Halcyon Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 I saw my last patients in the old space yesterday. I took out most of my belongings, and will get the rest this weekend (ex-business partner has gone away for the weekend). I got my money (although I haven't checked to see if it has cleared yet). I let him think he "won"-small price to pay, and some people need to feel that they have "beaten" you to feel worthwhile. But i am not worried- my new clinic will be wonderful. I maintained my professionalism, didn't lose my cool even in the face of personal insults, and taught my kids a valuable lesson in integrity. I have already gotten calls from patients who support me and wish me the best, including a few who (surprisingly to me!) said "girl, it's about time you left him!" I am setting up my new space this weekend, and I feel as though a huge weight is off me. Thank you ALL for your words of support, your kindness, and your patience as i went through this trial. You can't know how much you've helped me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Word Nerd Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 So glad you got the money back--and what a relief that he showed his true colors and you were able to get out before you made any long-term agreement with him. Best wishes in your new space! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 Best wishes in your new space. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Mousie Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 Triumph!! Hooray! I so admire your professionalism and strength. I have no doubt your business will thrive! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halftime Hope Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 What great news! Do something kind for yourself tonight after all the dust has settled. : ) Congrats! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparrow Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 I'm so happy it was resolved quickly! Now you can make your new start. Best wishes! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 Wonderful! I hope the new space is awesome. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reflections Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 Okay, but I'm small and petty for all of us, - please let me know if he ever develops those boils.... I'm happy though that things turned out so well for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wildcat Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 That is great news. Have a *fantastic* weekend setting up your new space!! :hurray: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrothead Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 Nicely done. I hope the check clears. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 News like this is always welcome!:-) You go, Girl. Actually, you went.:-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GailV Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 :hurray: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandylubug Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 Awesome! I have been following. Glad it is all behind you. What a relief! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jelbe5 Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 Best wishes! Thank you for sharing. Your professionalism in the face of this trial has been inspirational. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heather in Neverland Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 That is awesome news! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Florida. Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 So glad you got your money back. Best wishes in your new place on your own. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belacqua Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 Well done! So he didn't get to keep your money already in the bank. He isn't getting any of your future income. He didn't poison your clients against you. You have a new space your clients are pleased with. And you maintained your manners and professionalism in the face of his boorish behavior. What, exactly, does he think he won? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SunnyDays Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 ^^ I was kind of wondering the same! :) So glad this is over and done with, and that you can focus on moving forward!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halcyon Posted August 24, 2013 Author Share Posted August 24, 2013 Nicely done. I hope the check clears. It did :). Found out today. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halcyon Posted August 24, 2013 Author Share Posted August 24, 2013 Well done! So he didn't get to keep your money already in the bank. He isn't getting any of your future income. He didn't poison your clients against you. You have a new space your clients are pleased with. And you maintained your manners and professionalism in the face of his boorish behavior. What, exactly, does he think he won? I let him think he "gave" me less money than what I really wanted (from the joint account). To be honest, my (accurate) accounting showed he owed me very slightly less than what he INSISTED he was going to give me. In his words, "I won't change this amount under any circumstances." I decided not to argue with him. :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chelle in MO Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 Awesome outcome! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinder Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 :thumbup1: Thanks for the update. Hope your new situation goes really well! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forget-Me-Not Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 Hooray! I'm so glad it all worked out! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halftime Hope Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 I let him think he "gave" me less money than what I really wanted (from the joint account). To be honest, my (accurate) accounting showed he owed me very slightly less than what he INSISTED he was going to give me. In his words, "I won't change this amount under any circumstances." I decided not to argue with him. :D You could return it to him in a week, with the very nicest note, just for fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fraidycat Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 :hurray: :hurray: :hurray: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amy in NH Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 You could return it to him in a week, with the very nicest note, just for fun. Or keep it as payment for all the trouble. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halcyon Posted August 24, 2013 Author Share Posted August 24, 2013 You could return it to him in a week, with the very nicest note, just for fun. I could, but then I would have to go to the trouble of explaining ,y accounting to a non-accounting person. And of course, I could be wrong. It's not worth it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hillfarm Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 What a relief! Now you can focus on moving forward. If anyone asks you about him, I would just smile and say, "My mother always told me if I didn't have anything nice to say about someone, not to say anything at all. So, how do you like this weather we've been having?" That lets them know that you don't have anything nice to say without you having to say anything about him at all. Make sure that absolutely all of your client info has been removed from his office, computer, etc. I could imagine a loser like that trying to contact them and steal them from you. You might also make nice with the person who answers the phone, encouraging them to be sure to refer anyone who asks for you or who has historically been your patient over to your new number. In my area, it is common to see announcement style ads in the local paper. Usually a photo of the health practitioner and text proclaiming that XYZ Wellness is proud to announce that Dr. Jane Smith is now practicing acupuncture here in our offices! Call for an appointment or more information." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted August 25, 2013 Share Posted August 25, 2013 :hurray: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
texasmama Posted August 25, 2013 Share Posted August 25, 2013 Excellent! :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen500 Posted August 25, 2013 Share Posted August 25, 2013 Great news! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cindy in FL. Posted August 25, 2013 Share Posted August 25, 2013 What a relief it must be to be on the other side of that debacle. I hope you have smooth sailing from here! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovinmomma Posted August 26, 2013 Share Posted August 26, 2013 Excellent news! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted August 26, 2013 Share Posted August 26, 2013 woot woot!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trulycrabby Posted August 26, 2013 Share Posted August 26, 2013 Congratulations, and best wishes with your new practice! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessMommy Posted August 26, 2013 Share Posted August 26, 2013 Wonderful! So glad you got your money too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TammyinTN Posted August 26, 2013 Share Posted August 26, 2013 You did good! :hurray: May your new location be awesome..that's the best revenge anyway. ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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