Rose in BC Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 I fear my son is making some bad decisions right now as a result of girl trouble. He is extremely emotional and ran put of the house. Past experience has shown he makes bad choices under stress. Please pray for my boy. Pray that he turns around and comes home. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Fairy Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 Praying right now. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emzhengjiu Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Praying for him and for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
charcat13 Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 :grouphug:Praying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kareng Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 I'm praying for you and your boy tonight. May God mightily intervene.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
In the Rain Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 :grouphug: Praying for you and your ds. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 Praying for him to turn around now. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JennifersLost Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 Praying for you and him, Rose. 16 is such a tumultuous time. He knows you love him - he'll come back! Hugs! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MooCow Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 I'm praying for you and your boy tonight. May God mightily intervene.:grouphug: :iagree: :grouphug: praying Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Just Another Jen Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 Praying for both of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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SpecialClassical Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 Praying!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TravelingChris Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 I am praying, Rose, for all your family.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GinaPagnato Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 Oh, Lord, bring that boy home safely to his family. Protect him from his own rash choices, and may Your hand of guidance lead him back with no harm done. :grouphug: It's so hard having teenagers... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom2bbj Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 Oh, Lord, bring that boy home safely to his family. Protect him from his own rash choices, and may Your hand of guidance lead him back with no harm done. Amen!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Catwoman Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Praying, Rose! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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clementine Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 Oh, Lord, bring that boy home safely to his family. Protect him from his own rash choices, and may Your hand of guidance lead him back with no harm done. :grouphug: :iagree: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rutamattatt Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 Praying... :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Rose in BC Posted October 21, 2012 Author Share Posted October 21, 2012 You guys are awesome! I feel the power of your prayers and thoughts. I just heard from one of his friends who have him at their house. He asked for me to pick him up at ten. I fear for my boy on so many levels. He is an FASD and NAS (born addicted to methadone). He definitely has an addictive personality. I want to save him but I know he has to learn to make good decisions (which is very difficult for him). On top of that, one of his friends tonight said some things that make me realize he is struggling with his roots (he apparently made reference to his birth family). My boys really struggle. And my daughter, who does not have special needs, really struggles to watch the drama of her brothers. Pray I can collect him at ten, that he doesn't leave again, and for wisdom to deal with him and his struggles. Thank you. Thank you so much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
besroma Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 Praying. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalanamak Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 I fear for my boy on so many levels. He is an FASD and NAS (born addicted to methadone). He definitely has an addictive personality. I want to save him but I know he has to learn to make good decisions (which is very difficult for him). I hope he hears the little voice uttering that uber-true statement: no girl is worth it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose in BC Posted October 21, 2012 Author Share Posted October 21, 2012 I hope he hears the little voice uttering that uber-true statement: no girl is worth it. Well he heard loud voice of his mamma (and her text) saying no girl is worth it. I just don't think he gets it. We are on our way to get him. I am praying I just collect him and deal with things tomorrow(rather than lecture him tonight which never works). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 I'm glad that he is at his friend's house. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose in BC Posted October 21, 2012 Author Share Posted October 21, 2012 He's home and I hope he stays. Occasionally he has left the house after we've gone to bed. He is a very impulsive boy. This was a tough night. At eight o'clock we tried to pick him up when his friends texted and told us where he was. When we arrived he was extremely belligerent. We hung around twenty minutes until he said pick him up at ten. We could not convince him to come back with us at that time so we left hoping for the best at ten. As I said, he's home. Thank you all for loving concern. These are tough years with special needs kids. I'm not always sure I'll have strength for tomorrow but sure enough we survive. I'm off to take a hot bath. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corraleno Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm so glad he's home now, Rose. Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 I'm glad he's home, Rose, and I'm also relieved that he had the good sense to go to a friend's house rather than get himself into any kind of trouble. I hope he calms down soon. This must be so hard for you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose in BC Posted October 21, 2012 Author Share Posted October 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm so glad he's home now, Rose. Jackie Me too! Twice before he has taken off and not come home. Once I didn't know until the morning where he was, the other time I heard from a friend's mother that he was crashing at their place. It's terrifying. It's a challenge each day. That's how we take it, one day at a time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thescrappyhomeschooler Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm so glad he's home now, Rose. Jackie :iagree: You're a good mom, Rose. Prayers for your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 Me too! Twice before he has taken off and not come home. Once I didn't know until the morning where he was, the other time I heard from a friend's mother that he was crashing at their place. It's terrifying. It's a challenge each day. That's how we take it, one day at a time. Been there. :grouphug::grouphug: Do you have a support group for yourselves? One day at a time, honey. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stayseeliz Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 Praying! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kareng Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 Do you have a support group for yourselves? One day at a time, honey. :grouphug::grouphug: I:iagree:Is there a support group nearby? I am so relieved that he's home. I will most definitely keep you and your family in my prayers. :grouphug: Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose in BC Posted October 21, 2012 Author Share Posted October 21, 2012 Been there. :grouphug::grouphug:Do you have a support group for yourselves? One day at a time, honey. :grouphug::grouphug: We have good friends but I don't always share things with people in real life. Our friends however have been along for lots of the journey. Our boys came with a lot of baggage. We've had challenges all along. I'm just not sure how this will play out in the years to come. Generally this boy has a very pleasant personality. He is just so emotional and impulsive. I can't believe the drama last night over this girl. I slept in a chair half the night. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 I'm sorry things are so difficult right now. I was with a friend last night who adopted many from foster care. All the love and nurturing in the world can't help sometimes. :crying: I hope for peace and even JOY for all of you.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dtsmamtj Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 Rose - Hey, have you considered talking with someone who specializes in adoption family counseling? There is someone here where I live in Oregon that has done wonders for families who have adopted. Praying for wisdom as try and help your son during this difficult time. T Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheApprentice Posted October 21, 2012 Share Posted October 21, 2012 praying for him.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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