historically accurate Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 A little fairytale with the butterflies, but would this one work? https://www.amazon.com/XIA-Shoulder-Butterflies-Cinderella-Quinceanera/dp/B07KQ334CY/ref=asc_df_B07KQ2YPR7/?tag=&linkCode=df0&hvadid=366289978774&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=16953940956054190728&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9021827&hvtargid=pla-812720507695&ref=&adgrpid=76464295375&th=1&psc=1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlsdMama Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 1 hour ago, itsheresomewhere said: Been doing that. Honestly besides the requirements, the other issue is the short time frame to find this dress. I wish they would have decided more than 3-4 weeks before the performance. Do a search for prom and your county or city and your county. On Marketplace, circle closer within 70 miles, click pickup and then do various searches like junior dress, formal, prom, homecoming, satin, gown, and see what hits. Some may be pretty old listings like from spring but if they are still up then they are worth messaging. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frances Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 Not me. I dislike dressing up and would likely skip any function that required a ball gown. Probably the last time I wore anything remotely similar was my senior prom. Now everything seems to be much more low cut in the front and high cut somewhere to expose high up the legs, tighter, and without sleeves, so not like anything I would ever wear. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsheresomewhere Posted December 27, 2021 Author Share Posted December 27, 2021 11 minutes ago, historically accurate said: A little fairytale with the butterflies, but would this one work? https://www.amazon.com/XIA-Shoulder-Butterflies-Cinderella-Quinceanera/dp/B07KQ334CY/ref=asc_df_B07KQ2YPR7/?tag=&linkCode=df0&hvadid=366289978774&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=16953940956054190728&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9021827&hvtargid=pla-812720507695&ref=&adgrpid=76464295375&th=1&psc=1 That would work but it doesn’t look like it would get here in time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prairiewindmomma Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 https://www.amazon.com/Dressystar-Sleeveless-Bridesmaid-Wedding-Blush/dp/B07QGR7D11/ref=mp_s_a_1_10?crid=1DGVQRND17KDI&keywords=blush+ball+gown+for+women&qid=1640570055&sprefix=blush+ball+goen%2Caps%2C134&sr=8-10 It says it is sleevesless, but it is capsleeved. If you need a fuller skirt, Amazon carries inexpensive hoops. https://www.amazon.com/Womens-V-Neck-Empire-Floor-Length-Evening/dp/B08ZYCLMDC/ref=mp_s_a_1_106?crid=1DGVQRND17KDI&keywords=blush%2Bball%2Bgown%2Bfor%2Bwomen&qid=1640570395&sprefix=blush%2Bball%2Bgoen%2Caps%2C134&sr=8-106&th=1&psc=1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonhawk Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 (edited) https://www.facebook.com/marketplace/item/942340136677243/?ref=search&referral_code=marketplace_search&referral_story_type=post&tracking=browse_serp%3A3d531c2c-3bb2-41eb-b264-45297d4733e3 Looking at FB Marketplace. This one might be along right track? Edited December 27, 2021 by Moonhawk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
athena1277 Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 Try ThreadUp. My dd needed a formal dress last spring, but she wanted something with sleeves and a not cleavage showing neckline. We found a really pretty one on ThreadUp for $40, tags still attached. You can search by size, color, and style, so that makes it easier to find what you want. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SKL Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 I don't have one. The only time I ever had one was when I was a teen. My mom bought me one from a thrift store for a wedding. I don't know what ever happened to it. Maybe I handed it down to my sister. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SKL Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 And if you're talking floor length, my kids don't have any either. My smaller kid does have at least one that she wore to homecoming. And most likely she will want to buy others for other dances, kuz God forbid she wear the same one twice in front of the same people. 😛 But not floor length, because nowadays that isn't the style. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dianthus Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 Check Ebay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junie Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 (edited) I have never had a ballgown. Dd19 has several that dd17 (our resident seamstress) has made for her. This is the dress that was just given to her -- as a surprise! -- for Christmas. Pardon the boasting on my daughter 😉 Edited December 27, 2021 by Junie 13 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grace Hopper Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 1 hour ago, Katy said: I can’t tell you how many costume and dresses I’ve made from bedsheets! The wide cut of fabric is perfect for full skirts. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slache Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 I would, but I've gained too much weight. Nordstrom would do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsheresomewhere Posted December 27, 2021 Author Share Posted December 27, 2021 54 minutes ago, Junie said: I have never had a ballgown. Dd19 has several that dd17 (our resident seamstress) has made for her. This is the dress that was just given to her -- as a surprise! -- for Christmas. Pardon the boasting on my daughter 😉 Very nice. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsheresomewhere Posted December 27, 2021 Author Share Posted December 27, 2021 1 hour ago, athena1277 said: Try ThreadUp. My dd needed a formal dress last spring, but she wanted something with sleeves and a not cleavage showing neckline. We found a really pretty one on ThreadUp for $40, tags still attached. You can search by size, color, and style, so that makes it easier to find what you want. Nothing so far that would work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsheresomewhere Posted December 27, 2021 Author Share Posted December 27, 2021 1 hour ago, Moonhawk said: https://www.facebook.com/marketplace/item/942340136677243/?ref=search&referral_code=marketplace_search&referral_story_type=post&tracking=browse_serp%3A3d531c2c-3bb2-41eb-b264-45297d4733e3 Looking at FB Marketplace. This one might be along right track? Very nice dress but the color is too dark. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teaching3bears Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 I would think that less people would have gowns in their closet, especially during Covid when there are less big parties. There is a consignment store (as opposed to thrift store) near me and if I ever needed a gown I would go there. They have a huge selection of beautiful gowns at good prices in a complete range of sizes. Maybe you have a similar consignment store near you? You could call them before going to see if they might have what you are looking for. Another idea is to post on your local Reddit page. You could post size and all the other requirements you need. A lot of people read it and might want to help if they can. Someone posted on mine that her turkey went bad on Christmas day and a bunch of people offered to give her a turkey. I thought that was really nice. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 A ballgown in every closet. It sound like a novel. After the waiting for Christmas gifts I would be careful with actual shipping times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rebcoola Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 (edited) Postmark, I have a couple of friends who do all the fancy fundraiser dinners and never wear the same thing twice and that's where they buy and sell. Something like this is easy to find if you search formal and than filter. https://poshmark.com/listing/Bridesmaid-Dress-EverPretty-5c186f312beb7971656ff51a Edited December 27, 2021 by rebcoola 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MooCow Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 I do. It's my opera dress...but odds are it doesn't fit.... I got it at Ross many years ago for $20. Did you try there? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grace Hopper Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 (edited) Hey, have you seen any wedding gowns when out thrifting? There are videos all over social media of people modifying them for prom dresses, including dying them the desired color with rit dye in the bathtub or large bins. Cut off/add sleeves and to raise a neckline with fabric from a train cut off. Edited December 27, 2021 by Grace Hopper Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drama Llama Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 5 hours ago, itsheresomewhere said: Lucky. All I can find so far is black or white ( no no colors) but even then nothing even close to her size. Could you get a white one, and dye it? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ieta_cassiopeia Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 (edited) Does eBay have anything? (Given the tight timeframe and the potential to need alterations for comfort or to tailor to requirements, I'd opt for collection if feasible). As well as using the actual sizes, "plus size" is a term that may provide useful results (even though I wouldn't strictly call the size you posted "plus", some "plus size" ranges do go down to Large). The problem with this size is because it's so hard to find good items in the size, people don't tend to let them go once they have them in case they are needed again, so I am sympathetic. I have never owned or rented a ballroom dress; when I had my proms, I wore a skirt (which was considered unusual but acceptable) because all the dresses in my size that I deemed an acceptable cut and style were too expensive. At this point, I buy all of my clothes from 3 shops - none of which do ballgowns. Edited December 27, 2021 by ieta_cassiopeia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hannah Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 The university my dd attends does formal dinner-dance events for the residences and academic societies and she has been invited to a few. We actually bought two formal dresses on sale in January 2020 that she has not worn yet due to Covid. One is floor length and the other mid-calf. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hilltopmom Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 And kids grow… so a dress bought for something last year or 2 years ago pre covid isn’t always likely to fit a year or two later. If a group decides to have kids wear something they already own for a play- they get what they get & imo, don’t get to dictate the specifics… let the kids figure out the costumes the best they can.. this is not professional theater. Throw on something sort of dressy from the closet, wear jewelry and a borrowed shawl and heels. Good enough for children’s community theater. Tbh, an in person play happening in Jan may wind up cancelled anyways at this point. They’re worried enough to not loan out dresses from the costume closet but still having play practices and a performance seems odd. Either way, best of luck. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsheresomewhere Posted December 27, 2021 Author Share Posted December 27, 2021 7 hours ago, Baseballandhockey said: Could you get a white one, and dye it? Nothing in her size. Plus so far, even if it was everything would need massive alterations to meet the requirements. If only they had given us these requirements within a reasonable time. A week before Christmas for a January performance is ridiculous. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintinative Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 @itsheresomewhere maybe Poshmark? I am not familiar with this site but it is kind of like Ebay. https://poshmark.com/search?query=satin dress&department=Women&category=Dresses&size[]=12 for example: https://poshmark.com/listing/Rose-Gold-Satin-Evening-Dress-61b0f4d0074d245112889a17 I can't remember if sleeveless was out. It has straps (not spaghetti straps) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsheresomewhere Posted December 27, 2021 Author Share Posted December 27, 2021 Just now, Hilltopmom said: And kids grow… so a dress bought for something last year or 2 years ago pre covid isn’t always likely to fit a year or two later. If a group decides to have kids wear something they already own for a play- they get what they get & imo, don’t get to dictate the specifics… let the kids figure out the costumes the best they can.. this is not professional theater. Throw on something sort of dressy from the closet, wear jewelry and a borrowed shawl and heels. Good enough for children’s community theater. Tbh, an in person play happening in Jan may wind up cancelled anyways at this point. They’re worried enough to not loan out dresses from the costume closet but still having play practices and a performance seems odd. Either way, best of luck. It won’t be canceled unless the governor says too. That is how they work. They are loaning out dresses from the dress closet but they only have to size 6. Nothing if you are over that. While I like your idea, she is a teen and it doesn’t fly with her. It is her first play and she really had to overcome a bit to even try out. I will find this dang ball gown for her if I have to sew it myself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintinative Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 https://poshmark.com/listing/Tahari-Blue-Satin-Ruched-Evening-Gown-617f95e49bd5ef895badaac5 https://poshmark.com/listing/Ralph-Lauren-Gown-5f1a8488ae766f84eec39487 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsheresomewhere Posted December 27, 2021 Author Share Posted December 27, 2021 7 minutes ago, cintinative said: @itsheresomewhere maybe Poshmark? I am not familiar with this site but it is kind of like Ebay. https://poshmark.com/search?query=satin dress&department=Women&category=Dresses&size[]=12 for example: https://poshmark.com/listing/Rose-Gold-Satin-Evening-Dress-61b0f4d0074d245112889a17 I can't remember if sleeveless was out. It has straps (not spaghetti straps) Thanks. I have been looking on there a bit. So far nothing that meets the ridiculous requirements. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hilltopmom Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 5 minutes ago, itsheresomewhere said: It won’t be canceled unless the governor says too. That is how they work. They are loaning out dresses from the dress closet but they only have to size 6. Nothing if you are over that. While I like your idea, she is a teen and it doesn’t fly with her. It is her first play and she really had to overcome a bit to even try out. I will find this dang ball gown for her if I have to sew it myself. Aww.. good luck! I like the one made from the sheet 🙂 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintinative Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 https://poshmark.com/listing/Ever-Pretty-A-Line-Gown-Sweetheart-Cap-Sleeve-Satin-Size-12-Navy-7934-61be87c1736720f31df0423d Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsheresomewhere Posted December 27, 2021 Author Share Posted December 27, 2021 8 hours ago, MooCow said: I do. It's my opera dress...but odds are it doesn't fit.... I got it at Ross many years ago for $20. Did you try there? I miss Ross. It was my go to place years ago. The one somewhat near is not like the Ross I remember. It is kind of a dump. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsheresomewhere Posted December 27, 2021 Author Share Posted December 27, 2021 Just now, cintinative said: https://poshmark.com/listing/Ever-Pretty-A-Line-Gown-Sweetheart-Cap-Sleeve-Satin-Size-12-Navy-7934-61be87c1736720f31df0423d I love that one but unfortunately no dark colors. But the price is fantastic and it is gorgeous. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lmrich Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 Probably not the right colors, but start checking for holiday dresses on clearance. In the past years, I had a fancy event in February, and I was able to find ballgowns for around $35 - beautiful ones. Check out VonMauer and Dillards - although Dillards has a terrible return policy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintinative Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 3 minutes ago, itsheresomewhere said: I love that one but unfortunately no dark colors. But the price is fantastic and it is gorgeous. Yes, I just scrolled up the thread to find the requirements. Boo. For everyone else: "The requirements are- no dark colors, no white/black/gold. Nothing low cut or backless, no spaghetti straps or strapless, nothing that is too sparkly, must be ankle length or the floor." 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsheresomewhere Posted December 27, 2021 Author Share Posted December 27, 2021 1 minute ago, lmrich said: Probably not the right colors, but start checking for holiday dresses on clearance. In the past years, I had a fancy event in February, and I was able to find ballgowns for around $35 - beautiful ones. Check out VonMauer and Dillards - although Dillards has a terrible return policy. Thanks. We don’t have those stores here. So far, in the main ones her nothing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintinative Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 Oooh. I like this one, but is it a dark color? https://www.ever-pretty.com/products/long-empire-waist-evening-dress-with-short-flutter-sleeves-ep09890-1?variant=29022005559370 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsheresomewhere Posted December 27, 2021 Author Share Posted December 27, 2021 1 minute ago, cintinative said: Oooh. I like this one, but is it a dark color? https://www.ever-pretty.com/products/long-empire-waist-evening-dress-with-short-flutter-sleeves-ep09890-1?variant=29022005559370 I like that one too. I wonder if the gray color might be ok. I will have to email and see. Plus check the shipping. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintinative Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 https://www.ever-pretty.com/collections/related-products-ep09890/products/womens-v-neck-a-line-short-sleeve-floor-length-bridesmaid-dress-ep07962?variant=39268273324106 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenCat Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 2 minutes ago, cintinative said: Oooh. I like this one, but is it a dark color? https://www.ever-pretty.com/products/long-empire-waist-evening-dress-with-short-flutter-sleeves-ep09890-1?variant=29022005559370 I don't think the green bean or the grey would be considered dark... I like the dress. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsheresomewhere Posted December 27, 2021 Author Share Posted December 27, 2021 1 minute ago, cintinative said: https://www.ever-pretty.com/collections/related-products-ep09890/products/womens-v-neck-a-line-short-sleeve-floor-length-bridesmaid-dress-ep07962?variant=39268273324106 That one is pretty in the yellow. I will have to see if it is with the director. Any chance you have ordered from them before? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintinative Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 (edited) 4 minutes ago, itsheresomewhere said: That one is pretty in the yellow. I will have to see if it is with the director. Any chance you have ordered from them before? No, and AAACK! I just googled BBB for them and it's not good. BOOOO! https://www.bbb.org/us/ca/irvine/profile/womens-clothing/ever-pretty-garment-inc-1126-172014726 https://www.sitejabber.com/reviews/ever-pretty.com Edited December 27, 2021 by cintinative Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kirstenhill Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 David's bridal has "guaranteed in stock" bridesmaid dresses...this is more expensive than finding something used but there are a lot of pastels. Here's one that might work: https://www.davidsbridal.com/Product_flutter-sleeve-crisscross-mesh-bridesmaid-dress-f19933_ready-to-ship-bridesmaid-dresses Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsheresomewhere Posted December 27, 2021 Author Share Posted December 27, 2021 4 minutes ago, kirstenhill said: David's bridal has "guaranteed in stock" bridesmaid dresses...this is more expensive than finding something used but there are a lot of pastels. Here's one that might work: https://www.davidsbridal.com/Product_flutter-sleeve-crisscross-mesh-bridesmaid-dress-f19933_ready-to-ship-bridesmaid-dresses Thanks. Too low cut for them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsheresomewhere Posted December 27, 2021 Author Share Posted December 27, 2021 5 minutes ago, cintinative said: No, and AAACK! I just googled BBB for them and it's not good. BOOOO! https://www.bbb.org/us/ca/irvine/profile/womens-clothing/ever-pretty-garment-inc-1126-172014726 https://www.sitejabber.com/reviews/ever-pretty.com Dang. I liked that one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlsdMama Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 (edited) Easier than making a whole ball down is modifying an existing. A satin tank, a cleavage insert, a panel from thigh to hip in a slit of a contrasting color…. I’ve modified all my girls’ formals relatively quickly and easily. Often a gown the girls loved was perfect except —————- . If you can modify the exception, you’re good to go. pictures below - insets at cleavage, slit panel in - add a bolero or a sweater or a wrap for low backs. Edited December 27, 2021 by BlsdMama 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 (edited) I have all of DD's prom and homecoming dresses. If any of those count as ballgowns then I have 8. Plus a couple of bridesmaids dresses for weddings she was in. Most are size 0-4 so I'm also not certain they would be for an average sized woman. Edited December 27, 2021 by Granny_Weatherwax Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danae Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 Eshakti. You can choose sleeves, length, and neckline on any of their styles and I’ve been getting my deliveries in under 2 weeks. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theelfqueen Posted December 27, 2021 Share Posted December 27, 2021 Oh and ... I assume those actually pulling a dress out of a closet are being less concerned about the "requirements" than you are - maybe adding a little sweater for modesty requirements or something but not asking the director about the cleavage and if the skirt is full enough. Cause "this is the dress we have". 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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