Forget-Me-Not Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 I am so very, very sorry for your loss and that you can't have your mother's support :hug Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pfamilygal Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 I'm so, so sorry. We lost two in 2009. Then got pregnant in January of 2010. I was terrified - only three weeks after our last loss. But she's 13 months old now :) Be gentle with yourself. Give yourself time and permission to grieve. And name your child, if it helps. I named each of our five babes in Heaven and it helped me to grieve them as people instead of nameless pregnancies. I also planted a tree for each of them in our yard. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Peach Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 :grouphug: I'm sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blueridge Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 I am so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
linders Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosie_0801 Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GypsieFamily Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DianeW88 Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 I'm so terribly sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickenpatty Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. I understand having to pretend everything is normal. It is hard! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canadianmumof5 Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 I am so sorry. :grouphug: Hope DH is home now and giving you all the support you need. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stacie in UT Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeneralMom Posted October 15, 2011 Author Share Posted October 15, 2011 Thank you so much for all the support. I only just got home from a long day. DD4 had a b-day party at Chuck E Cheese to go to at 9:30. The mom throwing the party was one of the few people who knew about the baby and she took one look at me and knew so we sat around and talked with some of my other friends. They helped to make me feel better because they have all experienced several losses in a row. My DH got to the airport this morning and mysteriously his return trip had been canceled so they had to re-route him through 4 different cities and now I am about to set off to drive 2.5 hours to get him and 2.5 hours home. Actually, I am looking forward to it because we can have some alone time to discuss what our future plans are. My first midwife appointment was scheduled for Wednesday the 19th, so I am keeping it and will discuss my options with her. When I had the miscarriage in May they did thorough scanning and said everything looked great so it may be a hormone issue, or my age. The responses really mean alot to me, and make the "happy face" I have plastered on a little easier to maintain. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Osmosis Mom Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 Jennifer, Thinking of you. You are very brave. Stay strong. I hope you feel well and strong after talking things over with your midwife. A friend here -who is in her mid-forties and had several miscarriages after her two kids- is finally pregnant at 16 weeks. She was also at the end of her rope, but things worked out on their own. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melmichigan Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 I am so sorry for your loss and sorry you have to put on a happy face, be sure to take some time for yourself once your DH is home. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoPlaceLikeHome Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RainbowSprinkles Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 :grouphug: I'm so sorry for your loss... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amber in AUS Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 Big hugs to you. I am so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hedgehog Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 :( I'm so sorry for you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gardenmom5 Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 :grouphug: You have my deepthest sympathy on your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maus Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel marie Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 i hope that you can get some rest when your husband gets home. i am so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funschooler5 Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 :grouphug: I'm so sorry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
delaney Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 Oh gosh I am so sorry!:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grace'smom Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 The words seem inadequate but I wanted to say I'm sorry for your loss. The world is a hard place when we've lost someone we love, and it doesn't take any time at all to love a child with our whole hearts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sandellie4 Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: Oh, I'm so sorry. :grouphug::grouphug: Sandy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:I'm so sorry! I can't imagine what it's like to have to pretend all is well when you're in such deep anguish.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MelissaMinNC Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 Oh, I'm so so so sorry. Many many :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom2denj Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 So sorry!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenCat Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 :grouphug:Jen:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mommy22alyns Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Susan Wise Bauer Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 :crying: Been there. Thinking of you. It will not ever be painless; but it WILL be well. SWB Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aggie Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MotherMayI Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 :grouphug: I am so sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
posybuddy Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 How heartbreaking. I am so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dayle in Guatemala Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 :grouphug:so sorry for your loss.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aubrey Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slartibartfast Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 :grouphug: I am terribly sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oops, duplicate account :/ Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquinas Academy Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 I am so sorry, Jen. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nd293 Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 I'm so sorry for your loss, and the added stress of the Australia move. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1GirlTwinBoys Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 So sorry this happened and you're under so much stress.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tutor Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
desertmum Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 :grouphug: So sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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