Mrs Mungo Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Making a poll, I'm not debating it, I'm just curious where the numbers fall. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peela Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I asked my husband. He said life for him began when he was about 28 :) I put I don't know, because I don't. But from another perspective, I think everything is alive anyway- the earth, the trees, even the rocks. There is a living force, that some call God, that permeates everything at all times, and we can never be separate from it, but neither can anything else. That's what the saints and masters became aware of, and why they can love unconditionally, rather than separate life and people into bits that are worthy and unworthy. I think a better question than when does life begin, is when does consciousness begin? When is a baby aware of itself? An omeoba responds to its environment. So does a plant cell. So the ability to respond to its environment doesn't really count as a criteria. I can't remember when I became aware of myself. My memories stretch back to about age 3. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mad Jenny Flint Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I think viability is a big consideration. Viability without outside intervention. Viability without medical technology. However, if my child required medical intervention for some space of time to continue living I would certainly pursue it- even if it were for a pre-term birth. It's just a very complicated question. My short answer is that I would not choose to have an abortion outside of being raped; and I would never force another woman to carry a pregnancy at gunpoint. That is what laws do, ultimately. If you disobey, your freedom is taken away, and if you resist, your physical safety is at risk. All of this, of course, is my own (probably poorly stated) opinion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MomofSeven Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 :lol: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoughCollie Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I think life begins when the egg is fertilized. That way I've covered all the bases, and if I'm wrong, I won't be for very long on a per fertilized egg basis. My sons were born at 27 weeks, and they were definitely alive then, even though they required significant medical intervention to stay alive. Even though they were tiny (1 lb. 7 oz., 1 lb. 11 oz., 2 lbs.) they recognized my voice. We could tell by the way their heart rates stabilized when I was with them, every time. My sons and I were talking about this yesterday. DS2 and DS3 think that life begins when the egg is fertilized and were quite vehement about it. DS1 thinks that life begins with the 3rd month of gestation. I don't know DS1's reasons for that because I had to intervene before DS3 pounded him for saying that it was okay for a woman to get an abortion during the first three months of pregnancy. RC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soph the vet Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I voted for conception. I base my opinion on Psalm 139:13-16 "For You formed my inward parts; You covered me in my mother's womb. I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made, marvelous are Your works, and that my soul knows very well. My frame was not hidden from You, When I was made in secret, and skillfully wrought in the lowest parts of the earth. Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed. And in Your book they all were written, the days fashioned for me, when as yet there were none of them." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hsmamainva Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I agree with Sen. Biden's response on Meet the Press yesterday (if anyone happened to see it). He said that he believes that life begins at conception...however...what gives him the right to dictate morality? To dictate right and wrong? The decision is between the woman, her doctor, and her God, whoever she might believe that God to be. He has no right to push *his* personal religious beliefs on anyone else. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jamnkats Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I asked my husband. He said life for him began when he was about 28 :) I put I don't know, because I don't. But from another perspective, I think everything is alive anyway- the earth, the trees, even the rocks. There is a living force, that some call God, that permeates everything at all times, and we can never be separate from it, but neither can anything else. That's what the saints and masters became aware of, and why they can love unconditionally, rather than separate life and people into bits that are worthy and unworthy. I think a better question than when does life begin, is when does consciousness begin? When is a baby aware of itself? An omeoba responds to its environment. So does a plant cell. So the ability to respond to its environment doesn't really count as a criteria. I can't remember when I became aware of myself. My memories stretch back to about age 3. Someone rep this womyn for me! Yes! This is it for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PiCO Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I think viability is a big consideration. Viability without outside intervention. Viability without medical technology. However, if my child required medical intervention for some space of time to continue living I would certainly pursue it- even if it were for a pre-term birth. It's just a very complicated question. My short answer is that I would not choose to have an abortion outside of being raped; and I would never force another woman to carry a pregnancy at gunpoint. That is what laws do, ultimately. If you disobey, your freedom is taken away, and if you resist, your physical safety is at risk. All of this, of course, is my own (probably poorly stated) opinion. I think life begins at conception even though it's not viable. HOWEVER-- I completely disagree with legislating when life begins, for the reasons you stated. I don't think women should use abortion as birth control, but I do not want abortion to be illegal. There are legitimate reasons to have an abortion, and that decision should be left up to each woman and her doctor. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalanamak Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I voted other. I believe the egg and the sp*rm are live, living tissue, as is an embryo. As for my stance on the laws of AB******, my lips are sealed. I think that is where this question is headed, but they are separate issues, to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommaduck Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 At conception. This per my beliefs. I also don't dictate morality...Gd dictates morality. I'm also against abortion in cases of rape, incest, developmental issues. If a child is conceived, it's still a child regardless of colour, situation, ability, or parentage. It is not for us to intentionally take a life either to make our own easier or because our morality is warped enough to make a wrong appear right or as a "kindness". *This wasn't written to debate. It is instead MY belief and follows MY faith. I'm aware that many won't agree with my stand, just as they won't agree with my faith. A good book that deals with all the "ifs" would be The Atonement Child by Francine Rivers ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I believe that life begins at conception as well. I'll tell you my body knew there was something else alive in it. The morning sickness started early and stayed for a long time, that proof enough of living for me. :tongue_smilie: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klmama Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I believe life begins at conception. It may not yet be viable, but it is life. ETA: Whoops! I guess I started debating. Sorry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swellmomma Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I believe life begins at conception. Question for those who believe in life beginning later, do you then not concider an early miscarriage the death of a baby? I have had 6 early miscarriages, so if you believe life doesn't begin until later in the pregnancy or even birth does it mean those 6 didn't mean anything? I'm not going to argue about abortion, but what about a embryo/fetus that dies inutero, how can you say life doesn't begin until viability or birth if the fact is that baby has just died? DOesn't it have to be alive to actually die? Those that believe that are you the type of person who expected a greiving mother to just suck it pu and move on because it wasn't a rel life anyway since it wasn't viable? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CookieMonster Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I base my belief on theological, intellectual, and scientific arguments, which I won't go into here. But, a compelling reason for believing "at conception" as opposed to "at implantation" for me is Snowflake Babies. All those not-yet-implanted-embryos needed was a place to call home - and children were the result. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nicole M Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Mrs. Mungo - I knew the numbers would be high for sperm meets egg, but I'm a little surprised at how high. Is this where you thought the numbers would lean? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NevadaRabbit Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Physical life begins at conception (Psalm 139) but a closer look at that Psalm shows us God has us planned well before the egg and sperm meet. Because I believe the above, "viability" means the flip side of the argument to me. The individual in the womb who is not yet viable is the most helpless member of our society and deserves our strenuous (legislative) protection. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LibraryLover Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I voted when sperm and egg meet. But that doesn't mean I don't think people can't make their own decisions about what to do about that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HRAAB Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 From the moment of conception - when sperm and egg meet. It's not something I debate; I don't have the scientific background to do so. It's just one of those things I know from my core. ;) Janet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karen sn Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I asked my husband. He said life for him began when he was about 28 :) I put I don't know, because I don't. But from another perspective, I think everything is alive anyway- the earth, the trees, even the rocks. There is a living force, that some call God, that permeates everything at all times, and we can never be separate from it, but neither can anything else. That's what the saints and masters became aware of, and why they can love unconditionally, rather than separate life and people into bits that are worthy and unworthy. I think a better question than when does life begin, is when does consciousness begin? When is a baby aware of itself? An omeoba responds to its environment. So does a plant cell. So the ability to respond to its environment doesn't really count as a criteria. I can't remember when I became aware of myself. My memories stretch back to about age 3. I like the way you think. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
admin Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Please stick to answering the OP's question. Let's not have another abortion debate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jamnkats Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I believe life begins at conception. Question for those who believe in life beginning later, do you then not concider an early miscarriage the death of a baby? No, I don't consider that the death of a baby. I have had 6 early miscarriages, so if you believe life doesn't begin until later in the pregnancy or even birth does it mean those 6 didn't mean anything? I'm not going to argue about abortion, but what about a embryo/fetus that dies inutero, how can you say life doesn't begin until viability or birth if the fact is that baby has just died? DOesn't it have to be alive to actually die? Those that believe that are you the type of person who expected a greiving mother to just suck it pu and move on because it wasn't a rel life anyway since it wasn't viable? I would never presume to know, suppose or judge what is meaningful to anyone else but myself. You are the only person who can decide what your six miscarriages meant to you and I would respond accordingly. If they meant nothing to you I would offer light sympathy, in accordance to your needs. If you were grieving I would offer sympathy on accordance with the death of a child. Just because *I* don't believe a baby was miscarried, it doesn't mean that I would be heartless and ignore the pain of the family suffering. Now, what is really weird is that I *know* our 3rd child was waiting for us to get pregnant with her. The other 3 were all "accidents". And the most weird about that is that she is the one I have the least amount of connection with. Wooo Wooo. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barb_ Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I believe that life begins at conception as well. I'll tell you my body knew there was something else alive in it. The morning sickness started early and stayed for a long time, that proof enough of living for me. :tongue_smilie: My body reacts that way when invaded by viruses, bacteria, and parasites--other life forms. Not to equate a blastocyst with a parasite on every level, but the latter doesn't really follow the former in the above argument. Barb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CalicoKat Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I think life begins when the egg is fertilized. That way I've covered all the bases, and if I'm wrong, I won't be for very long on a per fertilized egg basis. My sons were born at 27 weeks, and they were definitely alive then, even though they required significant medical intervention to stay alive. Even though they were tiny (1 lb. 7 oz., 1 lb. 11 oz., 2 lbs.) they recognized my voice. We could tell by the way their heart rates stabilized when I was with them, every time. My sons and I were talking about this yesterday. DS2 and DS3 think that life begins when the egg is fertilized and were quite vehement about it. DS1 thinks that life begins with the 3rd month of gestation. I don't know DS1's reasons for that because I had to intervene before DS3 pounded him for saying that it was okay for a woman to get an abortion during the first three months of pregnancy. RC :iagree: And this is what's in my Childcraft books too, "When the sperm and egg unite, a new life begins!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nmoira Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I'd suggest you make a companion poll: When should a developing fetus be given rights independent of those of the mother? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrairieAir Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I answered at birth, but really I'm just not quite sure. I like what Peela said here: "I think a better question than when does life begin, is when does consciousness begin? When is a baby aware of itself? An omeoba responds to its environment. So does a plant cell. So the ability to respond to its environment doesn't really count as a criteria." I think once born a baby is pretty much aware of itself and its surroundings. I think viability without major intervention is also a large part of it. (And exactly where do you draw the line on what constitutes major intervention?) Dh and I do not see completely eye to eye on this. He says that life begins at the first breath, period. He believes this is what Scripture indicates. (Don't ask me to explain as I don't fully understand it enough myself, though I can kinda see what he's saying.) He says if you waver on that point then you begin to confuse soul and spirit or something like that. I don't understand why that changes things, but I do not talk to him about it much because I feel it frustrates him and that it is really a moot point for us. Our feelings about abortion are pretty much the same. Both of us believe that it is not something which should be done except for in very special cases, but that it is important to retain that right because of those special cases. I would guess that his definition of special circumstances is perhaps just a bit broader than mine though. ____________________ BTW, I really like what Barack Obama said about this question being "above his pay grade". I think it's a question a lot of people struggle with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joanne Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Implantation. I'll say it again, though. We'll never get *anywhere* on this issue until: 1) The pro-reproductive rights folks understand those who believe abortion = murder. 2) The anti-abortion rights people understand those who believe that women need to have a protected legal right over their bodies and reproductive issues. 3) We all realize and admit that the issue isn't "when does life begin" or whether a woman, after pregnancy, should abort. The issues relating to abortion start months, and even years before conception or sex. ( for both genders) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hillary in KS Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 You need a "The question is above my pay grade" option for your poll. :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MomofSeven Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 You need a "The question is above my pay grade" option for your poll. :D I guess you and I are both feeling feisty! :001_smile: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peri Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 We belive that life is breathed into the womb 40 days after fertilization which is between 5 and 6 weeks. This is also hen you start to figure out your pregnant and around the same time the heart starts to beat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alison in KY Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Just a vote for how things can change throughout your own life. When I was a feisty 20 something I was quite a bit different in my opinions (before motherhood). Anyway, before I didn't really think about it (when life begins), so I used to think it was when a baby was quite older, like 6 months. Now, after having an early miscarriage and seeing a tiny actual formed baby less than 2 months old I think differently. It's something to witness and it has definitely changed my perspective forever. Just another way of growing up I guess (I hope). Alison in KY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OnTheBrink Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 We belive that life is breathed into the womb 40 days after fertilization which is between 5 and 6 weeks. This is also hen you start to figure out your pregnant and around the same time the heart starts to beat. That's an interesting perspective. Is this a belief that stems from your religious beliefs? I'm genuinely curious--not wanting to debate or argue it--how you came to this belief. :) To answer the OP, I believe human life begins at conception. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
6packofun Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Conception. I've never seen any proof that a human sperm and human egg have or can form anything but a human in the uterus, whether or not he/she survives. (And then there is my Christian take on it, too. ;) ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hillary in KS Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I guess you and I are both feeling feisty! :001_smile: LOL! No, Amy! I completely missed it! I went searching for it after I read this post. Great minds, I guess. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Mungo Posted September 8, 2008 Author Share Posted September 8, 2008 Mrs. Mungo - I knew the numbers would be high for sperm meets egg, but I'm a little surprised at how high. Is this where you thought the numbers would lean? On this board? Yes, I thought so. The numbers are flipped on the liberal board I frequent. I'm in the middle on this issue. As far as Bible verses go, I can give as many verses that say life begins with breath. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FO4UR Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I voted when sperm and egg meet. Hmm..interesting thoughts about verses that refer to the first breathe. I LOVE a nb baby's breathe btw:001_smile: Unborn babies have blood, and blood is refered to regarding life too.....not debating, just pondering outloud... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peri Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 That's an interesting perspective. Is this a belief that stems from your religious beliefs? I'm genuinely curious--not wanting to debate or argue it--how you came to this belief. :) To answer the OP, I believe human life begins at conception. Yes, its a religious perspective. I'm Muslim BTW. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KidsHappen Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I am so proud of us. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OnTheBrink Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Yes, its a religious perspective. I'm Muslim BTW. I didn't know Muslim's believe that. What is the significance of the 40 days? (Again, just curious--or nosey!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jami Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I didn't know Muslim's believe that. What is the significance of the 40 days? (Again, just curious--or nosey!) Someone can correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe that it's also a Jewish teaching that 'quickening' begins 40 days after conception. Here is one link I found-- http://www.counterbalance.net/stem-brf/jewis-body.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beansprouts Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Wow! Not a single deleted post in this thread yet. I am so proud of us. :) *Cindy fights the temptation to mention "the forbidden topic" so as to have a post deleted from this thread.* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MeanestMomInMidwest Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 This is a complex issue for me. I guess I theoretically believe life begins at conception (I was raised Catholic, after all!), but in practice, I have used various forms of birth control that the "life begins at conception" crowd frowns upon....and I have no regrets about that. I have also suffered through IUFD and even though I never *felt* like I had a "life within me", I certainly *felt* the loss of a potential life. From a medical perspective cellular reproduction is an amazing thing, as is reproduction in general. I like to say we truly are "fearfully and wonderfuly made" but (and its a big but) I do not believe the Bible is, was meant to be, or should be treated as a science text. So, I clicked the "when sperm and egg meet" but my personal belief, based upon upbringing, feeling, and religious text, is not necessarily scientifically accurate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cindy in FL. Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Conception! Cindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peri Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 I didn't know Muslim's believe that. What is the significance of the 40 days? (Again, just curious--or nosey!) It's straight from the Quran. I don't have time to look it up right now but I can PM you the verse tomorrow if you like. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Mungo Posted September 9, 2008 Author Share Posted September 9, 2008 *Cindy fights the temptation to mention "the forbidden topic" so as to have a post deleted from this thread.* Cleavage? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aggie Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Conception. From a scientific pov, a completely new DNA is formed at conception. While the new one is completely dependent upon mom, it is an individual being. :) (I wish I could remember where I read that and provide a link. I'll look for it....) Aggie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OnTheBrink Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 It's straight from the Quran. I don't have time to look it up right now but I can PM you the verse tomorrow if you like. Oh, don't go to any trouble. I bet I can find it on the net. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 human life (animal life) starts at conception. soul life (what makes us the image of God) starts at birth. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anne Rittenhouse Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Life begins after 40. I've just started my journey. How about you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BakersDozen Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 I'd always believed life began at conception, but after going through IVF and seeing what happened just days after sperm/egg meet...wow! It confirmed to me my belief. Even more awesome was to see a baby with a heartbeat just a few short weeks after seeing a morula...simply amazing! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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