Home'scool Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 So very sorry. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*~Tina~* Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: so sorry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 How are you feeling today, Nance? Were you able to get an appointment to see your doctor? :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misidawnrn Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 Nance, I have no advice but hugs! I am so sorry this isn't working again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanceXToo Posted September 25, 2012 Author Share Posted September 25, 2012 Thank you so much for all of the words of support. It really does mean a lot, and it does help. I called my doctor this morning and they want me to go in at 3 PM today for an ultrasound to see where things stand. The bleeding has gotten a little heavier but I still have not m/c yet. I really doubt they'll send me for a D&C late this afternoon/evening but maybe she will give me the option to go in the morning if nothing has changed by then. I will update again later. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 Thank you for the update, Nance. I'll be thinking of you this afternoon and hoping that this will all end for you soon. It's heartbreaking at any time, but to have it keep dragging out like this is so awful that it's just beyond my imagination. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myfunnybunch Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pfamilygal Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 You can also just go into a paint strainer from Home Depot. Like you would with kidney stones. I'm so sorry, babe. It sucks. I've done it five times and it sucks every time. Once I had a commitment I couldn't get out of and bled through my pants at a Cub Scout meeting. Nice. I'm so so sorry and wish I could give you a big hug and some liquor. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChristineW Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 I'm sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 Praying for you as you go in for your ultrasound. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoPlaceLikeHome Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mommy22alyns Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 I'm so sorry, Nance. You get plenty of sympathy and hugs from me. :grouphug: I would probably ask for the D&C. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanceXToo Posted September 25, 2012 Author Share Posted September 25, 2012 Just had the ultrasound. I could see no heartbeat. Waiting in the waiting room again for dr to be available to speak with me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cbollin Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: -crystal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
butterflymommy Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 I'm so, so sorry :(. ETA I had the d&c and it wasn't as scary/ bad as I thought it would be. That also ensures they can get what they need for testing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom25girls Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 I'm so very sorry. Heartbroken for you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SunnyDays Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 Just had the ultrasound. I could see no heartbeat. Waiting in the waiting room again for dr to be available to speak with me. :grouphug: Honey, I am so sorry. Big hugs to you... hopefully they are able to get this done and over with for you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm so sorry you're dealing with this again. In your shoes, I think I would definitely consider asking for a D&C, especially if they want to do genetic testing. Or you could ask for a 'hat'--they type they put under toilet seats to catch urine specimens. :grouphug: Yes, I agree. A D&C might be the easiest to manage at this point. I'm terribly sorry. It stinks and I wish I could do magic for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessMommy Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 Just had the ultrasound. I could see no heartbeat. Waiting in the waiting room again for dr to be available to speak with me. :grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleIzumi Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindergretta Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 The waiting room?! They couldn't let you sit in an exam room? :confused: I am so so so sorry. This is just heartbreaking. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jayb842 Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry!! Praying for you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gardening momma Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanceXToo Posted September 25, 2012 Author Share Posted September 25, 2012 So they call me back to do weight, blood pressure etc and as I'm. Walking toward that room I feel a big gush of blood and tell them I have to go to the bathroom. In the bathroom I see a stack of cups for peeing in, crouch and go in that, and a kind of biggish clot came out. A nurse took it, I went and did the weight, blood pressure, etc, and as they are leading me to exam room same thing happened. They collected that too. I wait I'm exam room a min or two and feel like I have to go again- one more clot but I couldn't catch that one and lost it. :( So then they figure they may as well do ultrasound again, and that was it- everything was out. Dr said first scan had shown sac was sort of compressed, fetal pole still there but no heartbeat, and now it's all out. So that's it, over, and I'm gonna have a big freakin glass of wine tonight. I am a little nervous that last clot I couldn't catch was what (or part of what) they needed to test but she said she thinks she has what she needs and they're sending it out tonight for testing. I have to follow up in a month to see if they got results if I haven't heard from her by then. She said her gut feeling is that it's chromosomal. I hope so. That would mean just another fluke and try again. Three babies officially gone. Sucks so much. But glad if it had to happen it happened the way it did, where they could collect and rescan right away. Thanks for being here for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angel Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 Aw, sweetie, :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 I'm relieved that it's over, and that you happened to be right there at the doctor's office when the clots came out. I hope the test results give you some helpful information. Are you seeing a high risk pregnancy specialist? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forget-Me-Not Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 My heart is breaking for you Nance. I wish you hadn't had to go alone to that appt. I'm so sorry your pregnancy had to end this way, but I'm glad the hard part is finally over for you. Be gentle on yourself over the next few days and get the rest and healing you need :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CountitallJoy Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanceXToo Posted September 25, 2012 Author Share Posted September 25, 2012 My heart is breaking for you Nance. I wish you hadn't had to go alone to that appt. I'm so sorry your pregnancy had to end this way, but I'm glad the hard part is finally over for you. Be gentle on yourself over the next few days and get the rest and healing you need :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: My husband was with me at the appt. thank you. I am just relieved at this point that it is over with. Very sad but relieved too. It was really stressful waiting that out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hsmamainva Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forget-Me-Not Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 My husband was with me at the appt. thank you. I am just relieved at this point that it is over with. Very sad but relieved too. It was really stressful waiting that out. Oh good, I'm glad he was able to go with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QuirkyKapers Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug:I am glad your dh was there. The whole thing sucks. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mumto2 Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug:I am so sorry. We had the testing done with several miscarriages. The last couple were genetic. It was heartbreaking but helpful. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dinsfamily Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 So they call me back to do weight, blood pressure etc and as I'm. Walking toward that room I feel a big gush of blood and tell them I have to go to the bathroom. In the bathroom I see a stack of cups for peeing in, crouch and go in that, and a kind of biggish clot came out. A nurse took it, I went and did the weight, blood pressure, etc, and as they are leading me to exam room same thing happened. They collected that too. I wait I'm exam room a min or two and feel like I have to go again- one more clot but I couldn't catch that one and lost it. :( So then they figure they may as well do ultrasound again, and that was it- everything was out. Dr said first scan had shown sac was sort of compressed, fetal pole still there but no heartbeat, and now it's all out. So that's it, over, and I'm gonna have a big freakin glass of wine tonight. I am a little nervous that last clot I couldn't catch was what (or part of what) they needed to test but she said she thinks she has what she needs and they're sending it out tonight for testing. I have to follow up in a month to see if they got results if I haven't heard from her by then. She said her gut feeling is that it's chromosomal. I hope so. That would mean just another fluke and try again. Three babies officially gone. Sucks so much. But glad if it had to happen it happened the way it did, where they could collect and rescan right away. Thanks for being here for me. :grouphug::grouphug: I hope you are able to relax a bit with that glass of wine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldberry Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 No words do this justice at all, but :grouphug:. You definitely deserve a night off! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
delaney Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 This is making me crazy and it isn't even me! I cannot wrap my mind around all of this and why in the world you are not able to get this baby. Please know that I am so incredibly heartbroken for you and wish I could just bring you some peace of mind.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heather in Neverland Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 I'm relieved for you that it is over. :( I wish I was closer and I could bring you a fattening meal and a good bottle of wine. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellesmere Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: I'm glad your husband was with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Word Nerd Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Jessica* Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindergretta Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :crying: I am so very sorry. :grouphug: I'm glad it is over and your dh is with you. <sigh> Unbelievably crappy, this whole lousy situation - AGAIN. (I am so angry over this. I felt SO angry with my 4th loss in a row. I was shocked at how sometimes the anger outweighed the pain, even. And I am just p*ssed that you are going through this. :mad: ) :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justLisa Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanceXToo Posted September 25, 2012 Author Share Posted September 25, 2012 And I totally appreciate you guys being pissed on my behalf! It seems like I'm having much more bleeding than I did after the last m/c and a lot of large clotting that I don't recall happening last time either. I hope that is normal. I am about two weeks further along (by lmp) than I was with the last one (just over 9 weeks compared to just over 7) but again the baby's measurements never got past 6 weeks, so, I don't know... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ewe Mama Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 My heart hurts so much for you right now. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jpoy85 Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 Oh my gosh I am so, so sorry. :crying: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathryn Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: I am so sorry :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freeindeed Posted September 25, 2012 Share Posted September 25, 2012 :grouphug: I am so sorry. Praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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