Granny_Weatherwax Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuvingLife Posted October 27, 2010 Author Share Posted October 27, 2010 Thank you all so much, it is so hard to say goodbye to someone that you love so much. Her funeral is this Sunday, and thank you for all of the virtual hugs, it doesn't matter to me that they are virtual! They feel the same. I just can't believe that it happened so fast, and I feel even worse because she had just left my house 10 minutes before. I didn't even know until her parents called my cell while I was out walking my dog. I was able to see her one last time before she died, she was in and out of sleeping and being awake. But the reason she needed the surgery was because her bones were crushing some of her major arteries and they neede to fix it fast. That was when they lost her. Becca was responsive when I saw her last in the hospital, her last words to me were, "Take care, you will always be my best friend. I can't wait to see you in heaven Cheyenne". She went back to sleep then. I cried so hard after she said that, and I never got to see her again. Her parents are so devastated, and I have been getting many hugs. Thank you all so much, this has been very rough for many of us. I am glad I got to say good bye to her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 I'm so sorry for your loss. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lionfamily1999 Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 :grouphug: Oh sweet heart :( I'm so sorry. I'll be lifting you and her family up. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirty ethel rackham Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 I am so sorry for your loss. Her family and you will be in my prayers! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m0mmaBuck Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Mungo Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 I'm so sorry. I wish people took drinking and driving more seriously. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeneralMom Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forget-Me-Not Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurie4b Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 So very, very sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stephanier.1765 Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I am so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoughCollie Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 I am very sorry. I am praying for you and everyone who loved your best friend. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fhjmom Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 :grouphug: I am so sorry! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuvingLife Posted October 27, 2010 Author Share Posted October 27, 2010 Thank you all so much for your support! I showed her family this thread and they were crying tears of joy and pain at the same time for seeing people pray for them and I. They were thrilled and wanted to say thank you for supporting them for this difficult time. I just wish this never happened, but God has a reason for everything, and sometimes we have to live with the decision He makes. Thank you all, Becca is now in a better place. "For great is his love towards us, and the faithfulness of the Lord endures forever. Praise the Lord." Psalm 117:2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wy_kid_wrangler04 Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 :crying:I said a prayer for you :grouphug:, Becca's :angelsad2: family and that justice will be served to the fullest extent for the scumbag drunk driver :cursing:. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thescrappyhomeschooler Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 I'm so sorry. That is a tragedy. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tree House Academy Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 How tragic. My cousin was driving a car where one of the passengers was killed last year. It was not her fault, but it was such a tragedy. All of the girls were only 16. I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine losing my best friend! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Woolspinner Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm so sorry for you loss and for her parents. Prayers for all concerned. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southcarolinamom Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 I'm so very, very sorry sweetie. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mommyfaithe Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 She died last night during surgery, the doctor's did everything they could to save her, but it didn't help. She was 16 years old, loved horses, was a junior in high school, just got her license, and was a very kind person. She had a good outlook on life and wanted to become a vet when she was graduated. Jus please pray for her family so they can get through this tough time, they really need it. Thank you for all of the prayers while she was in the hospital too. The man who was drunk and driving will be brought to court and will spend the rest of his days in jail. In Memory of: Becca Marie Lee B] :grouphug::crying::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MBM Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 How horrible! I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iona Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnandtinagilbert Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 praying for you and all the family and friends. :grouphug: I'm so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosie_0801 Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 Oh you poor darlings. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tina Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 I'm so sorry, honey! I'll be praying for her family and for you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandelion Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalanamak Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 :grouphug::grouphug: Every day is a gift. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen in PA Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 Been thinking of you and your friend's family today. While we are here for you, please don't hesitate to seek help with your grieving. I know schools will bring in grief counselors, please don't hesitate to ask for someone professional to talk with if you need. Again, I am sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
helena Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 :grouphug: I'm so sad for her family, and you.. The fact that it was drunk driving related is infuriating. I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justamouse Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lmrich Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 I am so very sorry for your loss. A long time ago I was president of our SADD chapter. I will make a donation in your friend's honor this year. Drunk Driving must stop. I will pray for you and her family as well. Take care of yourself darling in this difficult time.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StaceyinLA Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 Too many lives lost at the hands of drunk drivers. We have known 2 teens recently. Very difficult. Prayers here! :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DawnM Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 So sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whereneverever Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QuirkyKapers Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 How horrible! I am so sorry. Loss is hard! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenL Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 I am so very sorry for your loss. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuvingLife Posted October 28, 2010 Author Share Posted October 28, 2010 :crying:I said a prayer for you :grouphug:, Becca's :angelsad2: family and that justice will be served to the fullest extent for the scumbag drunk driver :cursing:. Thank you, and yes justice should be served. From what I hear he is going to live out his days in jail. Drunk driving is so terrible! How tragic. My cousin was driving a car where one of the passengers was killed last year. It was not her fault, but it was such a tragedy. All of the girls were only 16. I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine losing my best friend! Thank you and yes, it is really hard to lose my best friend. We were really close friends, and she had just dedicated her life to Christ this past year and ws planning on going on a missionary trip. I can't believe it happened like this. praying for you and all the family and friends. :grouphug: I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you so much! Been thinking of you and your friend's family today. While we are here for you, please don't hesitate to seek help with your grieving. I know schools will bring in grief counselors, please don't hesitate to ask for someone professional to talk with if you need. Again, I am sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Thank you, it is kinda hard to talk about these things, and sometimes I just want to keep it inside me and make myself look happy on the outside. Thank you for the suggestion, and I will look for help, I am just in shock still right now, I can't believe it. I am so very sorry for your loss. A long time ago I was president of our SADD chapter. I will make a donation in your friend's honor this year. Drunk Driving must stop. I will pray for you and her family as well. Take care of yourself darling in this difficult time.:grouphug: Awww, Thank you so much! That will mean so much to me and her family! Drunk Driving needs to stop. My dad and I almost got into an accident a few months ago when a drunk driver almost rammed into us. I mean, it was so scary, and even though it cam close, nothing happened to us, thank God. Thank you all! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rebecca VA Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 I'm so sorry! She must have been a wonderful friend. Praise God that she's in heaven and you can look forward to seeing her again one day! If you want to talk more about her, we'd love to hear it. It would help us feel that we knew her, too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heart'sjoy Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 :grouphug::bigear::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patches Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 I'm so sorry. I know you will miss your friend. Praying for you and for her family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Alfred Academy Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 :grouphug: I am so sorry to hear this.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 :grouphug: Poor all of you. That is so sad! You're in my prayers. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prairiegirl Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 I am so sorry. My best friend died of cancer when I was 17. It was a pivotal time of my life. I am praying that you have someone to talk to and that you let yourself feel the grief. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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