LibraryLover Posted September 2, 2012 Share Posted September 2, 2012 I am thinking about you. It's so painful to consider not having the baby you already love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanceXToo Posted September 3, 2012 Author Share Posted September 3, 2012 Are you still taking your Met? (i think you said you were on it)- they say it can decrease the chance of m/c. I would see an RE though. :grouphug: I am still taking the metformin. So far no change. Minimal brownish to tannish spotting only when I wipe. Nothing else, no pain, still have pg symptoms. Went to repeat hcg draw today but prob won't get results til tomorrow or weds. Still feeling in limbo. I guess if my condition remains the same I will get more answers weds afternoon when OB does the ultrasound. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlebug42 Posted September 3, 2012 Share Posted September 3, 2012 I am praying that things will work out for you, Nancy. My heart just hurts for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie Posted September 3, 2012 Share Posted September 3, 2012 I am still taking the metformin. So far no change. Minimal brownish to tannish spotting only when I wipe. Nothing else, no pain, still have pg symptoms. Went to repeat hcg draw today but prob won't get results til tomorrow or weds. Still feeling in limbo. I guess if my condition remains the same I will get more answers weds afternoon when OB does the ultrasound. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HelenNotOfTroy Posted September 3, 2012 Share Posted September 3, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindergretta Posted September 3, 2012 Share Posted September 3, 2012 :grouphug: I'm not even going to try to offer any words of comfort or hope or defeat. We both know all too well that all we can do is wait and pray and fear for our hearts. You know I am praying ceaselessly for you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mumto2 Posted September 3, 2012 Share Posted September 3, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: My symptoms always started going away when I started spotting. That your symptoms are still there is really positive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted September 3, 2012 Share Posted September 3, 2012 Prayed again for you last night, laying on hands long distance. Whatever happens, know you are loved, and your baby, too. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellesmere Posted September 3, 2012 Share Posted September 3, 2012 :grouphug: So sorry to hear you are going through this again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProudGrandma Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 just checking on you this morning...what is the lastest....any changes??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanceXToo Posted September 4, 2012 Author Share Posted September 4, 2012 just checking on you this morning...what is the lastest....any changes??? Not really- yesterday and today so far there really isn't even any noticeable spotting when I wipe (and the day before that it was only brownish). It seems to pretty much have stopped, which would be encouraging if not for the cruddy news I got after my hospital ultrasound. I repeated my HCG draw yesterday, but probably won't get those results until I see my OB tomorrow afternoon. Tomorrow she'll tell me the results of my betas and do another ultrasound. If I'm lucky and miracles happen, then maybe she'll give me better news than the ER did but I just don't feel very hopeful. I'm sort of expecting her to tell me it's in a bad spot and not developing and that I need a D&C or shot of methotrexate again or some such, but I just won't know for sure until tomorrow late afternoon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessMommy Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 The spotting (which never did get red again yet and stayed brownish) just got lighter and lighter yesterday as the day went on, and there was like none this morning. Still no cramping or pain. BooKs still sore. I was still tired enough yesterday to take an afternoon nap AND fall asleep early in the middle of a family movie. And all these symptoms from a pregnancy the ER doc says I can't sustain and my OB says "possibly" but I think she just likes to keep you as positive as possible until it's actually over. I'd love to be positive. But I can't deal with false hope, it just makes the emotional turmoil afterward worse. I just keep feeling like I'm holding my breath waiting for the worst to happen, and wishing I could just get it over with already instead of dragging it out like this. I hit six weeks today and should be celebrating hitting yet another weekly milestone and instead I just feel hollow inside. I really don't know if I can ever do this again and don't know if I will keep trying after this. Three losses in a row is just too many. And I had been feeling good about this one. :( I'm so sorry :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Down_the_Rabbit_Hole Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 Sighing with you and giving you lots more :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 I have been following the thread and don't know what to say. Will you accept a hug? :grouphug: I am sorry you are going through this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldberry Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 If it is a miscarriage and you end up with a D and C request genetic testing. We did and that really helped us to make decisions. Praying still this is not the case, but if so, you might consider this. Just so you have all the information available to you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanceXToo Posted September 4, 2012 Author Share Posted September 4, 2012 Got beta results. Went from about 5000 Saturday to about 6200 Monday. Nowhere near doubling and definitely drastically slowing down. So more confirmation that for all intents and purposes, it's over. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
In the Rain Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 Got beta results. Went from about 5000 Saturday to about 6200 Monday. Nowhere near doubling and definitely drastically slowing down. So more confirmation that for all intents and purposes, it's over. :( I don't know anything about these numbers, but I'm sorry the news wasn't good. I know how much you wanted this baby. I can't imagine three losses. I'm so sorry, Nance. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mommyfaithe Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 Got beta results. Went from about 5000 Saturday to about 6200 Monday. Nowhere near doubling and definitely drastically slowing down. So more confirmation that for all intents and purposes, it's over. :( :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I am so so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amy g. Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 I'm just so sorry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BakersDozen Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 My heart just fell. :( I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i.love.lucy Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 :grouphug: Nance, I am so so sorry! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justLisa Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HejKatt Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 :grouphug: Praying for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
k2bdeutmeyer Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 :( That really wasn't what I was hoping to hear. I'm just so, so sorry!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mumto2 Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little Nyssa Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 Nance, I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 That really sucks. I am so sorry. I do hope you go see a specialist.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Word Nerd Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 Got beta results. Went from about 5000 Saturday to about 6200 Monday. Nowhere near doubling and definitely drastically slowing down. So more confirmation that for all intents and purposes, it's over. :( I'm so sorry. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catz Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jujsky Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JenC3 Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 This is just suck, suck, sucky! I'm so sorry:( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Asmaa Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 Oh Nance, I'm so sorry! :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Asmaa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 i'm so sorry :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mama_Rana Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 (edited) Got beta results. Went from about 5000 Saturday to about 6200 Monday. Nowhere near doubling and definitely drastically slowing down. So more confirmation that for all intents and purposes, it's over. :( Nance, ***big hugs*** This time in pregnancy is SOOOO scary. I spotted with all 3 of my pregnancies, lost the second one, and was terrified throughout the entire first trimester of the 3rd one. I don't want to give you false hope. I think I missed a post about an US? [eta: went back and found the posts about the US, but no words of wisdome] But I did want to tell you that your numbers do NOT have to double every 72 hours, esp. not at 6 weeks. I did only a quick search, but here is one site with info and more links: http://www.squidoo.com/nondoublinghcg With my 3rd, when I started spotting, I got the beta draws, and when I heard the results of the second one, my heart fell because like yours it was not double. But I had an US a week or so later, and his heartbeat was there, measuring pretty much to dates, and he's now 3 and a handful of joy. Not doubling is not definitive. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: and prayers for strength as you pass through this valley. Edited September 4, 2012 by Mama_Rana typing with yelling kids in the background is a recipe for disaster! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirch Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 I'm sorry, Nance. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrsBasil Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Momof3littles Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I am so sorry. It sounded like this was the way it was going to end, but I was still hoping for a miracle for you. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jpoy85 Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
besroma Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 I am so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathryn Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 I'm so sorry!:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenL Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 Oh, Nance... I don't know what to say. I'm so sorry. I'm praying for you still. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mommy22alyns Posted September 4, 2012 Share Posted September 4, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canadianmumof5 Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: So sorry to see all of this today. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LibraryLover Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 :grouphug: Do you have the ultrasound on Wednesday? I will be thinking about you. When I lost a baby, I dreamed about people giving me babies. It's so awful. I was older than you when I had my last babe, so there is hope if this little one can't stay. I wish you a decent night's sleep. I'm so sorry you have to worry so. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen in PA Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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prairiegirl Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 I am so sorry, Nance. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halcyon Posted September 5, 2012 Share Posted September 5, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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