sleepymommy Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug: I'm sorry. This has got to be so hard. You and your kids will be alright and you will feel peace and love again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littleWMN Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 I'm so sorry for your pain and especially (though no time is "right") at this time of year. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nakia Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug: So sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
linguistmama Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 I'm so sorry! :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unicorn. Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katiebug_1976 Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug:I'm so sorry. I hope things go smoothly and work out for the best of your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kristinannie Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 I am so sorry. I will pray for you. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teachin'Mine Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 RainbowSprinkes, I'm praying for all of you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evergreen State Sue Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug: I pray you will continue to be fabulous parents to your children. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tampamommy Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleIzumi Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: I pray you are guided to do what is truly best for you and your children, whatever that may be. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silliness7 Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 I'm so sorry. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Free Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Free Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug: I'm sorry. This has got to be so hard. You and your kids will be alright and you will feel peace and love again. :001_smile: Yes, this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Based on Faith Academy Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm sorry to hear this..I know how much it hurts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cammie Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug: I am very sorry. You will need all the strength you can gather from within yourself, your friends, your family, your faith, etc. for the next few months. Be willing to ask for help and to seek support. But it will get better. You, and your children, can survive this. You can create a better future for all of you. Good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Mungo Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 My dh and I will celebrate our 18th anniversary next spring. We are at a point where nearly everyone we know has gone through some really hard stuff in their marriages. Many people reconcile and build better marriages. Many people divorce and build a different kind of lives for themselves. Many have remarried and are *much* happier. I agree that things get easier once the kids get bigger. But, nobody knows anything about a marriage when you are looking in from the outside. Make the best decision that you can live with and move forward from there. I am sorry you are going through this. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeslieAnneLevine Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug: Take good care of you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elfgivas Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug: for me, way back when, xdh went thru the house on Christmas Eve telling me the things he'd take when he left. sigh.... :grouphug: its a journey i'm sorry you're having to take. looking back, some of the things that helped.... reading and snuggling in bed with dc, drinking tea at 4 pm every day in an arm chair with a book. some days, it lasted only 5 minutes, but for just that time, i was taking care of me. most days, it was closer to 15, and i went back to dc more centered and rested. :grouphug: i'm sorry. while it may be better in the long run, in the short term it is just hard..... ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MtnTeaching Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 I keep coming back to your post. It makes me so sad for you. Divorce just stinks all the way around, for everyone involved. :grouphug: to you and your children. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jay3fer Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 Just saw this - so sorry. :-( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myfunnybunch Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katiejane Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 So very sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomandlorih Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug: So very sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8circles Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 Im so sorry:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amo_mea_filiis. Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrothead Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 Sorry to hear this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: There will never be a good timing for this, might as well get it over with. My marriage is over. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gingersmom Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clarkacademy Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 I am so sorry, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HollyBee Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 I am so sorry. My sister (who has four children) is going through a divorce right now. It just sucks. For everyone involved. Love on your babies. :grouphug: And love on yourself. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen in PA Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chepyl Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lizzie in Ma Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Florida. Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julie Smith Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Live2Ride Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 I'm so sorry. My prayers of strength and calm go out to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beccad777 Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 I am so sorry! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luvnlattes Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 I'm very sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ma23peas Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 What a bad place to be in! :grouphug: I have learned from experience to know there may be a flicker of hope. When I was 16, my father filed for divorce from my mom....I actually had prayed for a divorce for them...the crap they went through for four years was horrific. Somehow, this Christmas eve they will celebrate 49 years of marriage...and I can honestly say for 10 of those years a divorce would have seemed the best and only resolution...but for the other 39 it has been a testament of the best in two people, not the worst...four out of five decades is not so bad...just wanted to offer some hope if there is a flicker. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom-ninja. Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 It takes 2 to make a marriage work. It only takes one to destroy one. This is what can make it so hard in some marriages. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trish Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 Kids so young! I'm so sorry. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanceXToo Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 I'm sorry. :grouphug: I divorced my oldest daughter's father a very long time ago. All I can say is that while it was hard at first to get used to being a single mom and helping my daughter through her adjustment period of living without her father, we all DID adjust and I have never- EVER- regretted that divorce. It was the right decision for me. I DO believe that a miserably unhappy couple is better off apart, that staying together "for the children" is pointless if the children are growing up in a loveless household with bitter parents and that the children are better off seeing those two parents separately in two separate households without fighting or constant tension or whatever the issue is, where they can just enjoy being- separately- with parents who love them, and, yes, children do adjust. It will be okay. Your children will be okay. They will still have their father in their lives, just differently. You will be okay. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WeeBeaks Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 I'm so sorry. Wishing you strength as you move forward. :grouphug: :iagree::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ohdanigirl Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :grouphug: Sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JenniferB Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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