KristinaBreece Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 DH moved out earlier this week. Of necessity, the kids & I will be going home to live with my mother while we sort this all out. (That second chance safety net from the other night? My grandfather offered to my mother for her & the kids & me to live in his vacant house-- my mom & I both grew up there. Really. Going Home.) We've had some.... issues that have been recurring and we both really need time to step back and get a healthy perspective on ourselves and our relationship. There will be lots of counseling-- for him, for me, for us. Definitely for DS. He's an extremely sensitive little guy who already struggles with the dynamic between himself & his dad, so I know this is going to be hard for him. Surprisingly, I'm not... upset about this. For the first time in a long time, I'm calm. I feel like this is the right next step for me. And for our family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jallison25 Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 i'm glad you have somewhere safe and welcoming to go to!:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I've been thinking about you!!!:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LG Gone Wild Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 Oh. :grouphug: :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Lulu* Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meggie Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug:Prayers for you and your family. I'm glad you have a safety net and I hope everything works out for the best. (I missed the second chance safety net you are referring to):grouphug: Best wishes to you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaillardia Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: I'm glad you have a safe place too.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canadianmumof5 Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 Prayers & :grouphug: for you & your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest submarines Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nakia Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 Much love and prayers for you and yours. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twoforjoy Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: So glad you have somewhere to go. Praying for you, your DH, and your kids. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janie Grace Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug: I'm sorry you're in this situation but I'm glad you have a good option. I'm glad you're peaceful, too. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellie Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nono Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug: I'm sorry to read you are having such rough times, but relieved that you have a plan. Good luck and best wishes on your journey! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 I will pray for you, if that's ok. Don't give up--even the most hopeless situations can have some healing. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquinas Academy Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KristinaBreece Posted October 14, 2011 Author Share Posted October 14, 2011 I will pray for you, if that's ok.Don't give up--even the most hopeless situations can have some healing. :grouphug: It is okay. And thank you. I've had a few people praying for me. I think that's part of why I'm able to be okay with the way things are going right now. Thanks for the :grouphug: and prayers/good thoughts, everyone. It means a lot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrsBasil Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
linguistmama Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pretty in Pink Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 I'll be thinking about you. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenCat Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 Lots of :grouphug:s to you and your family. I'm glad you have a plan, and that you recognize the benefits of counseling. It can be really helpful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sbgrace Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug: I'll say a prayer for each of you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julie Smith Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 (edited) Hugs. Edited October 14, 2011 by Julie Smith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Praying for you and your kids. I can almost feel the peace in your post, and am glad you have made a decision that feels right to you. I hope everything works out for you and your children. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alyeska Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug: to your whole family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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MelissaMinNC Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug: and prayers for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
9763653 Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Wishing you strength and peace! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joyofsixreboot Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justamouse Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug: I'll be keeping you in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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amydavis Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I hope everything works out for the best for you, your children, and your dh. You're in my thoughts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom2denj Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 Sending up prayers for your family!! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
In the Rain Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug: I'm sorry for what you are going through, and glad you have a safety net. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinder Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 :grouphug: for you and :grouphug::grouphug:for your little ones. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alison in KY Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 prayer and a :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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simka2 Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 You are loved and in mu thoughts! Continue to take care of yourself!!!! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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