Mom in High Heels Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 I'm so freaked out. I'm trying not to be, but I can't help it. I hadn't heard from James Bond in several days, which is unusual given that he works on a computer and has email access. I finally heard from his tonight (telephone) and he said the reason he hadn't been in contact is because he was involved in a Green on Blue attack (Afghan soldier attacking international forces) and communications were on lock down until the families of the wounded soldiers were informed. James Bond is fine. He was not hurt in the incident, but just the fact that he was involved at all has me on the edge. I can't go into details, but he's no longer a combat soldier but works in the rear. Technically, he's never really been a "front line fighter", but has been through plenty of combat. I went through years worrying about him in combat situations and thought I might breathe a little easier now that he's in the rear. Apparently not. I'm so upset I'm shaking. We have more than 9 months left of this deployment and weekly there are reports of Green on Blue attacks. I feel like my head whole body is in a vice and being compressed more every day. It's just after 10pm here and I'm tired, but I know I won't sleep for hours yet as my mind is racing and my lungs don't seem capable of pulling in oxygen. There's no point to this post. I just have to get it out so I can remain calm for the boys. Thank goodness they're asleep. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug: I'm sorry. I'll be thinking of you and your family and all those involved. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freeindeed Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug: My son was over there during some of the same type occurences last year. I am praying.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hilltop Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QuirkyKidAcademy Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 Oh, my friend! I can't imagine what it's like to be you right now. Know that I'm holding you and the boy close to my heart. (((hugs))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer in MI Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 I am so sorry. I can only imagine the fear. :grouphug: Thank you to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dana Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I can't imagine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Catwoman Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm so glad he's OK, but I can't even imagine your stress level right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cassy Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Mom in High Heels Posted August 31, 2012 Author Share Posted August 31, 2012 You guys are amazing. I'm much calmer now. I think I spent a few moments in shock. Seriously. I was shaky and cold and nauseous. I did a quick infusion of sugar (via a Pepsi) because I've always heard sugar is good for shock. I don't know if it worked or if I just needed some time, but most of the shakiness and coldness is gone. I still feel nauseous, but that could be because I'm so tired. Poor James Bond has been awake for 28 hours, because of what happened and having to deal with the aftermath and has another 7 hours before he gets off shift. I don't know how he does it. Again, thank you all for your kindness. Many of you frequently restore my faith in humanity. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stacia Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mommyof4ks Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forget-Me-Not Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'll say a prayer for his safety. Try to get some rest mama. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mumto2 Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathryn Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Melissa in Australia Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: remember that the hive is always here for you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fraidycat Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm sorry you had to hear such scary news. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Prayers for your DH and for you sanity. Prayers for all deployed servicemen/women, and their families. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondeviolin Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug: As a military spouse, the unknown is the WORST. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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FairyMom Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 I'm so freaked out. I'm trying not to be, but I can't help it. I hadn't heard from James Bond in several days, which is unusual given that he works on a computer and has email access.I finally heard from his tonight (telephone) and he said the reason he hadn't been in contact is because he was involved in a Green on Blue attack (Afghan soldier attacking international forces) and communications were on lock down until the families of the wounded soldiers were informed. James Bond is fine. He was not hurt in the incident, but just the fact that he was involved at all has me on the edge. I can't go into details, but he's no longer a combat soldier but works in the rear. Technically, he's never really been a "front line fighter", but has been through plenty of combat. I went through years worrying about him in combat situations and thought I might breathe a little easier now that he's in the rear. Apparently not. I'm so upset I'm shaking. We have more than 9 months left of this deployment and weekly there are reports of Green on Blue attacks. I feel like my head whole body is in a vice and being compressed more every day. It's just after 10pm here and I'm tired, but I know I won't sleep for hours yet as my mind is racing and my lungs don't seem capable of pulling in oxygen. There's no point to this post. I just have to get it out so I can remain calm for the boys. Thank goodness they're asleep. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Hang in there. I don't have the right words other than I wish I could help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BugsMama Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug: Sent you a message on FB. I'm here if you ever need company or wine delivery service Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justamouse Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: I don't know how you do it. How both of you do it. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amydavis Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Thinking of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Florida. Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug: I can't even imagine how scary that must be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
In the Rain Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug: You military wives are amazing. Really! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fraidycat Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 I just wanted to add that my mantra when communications go down is "No new means good news (for me/us)." Several times a day, over and over, until I *do* hear from him again. It's tough. I know. BTDT, but communications can go down for so many reasons (like the one you mentioned) that I feel "lucky" that I haven't heard anything, KWIM? More :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TN Mama Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Praying for peace for you and safety for JB. :patriot: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mommyfaithe Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 (edited) :grouphug:Many prayers:grouphug: Retired Army wife here agreeing, no news is good news...but man is it unnerving. Edited August 31, 2012 by Tammyla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom25girls Posted August 31, 2012 Share Posted August 31, 2012 :grouphug: Praying for all of you. I'm so sorry.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elizabeth in MN Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 Oh sweetie! *HUGS* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenCat Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 Many :grouphug:s to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KnitWit Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I would also struggle with being shaken. May you have peace in the midst of this. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nukeswife Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 :grouphug: things like this are one of the reasons I'm glad my husband is Navy. I know it's no guarantee that he's safer, but I like knowing he's not "in the thick of it" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cricket Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 :grouphug: You military wives are amazing. Really! :grouphug: :iagree: :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Desert Rat Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: How scary for you! I hope you can get some sleep.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Ibbygirl Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 I'm so freaked out. I'm trying not to be, but I can't help it. I hadn't heard from James Bond in several days, which is unusual given that he works on a computer and has email access.I finally heard from his tonight (telephone) and he said the reason he hadn't been in contact is because he was involved in a Green on Blue attack (Afghan soldier attacking international forces) and communications were on lock down until the families of the wounded soldiers were informed. James Bond is fine. He was not hurt in the incident, but just the fact that he was involved at all has me on the edge. I can't go into details, but he's no longer a combat soldier but works in the rear. Technically, he's never really been a "front line fighter", but has been through plenty of combat. I went through years worrying about him in combat situations and thought I might breathe a little easier now that he's in the rear. Apparently not. I'm so upset I'm shaking. We have more than 9 months left of this deployment and weekly there are reports of Green on Blue attacks. I feel like my head whole body is in a vice and being compressed more every day. It's just after 10pm here and I'm tired, but I know I won't sleep for hours yet as my mind is racing and my lungs don't seem capable of pulling in oxygen. There's no point to this post. I just have to get it out so I can remain calm for the boys. Thank goodness they're asleep. Oh honey!! That is so hard. :( I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted September 1, 2012 Share Posted September 1, 2012 Oh my gosh! That is SOOOOOOOOO tough!!! I am so sorry. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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