plain jane Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 My dh is being accused of something horrible and atrocious at work. HE DID NOT DO IT. It's not a moral thing, strictly professional formality- please don't let your imaginations run away with you ;) but he stands to be fired over this. And the repercussions will run deep. Not only would he be fired but he would lose many many business relationships and it would be very difficult for him to be hired anywhere. He has spent the last decade making a name for himself and is very successful at what he does. What he is being accused of is coming completely out of nowhere although there are decent suspects as to who would want to frame something like this on him Again, it's all business related but he is scared cr@pless right now as am I. Please, send what positive energy/prayers you have our way today and the next few days that the truth be revealed and my dh can save his good name. If you need more info, I'm open to PMs but I simply can't post more info on a public forum. Thanks all. This is so horrible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
speedmom4 Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 :grouphug: How horrible! I will definitely pray that the truth will be revealed quickly. Hope you all have some peace very soon. God Bless, Elise in NC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CupOCoffee Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 Sending heavy duty prayers.... I've BTDT, I know what you and especially he are feeling... ~coffee~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danybug Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 Praying for the truth to be revealed! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tress Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 praying for you and your husband! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 Praying for the truth to be revealed! same here.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fraidycat Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 :grouphug: Praying for the truth! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathryn Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1bassoon Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 Praying here. . . . . :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heather in AL Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen in PA Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 :iagree: Praying for the truth to be revealed! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TranquilMind Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 My dh is being accused of something horrible and atrocious at work. HE DID NOT DO IT. It's not a moral thing, strictly professional formality- please don't let your imaginations run away with you ;) but he stands to be fired over this. And the repercussions will run deep. Not only would he be fired but he would lose many many business relationships and it would be very difficult for him to be hired anywhere. He has spent the last decade making a name for himself and is very successful at what he does. What he is being accused of is coming completely out of nowhere although there are decent suspects as to who would want to frame something like this on him Again, it's all business related but he is scared cr@pless right now as am I. Please, send what positive energy/prayers you have our way today and the next few days that the truth be revealed and my dh can save his good name. If you need more info, I'm open to PMs but I simply can't post more info on a public forum. Thanks all. This is so horrible. I'm so sorry. He needs to begin recreating a paper trail right now of exactly what happened, who was involved, who had access - every single thing relevant to the incident in question. If he has good documentation (and I hope he's not locked out of the office already) this can help him immensely. Praying it all works out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mumto2 Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 Praying :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 Praying. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sbgrace Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 I'm so sorry. We've experienced false accusations too and the truth did come out. I will pray that truth is revealed clearly in this situation as well. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coffeetime Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 :grouphug: Praying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChristineW Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 :grouphug: Praying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Truscifi Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 Done. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 Praying Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QuirkyKapers Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 :grouphug: Praying the truth will come out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalanamak Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 :grouphug: I've seen some ugly things at work. Key is a good boss. I hope he has someone up the food chain who has a sensible head. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Ds was accused of robbing a house last year. Even though we knew, without a doubt that he didn't do it, the agony of going through the process with the courts was horrible. The accusation just about caused me to loose it! I was so stressed, there were days that I could barely walk. One of the worst parts, was how some people who have known him for 10 years, believed he did it (there was zero evidence, just someone who said he did it). That broke my heart, to realize how quickly people would turn their back on you and go along with believing the lies......:grouphug::grouphug: I am sorry you are going through this. It is devastating, horrid and maddening. I hope it all gets cleared up soon, and that his reputation is not destroyed in the meantime. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ondreeuh Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 I'm so sorry .... we have sort-of been there. A guy got hurt due to his own carelessness and decided he wanted to bring dh down with it. We think it was an extortion attempt because he the guy wrote a letter to dh's employer but handed it to dh, so we think he wanted to get paid to be quiet. Dh promptly told his employer. In our situation, everyone knew the guy was crazy but if he involved a lawyer than it would have been ugly. Dh ended up getting statements from everyone who was involved in the situation so that it wasn't just his word against the crazy guy's. The guy dropped it, hopefully for good. I hope your dh is able to get statements that back him up. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peaceful Isle Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 Ugh! It's not like you don't have enough on your plate now as it is :( I am praying that your husband does not lose his job and that whoever is spreading this lie will be caught! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
creekland Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 :grouphug: Prayers from here. I hope it can all be straightened out. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mommyfaithe Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 Praying:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happyhomemaker Posted May 18, 2012 Share Posted May 18, 2012 Dh has had to deal with serious slander at work as well. I know what y'all are going through :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Praying for the truth to be revealed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessMommy Posted May 18, 2012 Share Posted May 18, 2012 I'm so sorry. Praying the truth is revealed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MamaSheep Posted May 18, 2012 Share Posted May 18, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unicorn. Posted May 18, 2012 Share Posted May 18, 2012 Stay strong! Remember to breathe. And find the best lawyer you can, even if you think you don't need one. Get one. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plain jane Posted May 18, 2012 Author Share Posted May 18, 2012 Thanks all. I'm just so sick about this. We both are. Please continue to pray for us. Turns out it's not an accusation over something that just happened to take place. It's something that was purposely done to look like he did. :glare::glare: I'm completely dumbstruck that people can be so outright evil. Our family stands to lose so much over all this. His job, his reputation... he may not be able to find a job in his field locally after all of this. :crying: What is wrong with people? :001_huh::willy_nilly: Ugh. Hive, I'm needing a miracle here. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plain jane Posted May 18, 2012 Author Share Posted May 18, 2012 Stay strong! Remember to breathe. And find the best lawyer you can, even if you think you don't need one. Get one. :grouphug: Between the crying and wanting to puke, I'm trying to get a few breaths in there. :tongue_smilie: We're looking into legal counsel. I'm just in shock. I knew that people can be ugly. I've just been too naive as to the depths that people will sink to. It's quite disturbing. :001_huh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
readinmom Posted May 18, 2012 Share Posted May 18, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annlaura Posted May 18, 2012 Share Posted May 18, 2012 Praying. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kolamum Posted May 18, 2012 Share Posted May 18, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChrisN in NY Posted May 18, 2012 Share Posted May 18, 2012 Praying for you here as well, that the truth will come out soon, and for you all to have peace during this great trial. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TN Mama Posted May 18, 2012 Share Posted May 18, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. I'm praying that the truth will be revealed and quickly. Mean people... ugh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MamaSheep Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Thinking of you. I hope things have gotten better.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Woodhaven Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Praying for you and your dh. Get an attorney. Your dh needs to collect all the information he can now, while he has a chance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swellmomma Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 How did I not see this post sooner? Praying hard for you guys here. Having your dh framed for something is so sickening. The worst part is even if he is found to not be guilty the work relationship is ruined. He will no longer trust his bosses/coworkers, they will never full trust him again etc. I hope that karma bites the arse of the person responsible for this hard and fast and makes the truth come out one way or another. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SonshineLearner Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 So sorry :( Hoping what's right "comes to light" ..... Best wishes!!! :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liz CA Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Praying for truth to prevail. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KnitWit Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Oh Jane! I'm just seeing this! I, too, am praying for the truth to be revealed...and SOON! May the Lord give you peace. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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