Innisfree Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 I'm so very sorry. Transmission seems to be almost entirely airborne. This wasn't something your plastic bag caused, or something you could have prevented. It sounds like his facility was hit by an outbreak before the vaccines were fully effective. Huge hugs. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilaclady Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 Sorry 😢 for your loss. Please don’t blame yourself Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommyoffive Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 I am so so sorry for your loss. I am sending prayers to your whole family. This is not your fault. Please don't think that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pam in CT Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 It was not your plastic bag. Your world is upended; grief is awful; it was not.your.fault. Holding you in the light. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kokotg Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 I'm so, so sorry. Thinking of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MercyA Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 I am so very sorry, Janeway. Huge hugs to you. I would put the statistical likelihood that it came from your bag at zero. Please just let go of that right now. Your brain is just reaching for things to bother over...I know the feeling well. If there is anything we can do for you, let us know. We are here if you need to talk. Love and prayers. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toocrazy!! Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 I am so sorry for your loss. Heartbreaking. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ottakee Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 So sorry for your loss. Do not think that this is your fault at all. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klmama Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 ((Janeway)) I'm very sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 I'm so sorry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kareni Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 How very sad. My thoughts are with you, Janeway. Regards, Kareni Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ali in OR Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 I am so sorry. Your gift of cookies and movies brought him nothing but your love and a little happiness. 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
readinmom Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 I am so, so sorry... Praying for you and family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El... Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 I'm so sorry, Janeway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zoo Keeper Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 My deepest sympathy on your loss. Praying for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SKL Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 I am so sorry for your loss. Continued prayers for your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karen A Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 I am so sorry. Prayers for you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditto Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 15 hours ago, Janeway said: No miracles. He died a couple hours ago. I am wondering....I took him some movies and cookies in a plastic bag on Jan 2. He went in to the hospital Jan 14. I wonder if this is my fault. I usually wipe everything down before handing over, but did not this time. Anyone know? It was a plastic grocery bag. Oh Janeway I am so very sorry. Please know that there is no way you are at fault for this. None at all. I'm glad that he got to enjoy the treats and feel that extra bit of love from you. You did zero wrong. It is so easy to ponder the "what ifs" when something tragic happens and turning off your mind from doing that is nearly impossible, but hear it again: you did nothing wrong. the plastic bag did not give him Covid. Sending you and your family prayers and hugs. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ditto Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 21 hours ago, Storygirl said: I'm so sorry. I prayed for healing if possible, and for you to have a chance to see him. I just lost my Mom in November. I know how hard this news is to receive. I am very sorry for the loss of your mom. Hugs. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirty ethel rackham Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you. I'll add to the voices telling you that it was not treats you gave him. You didn't give him Covid. You showed him love and care. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ailaena Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 I am so, so sorry, Janeway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storygirl Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 I'm sorry, Janeway. As others have said, it's normal to feel that you might bear some responsibility, but our feelings are not always aligned with what is true. You offered a gesture of love and support to your father not long before he died, and I hope you are able to reclaim that as a positive memory. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScoutTN Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 I am so sorry for your loss. Absolutely not your fault! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Familia Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 I am so sorry for your loss. Lifting you all up in prayer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mominco Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 So sorry for your loss Janeway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom31257 Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 I am so very sorry for your loss! Do not blame yourself because this was not your fault. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happi duck Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 I am so sorry for your loss Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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