newlifemom Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Went to ER today for bleeding. Should have been 10 wks. Baby apparently died at 6 wks. Will be sheduling a D&C tomorrow as baby has already been dead for 4 wks without a normal miss. I am so bummed. I really wanted this one.:( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liz CA Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Went to ER today for bleeding. Should have been 10 wks. Baby apparently died at 6 wks. Will be sheduling a D&C tomorrow as baby has already been dead for 4 wks without a normal miss. I am so bummed. I really wanted this one.:( So sorry! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SherryTX Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I am sorry to read this. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeacherZee Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I'm so sorry :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tracy in Ky Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Oh, I am so sorry.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenny in Florida Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I wish I had something more to say, but all I can think of is that I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
momofkhm Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Christy B Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 :grouphug: I am so sorry. Wishing you healing and peace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom4him Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I am praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dooley Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Pam, I have been where you are today. I lost #5 in the first trimester. He would've been a miracle baby, as my husband had 2 vasectomies. As much as we knew Gods hand was in his life, we knew His hand was also in his death. We have to trust Him. God bless you, sweet sister, I am praying for your peace today!!! There are many who know your pain and are right there with ya- feel free to pm me is you want. I will be there. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Girls' Mom Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. It's a hard thing to go through :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hi_itsgwen Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I'm sad with you as well. I have also lost two babies very early on. If you can, get a hold of the book Safe in the Arms of God, by John MacArthur. It is a wonderful book for parents who have lost babies and young children. It's full of the scriptures, which point to God's character and give hope and peace about the life of your baby. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quiver0f10 Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 So sorry :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
homeschooltoone Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I'm sorry for your lost.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mazakaal Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kalanamak Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Went to ER today for bleeding. Should have been 10 wks. Baby apparently died at 6 wks. Will be sheduling a D&C tomorrow as baby has already been dead for 4 wks without a normal miss. I am so bummed. I really wanted this one.:( I'm so sorry. May you recover well, body and soul. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeckyFL Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 my prayers are with you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M&M Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 So sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennay Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I'm sorry - I have some idea how you feel. I've lost 6 babies around the 6 week mark. Please be gentle with yourself as you grieve and recover. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sleepy Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I'm so sorry. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melinda Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I am so, so sorry. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amber in AUS Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Sorry for your loss :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denise in IN Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I'm so sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AuntPol Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nakia Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I am so very sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peggy in Va Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 :grouphug: I am sending prayers and hugs your way, but remember not to loose hope. I have been where you are 4 times, each time the baby had died at about 6 weeks, but was not discovered until later. The last one being at 13 weeks. Grieve this loss but do not give up hope. It took a while, but I ended up with 2 wonderful dss after the last one. :grouphug::grouphug: Because hugs are always good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tabrett Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 All hope is not lost!!! That happened to me 2 times in a row. My babies died at 6 week, but my body didn't let me know till 12 weeks. My doc was at a loss as to why. All test were negative. But.....the hope!!!!! I have had 3 beautiful babies after the 2 I lost!!!!! Hope and strength is found in the Lord! :grouphug: I will pray that you have as many beautiful babies as you desire! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nestof3 Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 :grouphug: I am sorry you lost your little one. I do hope you will heal and find hope and joy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I'm sorry for your loss.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SonshineLearner Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I'm so sorry for you and your family, Pam! Carrie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melissel Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Pam, I'm so very sorry for the loss of your beloved baby :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danestress Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 It's just really hard and sad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heather in Neverland Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BakersDozen Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Oh no...oh no. I am so sorry, so very sorry. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
specialmama Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 :grouphug: I'm sorry that sweet baby was lost. Praying for some good tears, some good anger, then some good healing and renewal. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loupelou Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Pam, I am so sorry for your loss.:grouphug: May the Lord bless you with peace and hope. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chanda7 Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I'm so sorry. I went through a miscarriage last month. It happened 3.5 weeks after the baby died. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joannqn Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I'm sorry for your loss. :grouphug: I've lost three at 6 weeks, though I can't imagine having to have a D&C. That's got to make it even harder. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa in Jax Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I'm very sorry for your loss. Lisa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FlockOfSillies Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I'm sorry for your loss. BTDT too, D&C included. May God comfort you and grant you peace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Oh no. That is so sad. I'm praying for you and your family. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katemary63 Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 :grouphug: I am so sorry. Wishing you healing and peace. :iagree: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peri Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I so know what you feel like. I went through the same thing myself a few years back. Logicaly I knew it wasn't my fault but emotionaly I couldn't help but blame myslef. It took me 1 month to get back to "normal". Just take your time and let yourself grieve. Reasearching alot about what happened and why ... although no one really knows why ... helped me too. I also didn't like being alone so if you feel comforted having a friend around don't feel shy to ask someone to come and spend a little time with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OnTheBrink Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 Went to ER today for bleeding. Should have been 10 wks. Baby apparently died at 6 wks. Will be sheduling a D&C tomorrow as baby has already been dead for 4 wks without a normal miss. I am so bummed. I really wanted this one.:( I'm so so so so sorry! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tree House Academy Posted April 15, 2009 Share Posted April 15, 2009 I am so sorry! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newlifemom Posted April 16, 2009 Author Share Posted April 16, 2009 Thank you for your kind replies, and may I just add that it felt as is you all created a day just for me here on the boards. What fun for such a sucky day. Thank you again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spy Car Posted April 16, 2009 Share Posted April 16, 2009 Oh Pam, I missed this earlier. I'm sorry for your loss :grouphug: Bill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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