself again once i had processed the initial shock. I just couldn't believe it had happened and had to be totally sure the baby was gone before I could consent to anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happi duck Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 (Hugs) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
linders Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I'm so very sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slartibartfast Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jelbe5 Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I am so very sorry . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
texasmama Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 (((hugs))) and prayers. I am so very sorry. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flowing Brook Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I am so sorry. I will be praying for you :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest submarines Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathryn Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I am so, so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoCalLynn Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I am so very sorry for your loss. I pray for your comfort and peace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThisIsTheDay Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I am so sorry. I'm praying for you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melbotoast Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I'm so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Buckin' Longhorn Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I'm terribly sorry for your loss. Many gentle hugs for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tranquility7 Posted August 14, 2014 Share Posted August 14, 2014 I am so very sorry. You are in my prayers. :sad: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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