Seasider Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 How are you doing? 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 Hi :seeya: still here :coolgleamA: We have had to make a tough decision, things will be happening before the end of this month. I cannot be more specific at the moment We know this is the right decisions for the family but we still feel very disappointed with ourselves. 17 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fraidycat Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seasider Posted May 17, 2017 Author Share Posted May 17, 2017 (edited) Hi :seeya: still here :coolgleamA: We have had to make a tough decision, things will be happening before the end of this month. I cannot be more specific at the moment We know this is the right decisions for the family but we still feel very disappointed with ourselves. I've been wondering how things were going, hoping no news was good news. I understand you cannot speak specifically at this time, but you and your family have been on my heart. Please don't be disappointed with yourselves!!! With the circumstances, maybe, but not with your efforts. Edited May 17, 2017 by Seasider 10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seasider Posted May 17, 2017 Author Share Posted May 17, 2017 Oh I almost forgot - (((many hugs)))! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arcadia Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amira Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SKL Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hannah Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ottakee Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 Been there, done that and it is never easy. Hugs to you and your family. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Another Lynn Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink and Green Mom Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 Melissa, I cannot begin to imagine what you are going through. Many, many hugs to you 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Selkie Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 Melissa, please don't be disappointed in yourselves. You tried so hard to make a difficult situation work, and I admire you so much for that. :grouphug: 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Valley Girl Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 If the thing that is happening is what I think it is, I just want to say that you have gone above and beyond what most mere mortals would ever be willing and able to do. And you did it with virtually no support from the "experts" who should have been actively involved in helping you. I can understand feeling disappointed about the outcome. But you have NO reason to feel disappointed with yourselves. Few people have the well of love, strength, and unselfishness you and your family do. Best wishes. 23 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Tick Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 ((Hugs)) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ausmumof3 Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TechWife Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 ((Hugs)). Hope you get some peace soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AmandaVT Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 If the thing that is happening is what I think it is, I just want to say that you have gone above and beyond what most mere mortals would ever be willing and able to do. And you did it with virtually no support from the "experts" who should have been actively involved in helping you. I can understand feeling disappointed about the outcome. But you have NO reason to feel disappointed with yourselves. Few people have the well of love, strength, and unselfishness you and your family do. Best wishes. Yes to this. And :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mothersweets Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaybee Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: I agree with the poster above. Disappointment over the circumstances--that one would ever be hurt so devastatingly--yes, a thousand times yes. But disappointed in yourselves that you couldn't heal it and make it go away? That's just too much burden to place on yourselves. I pray that you will have peace and comfort through this, and that your family will be able to heal and find stability. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monica_in_Switzerland Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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zoobie Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 Don't be disappointed in yourselves. You aren't superhuman. :grouphug: 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneStepAtATime Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 You have done so much for so long, trying so hard. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Please don't feel like you or your family did anything to be disappointed over. Easier said than done, I realize. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MercyA Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I don't know how anyone could have done more. 10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneStepAtATime Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I don't know how anyone could have done more. Me either... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I agree with everyone else. Please don't blame yourself. You tried so hard. I'm so sorry, and I will pray for all of you. :grouphug: 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ashfern Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bethben Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 I have had similar on a much more minor scale. I felt like I "should" be able to handle what my life had thrown at me. I felt guilty that "I was not enough" and if I was stronger I would be able to deal with it. Through a lot of tears and a lot of really looking at my life and it's limitations, I had to choose the path I would rather not go down. I also had to trust that God would be in the main effected person's life what I could not be. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
applethyme Posted May 18, 2017 Share Posted May 18, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corraleno Posted May 18, 2017 Share Posted May 18, 2017 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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