Night Elf Posted June 9, 2011 Share Posted June 9, 2011 Oh that's so sad. I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted June 9, 2011 Author Share Posted June 9, 2011 Thank you all so very much! Your thoughts and prayers are so very much appreciated. I am still just stunned -- I want to smack myself out of that stunned state, but I just cannot fathom how Stacey is going to get through this. Right now, my plans are to go up there on Sunday and spend the week. Thank you all again. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparrow Posted June 9, 2011 Share Posted June 9, 2011 I'm so sorry :grouphug:. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChristineW Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I am so sorry. I lost a baby at 18 weeks and eight years and three healthy babies later, I still haven't quite gotten over it. To have it happen twice? There are no words. I will be praying for your family. Christine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Oh, Mariann, I am so so sorry. If there is anything I can do send me FB message. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LauraGB Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 So sorry, Mariann!:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LibraryLover Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Your poor daughter. I am so sorry she is suffering so. I am so sorry your whole family has had such sorrow. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heather in Neverland Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I am so very sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jan in SC Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug: I'm so very sorry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosie_0801 Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :( :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MBM Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Oh, no! I'm so sorry. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moxie Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I'm so sorry. My sister lost a baby at 20 weeks. It is so hard on the whole family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1bassoon Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug: prayers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forget-Me-Not Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Oh no. My heart sank when I read your thread title. I'm so very sorry. You and your family will be in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DianeW88 Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I'm so sorry. Please have her ask her OB about genetic testing on the baby. (I hope this doesn't sound insensitive, I don't mean for it to be, but I'm sure she wants answers as to why this is happening, and this is how you get them.) She needs to request it before she delivers. They will check the baby and many times they can figure out what the problem is. Once is random....twice is not. She should also check with her insurance company. Often it's not covered :glare:, but it is very worth it. Many prayers and :grouphug: for your entire family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
helena Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southcarolinamom Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Oh no.... I'm so very, very sorry. Praying that God gives you the right words to say. I know your presence will be of immense help and comfort to her. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellesmere Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug: Along with what DianeW said, I hope her doctor will also help her discover the cause. I had a friend go through multiple miscarriages and they finally figured out what was wrong. Thankfully, they have two healthy children, but it was after many heartbreaking losses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SnowWhite Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 So sad. I'll be remembering you and Stacey and family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparkle Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :sad: :angelsad2: So sorry, no words, just :grouphug: and prayers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JumpedIntoTheDeepEndFirst Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 So sorry for you all. I'm glad you'll be able to be with her. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrothead Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Oh, my goodness! How awful for the lot of you. I just can't imagine. :grouphug: I hope her doctor can find the reason for both of these losses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coffeefreak Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I'm sorry Marianne. :crying: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cshell Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I am so sorry.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyagain Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I am sooooo sorry!!!! I just can't imagine the pain and grief!!:grouphug::grouphug:'s and many prayers your way! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prairiebird Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 so sorry. Your family is in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug: So, so sorry. That is just so sad I can't stand it. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MamaT Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: My internet has been down all day and I just saw this. How horrible. That is just not fair. I will be praying for you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Desert Rat Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Horrible news! You and Stacey are in my prayers and thoughts. Sending peace your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenCat Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:s and prayers to Stacey and your family. Praying for extra strength for you as you help her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melmichigan Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I am so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I'm very sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greta Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 How awful. I cannot even imagine. :grouphug: and prayers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teachin'Mine Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I am so sorry Mariann. I'm praying for Stacey and the whole family. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwickimom Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :crying::crying::crying: I will be praying for you guys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted June 10, 2011 Author Share Posted June 10, 2011 Thank you all again -- the women on this board are without a doubt the kindest anywhere! Stacey thanks you all as well for your kind thoughts, words and prayers and offers to speak with her- I just hung up the phone with her. She is going to take a sleeping pill and try to sleep. She is 'such' the scientist (high school physics teacher) -- she is devastated and heartbroken (that goes without saying) but she also said that this is not random and now she and her doctors are going to find out what is going on. I am relieved to hear that from her -- b/c honestly, I am still sitting here stunned and clueless. Blessings to all of you --:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I have been thinking of you and your daughter all evening, M. My heart breaks for your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudoMom Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I'm so very, very sorry, Mariann :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mommyfaithe Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Thank you all again -- the women on this board are without a doubt the kindest anywhere! Stacey thanks you all as well for your kind thoughts, words and prayers and offers to speak with her- I just hung up the phone with her. She is going to take a sleeping pill and try to sleep. She is 'such' the scientist (high school physics teacher) -- she is devastated and heartbroken (that goes without saying) but she also said that this is not random and now she and her doctors are going to find out what is going on. I am relieved to hear that from her -- b/c honestly, I am still sitting here stunned and clueless. Blessings to all of you --:grouphug: Does Stacey have Lyme?? Lyme disease can pass through the placenta to a baby. Again, I am so sorry. Faithe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hannah C. Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I am so, so sorry. Praying for all of you. Hopefully the doctors can figure out what's causing this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emerkaza Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Mariann, I am so very sorry for your loss. I will pray for your daughter, Stacey and the rest of your family. {{{Hugs}}} Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted June 10, 2011 Author Share Posted June 10, 2011 Does Stacey have Lyme?? Lyme disease can pass through the placenta to a baby. Again, I am so sorry.Faithe Hi, Faithe -- No -- Stacey's younger sister is the one with Lyme disease. But, our family is a walking advertisement for immune disorders -- :glare: -- which is what I think is going on here. One other thing, though, three weeks ago, the doctor was a little concerned about the placement of the placenta, but then determined that it was fine. Now, though, in hindsight, one has to wonder if that could have been the cause of this. I've been googling, and placenta insufficiency (due to placement) can cause IUFD. And, thank you sweetie. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crissy Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Oh, Mariann. I am so sorry. Hugs and prayers to you, Stacey and the rest of your family. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nakia Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Oh Mariann. I don't know what to say. I am just so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted June 10, 2011 Author Share Posted June 10, 2011 I have been thinking of you and your daughter all evening, M. My heart breaks for your family. DA -- Thank you!!!!! I've been thinking about you too -- you need a 'grandma' name -- Your thoughts and prayers are so appreciated.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted June 10, 2011 Author Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug: My internet has been down all day and I just saw this. How horrible. That is just not fair. I will be praying for you all. Horrible news! You and Stacey are in my prayers and thoughts. Sending peace your way. :grouphug:s and prayers to Stacey and your family. Praying for extra strength for you as you help her. I am so sorry. :grouphug: I'm very sorry. :grouphug: How awful. I cannot even imagine. :grouphug: and prayers I am so sorry Mariann. I'm praying for Stacey and the whole family. :grouphug: I will be praying for you guys I'm so very' date=' very sorry, Mariann .[/quote'] I am so, so sorry. Praying for all of you. Hopefully the doctors can figure out what's causing this. Mariann, I am so very sorry for your loss. I will pray for your daughter, Stacey and the rest of your family. {{{Hugs}}} Oh, Mariann. I am so sorry. Hugs and prayers to you, Stacey and the rest of your family. Oh Mariann. I don't know what to say. I am just so sorry. Thank you all so very much! Heavens, you all are such an incredible support in my life. Thank you! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlessedMom Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug: Such sad news, I am so very sorry. :grouphug: Prayers :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barb_ Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Mariann, my neighbor lost two babies second trimester before going on to have a live preemie. She was born at 27 weeks but is now strong and healthy. I can't remember what was happening, but they were able to pinpoint it. She has since moved so I can't ask her! I hope your daughter's daughters figure out what is going on if she decides ever to try again. I can't imagine how she must feel. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blueridge Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Bless her heart. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairfarmhand Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 :grouphug: and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.