Joanne Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I just can't leave him alone anymore. It's not safe and it's not good for him. He will be "medicaid pending". They will take all of his social security disability until (or if) he gets nursing home medicaid. I can't make it without his ssd - especially since I am not getting child support. But he needs to live and be somewhere safe. I am only 46, and have only been married to him 5 years. He loved being with usm building our life. I will process this and get over myself but right now, I am upset that my life doesn't seem to attract fair or balance out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Night Elf Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meggie Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SJ. Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I am so sorry Joanne. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KnitWit Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Oh ((((Joanne)))) I'm so sorry. I will be praying for you as you walk through this awful place. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juniper Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: I am sorry Joanne. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I'm sorry Joanne. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: I am so sorry, Joanne. :grouphug: You remain in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barb_ Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 Oh Joanne, not good news from any angle. I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Once Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 So sorry you are walking such an unfair path. It is all so unfair and I have no words to help encourage you. Just hugs. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caitilin Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Oh, Joanne, that's just wretched. I am so sorry.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fraidycat Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tex-mex Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I just can't leave him alone anymore. It's not safe and it's not good for him. He will be "medicaid pending". They will take all of his social security disability until (or if) he gets nursing home medicaid. I can't make it without his ssd - especially since I am not getting child support. But he needs to live and be somewhere safe. I am only 46, and have only been married to him 5 years. He loved being with usm building our life. I will process this and get over myself but right now, I am upset that my life doesn't seem to attract fair or balance out. So sorry Joanne. So so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unicorn. Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I'm so sorry. My heart is breaking for you and Adrian. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurie4b Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I'm very sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jelbe5 Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: Continuing to pray for you and Adrian. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SonshineLearner Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :( So sorry :( Sometimes it seems like you can't get a break :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liz CA Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I read this as there is no chance of improvement? I am sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
staceyobu Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 Sorry to hear this. I always read your threads... it just seems at some point that things would have to get better or easier. I hate that you've had it so hard for so long now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NorthwestMom Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: It's NOT fair at all. I am so sorry you are going through this. You are one of my favorite posters and such a wise person. You deserve a lot more ease in this world. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghee Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
milovany Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I'm sorry, Joanne. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaz Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forget-Me-Not Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
5LittleMonkeys Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I'm glad that he will be safe, but I'm so sorry for both of you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lara in Colo Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I am so sorry. Lara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mabeline Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: I am so sorry. You and your family are in my prayers. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TranquilMind Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I just can't leave him alone anymore. It's not safe and it's not good for him. He will be "medicaid pending". They will take all of his social security disability until (or if) he gets nursing home medicaid. I can't make it without his ssd - especially since I am not getting child support. But he needs to live and be somewhere safe. I am only 46, and have only been married to him 5 years. He loved being with usm building our life. I will process this and get over myself but right now, I am upset that my life doesn't seem to attract fair or balance out. I'm sorry. That's truly awful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SunnyDays Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 Oh, Joanne... I'm sorry. That has to be so difficult. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
besroma Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I am so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elfgivas Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: you are a good woman to be doing the Right thing, even when its hard, and will make it a ton harder for you financially. at the same time, i can imagine it will be a relief to not be afraid to leave him each time you need to go to work, because you know he will be safer. you just keep on keeping on (because really, what other choice is there?). nobody promised fair, but even just a little bit fairer would be a truly lovely thing!! i am so very thankful you had five good years to share life together.... i wish you could have had ever so many more... :grouphug: ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little Nyssa Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 Joanne, :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i.love.lucy Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 So sorry Joanne. Sending you warm hugs and prayers.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teachin'Mine Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZooRho Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I'm so very sorry. I had to look for my parents a place in the fall. I got in touch with this place it was really helpful. It is no cost to you to use them. My brother lived in the town we were looking at but he only knew of a few of the places, this place was able to help me really look for exactly what was needed. they will do medicaid stuff too I believe. Was he a veteran? http://www.aplaceformom.com/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coffeefreak Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 No words, just :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: and prayers. Lots and lots of prayer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StephanieZ Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so very sorry you are going through this. It is so cruel. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandelion Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I'm so sorry. Wishing you strength as you make these very difficult and painful decisions. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirch Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I'm so sorry, Joanne.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BMW Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: So sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StaceyinLA Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dolphin Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: I am so sorry. Your strength and your humor will get you through this. Please keep you humor and your hope. I had something horrible happen, thought life for me was over. It was something I had to walk through to get to where I am now. After a whole lot of unfair, smooth sailing arrived. I would go through it all again to get to where I am now. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mumto2 Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I am so sorry :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KayT Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: I'm very sorry Joanne. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Onceuponatime Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 Praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amber in AUS Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 Thinking of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: So sorry Joanne. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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