TranquilMind Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 7 years ago, when I was a struggling single mom, I met him. He respected, and supported, my rules about dating as a single mom. He respected my rules about intimacy. He respected my rules about dating (only when xh had the kids and some other stuff). When introducing him to the kids was possible (met my criteria), he cried that I had given him the honor. Right there in CiCi's, he cried. He was over at the house one weekend. He was trying to help with outside projects. I didn't have the correct tools/stuff. He took the boys, went to Home Depot and returned with the boys ;) and an outdoor broom, a quality rake, and some basic tools. He taught the boys how to build, fix things, take care of tools. He coached baseball 4 seasons, for both boys. He earned money purposely to buy a keyboard for my dd (who can't do sports). He went to my dd's JRA Doctor's appointment. He took my dd to see Taylor Swift. He made me watch sappy movies that made me cry (Christmas shoes? What's the POINT of all that emoting?) When financial burdens were imposed on us, he took any and all odd jobs he could. He designed alarm systems. He put siding on a home. He ran firework stands. He drove school buses. He planned family outings: a fishing contest, a trip to Six Flags, a trip to the amusement park in Houston before it closed, a trip to Schlitterbahn. Movies. He taught me how to play Texas Hold Em. He is THE REASON I am a therapist. Once, when he was listening to me on the phone counseling a woman about parenting, he asked me incredulously why WASN'T I DOING THAT FOR A LIVING. Finally, we made things happen to make me getting my Masters a priority. He supported and cheered me on every single day I was a student, including my final semester in which he was getting very sick. He began his own Masters. He was going to be a Chaplain at a hospital, nursing home, etc. And, tomorrow, he goes in one. I'm so very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atozmom Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Joanne that was a beautiful tribute. You have an amazing husband and you are a wonderful wife. My heart is breaking for you right now. :crying: Praying for you both. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KatieJ Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: What a lovely tribute. My heart is breaking for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Desert Rat Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 My heart is so heavy for you, Joanne. Hugs and prayers for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoot Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 Wow what a beautiful and moving tribute to the man you love. I'm new here so I don't know any of your details, but I am truly sorry that you are going through this. My heart breaks for you but at the same time, those memories that you just shared are yours forever. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dhudson Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 That was a beautiful way to honor him. Praying for all of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eaglei Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 Your tribute was heartfelt and heartwrenching. I simply cannot fathom just how many collective hearts and minds are absolutely aching with you tonight. We love you and we are here. May God give you strength and peace to cope with yet another unimaginable burden. :grouphug: You grace each other. :grouphug: :crying: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenCat Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug:Joanne:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FairyMom Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: So very sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teachin'Mine Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I am so, so sorry. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I didn't read through everything, but is it possible that this could help get him on the transplant list? What more could they possibly want? I'm praying for both of you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChristyB in TN Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 You are an inspiration to those around you and it sounds as though your husband has been that, too. Thank you so much for being you and for sharing with us. What a day you are having and I will think of you all day. I will think of your husband, too. My meditation today will be centered on you and your life...and his. Please know I am sending peace your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nova147 Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. You have been, and continue to be, in my prayers. May I suggest you print this for your husband's room? I'm sure the staff will benefit from knowing what a wonderful man they are caring for. May God bless you in this difficult time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clementine Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: Oh my, be strong. Prayers for your family! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4everHis Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 That was an amazing description. The love you have for him really comes through. I am so sorry. My heart is breaking. For all of you. :grouphug: I agree. What a legacy he has lived for your kids. Praying for you.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4everHis Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. You have been, and continue to be, in my prayers. May I suggest you print this for your husband's room? I'm sure the staff will benefit from knowing what a wonderful man they are caring for. May God bless you in this difficult time. What an incredibly great idea. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle in AL Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: :grouphug::grouphug: There are not enough hugs for what you've been through!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justamouse Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :crying::crying::crying: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MBM Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 You have been through so much, Joanne. I really admire how you've followed your dreams through such difficult times. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luvnlattes Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: :grouphug: He sounds like a wonderful person. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freesia Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KrissiK Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalypso Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 I'm so sorry, Joanne. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QuirkyKapers Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scrapbabe Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elfgivas Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: what a beautiful tribute. we'll light a candle on the dining room table this morning, and think of you both each time we go by it... :grouphug: ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denise in Florida Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 What a moving description of a life. Thank you for sharing with us, I hope the memories you have listed continue to give you comfort. :grouphug::grouphug: and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BatmansWife Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 I'm so sorry for Adrian and what he's had to go through. And, you too...I feel so badly for you to. He sounds like a wonderful person. :grouphug: :crying: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teachaheart Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nan in Mass Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 I am so so sorry. May all the prayers of the world rain down upon your heads and may you and your family find many resting places in this hard road you are traveling and ultimately come to a peaceful place together. Nan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KS_ Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 He sounds like a very wonderful man - thank you for sharing that :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jujsky Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: He sounds like a wonderful person. This is truly one of the most beautiful posts I've ever read. I'm so very sorry your family is going through this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SJ. Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 He sounds like an amazing man. I'm sorry your family is going through all this heartache. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MelAR05 Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 He sounds like a very wonderful man - thank you for sharing that :grouphug: :iagree: :crying: :grouphug: I pray for mercy upon you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassenach Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 Praying for you today. It makes me wonder just how sick a man needs to be to get on the d@mn transplant list. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amy+2 Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: He sounds like a wonderful man with a big heart. Praying for all of you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandelion Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 What a beautiful tribute to your husband, Joanne. He sounds like a wonderful man. I'm so sorry your family is going through this. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OLG Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 Beautiful, brings tears to my eyes. What a wonderful person your dh is and what a wonderful example you both are to what a marriage truly is all about. His example and your mutual love will be forever imprinted upon your kids. And all that you do, dear lady, will be through him in some small way. I am sorry for your pain.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaz Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 What a wonderful man! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlessedMom Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: He sounds like an absolutely amazing man!! My heart is touched & blessed by your tribute to him! Joanne, I am just so sorry life is this challenging for you all right now. You, your wonderful husband, and your precious family will be in my prayers! :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheApprentice Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :crying::grouphug: Praying for you on this journey. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleIzumi Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justLisa Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coffeetime Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: Praying for you, Joanne. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catz Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parker Martin Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 Oh, Joanne, I am so very sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gardenmom5 Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cindy in FL. Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 Wow! What an amazing tribute to a wonderful man. I don't think Christmas Shoes could have touched me any more than your post. Praying for you, your dh, and your children as you continue this journey together. :grouphug: Cindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TammyinTN Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 You guys are in my prayers. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mabeline Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 What a wonderful man! I am so sorry. Your family is in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest submarines Posted June 26, 2012 Share Posted June 26, 2012 :grouphug: Thank you for sharing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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