Chris in VA Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 She's been off her thyroid meds for about a week (neglect case--too complicated to go into right now). She received questionable care while we were at the wedding. Yesterday, we noticed she seemed a little bloated--you can really tell today. Taking her to the vet at 4:30. She's 16 (at least--we rescued her when we think she was about a year old) and may have some heart trouble, too. Poor baby. And my kids will be really sad. Prayers/good thoughts would be nice. I don't know how to determine what to do--if euthanizing her is the right thing or not. I guess the vet will help. We can't do more than about $200 worth of vet care. Idk if that will buy enough diagnostic care to find out what's wrong and then help her. Ugh. This is hard and I feel awful about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MercyA Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I am so sorry. Praying for you and your kitty (and for your kids, and for wisdom and discernment for the vet). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 I'm sorry...it's never an easy decision. Do you really really trust your vet? Our vet when we lived in FL was very good at letting people know when the care he was giving an animal was for the sake of the animal, or the sake of the owner. When we had a dog with cancer, we asked him to let us know when that line crossed. He did, and was very compassionate about it. It helped us to know that what we were doing was no longer doing anything but prolonging it for OUR sake. Praying for you no matter what your decision. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: I'm so sorry, Chris. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Florida. Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 :grouphug: I'm so sorry :grouphug: That's always such a difficult decision. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
milovany Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 I'm very sorry, Chris. Hugs to you today. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pawz4me Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennay Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 I'm very sorry :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StaceyinLA Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 I'm going through a difficult situation with one of our cats as well, and am having to make tough decisions. I'm sorry. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinder Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 I'm sorry...it's never an easy decision. Do you really really trust your vet? Our vet when we lived in FL was very good at letting people know when the care he was giving an animal was for the sake of the animal, or the sake of the owner. When we had a dog with cancer, we asked him to let us know when that line crossed. He did, and was very compassionate about it. It helped us to know that what we were doing was no longer doing anything but prolonging it for OUR sake. Praying for you no matter what your decision. When we had to put our cat down earlier this year it was basically down to this. The vet gave us 3 options, 2 of which he said would prolong the cat's life but nothing could be done to improve his condition. We felt he was saying to us that we could pursue those options if *we* needed more time, but that there was no more time for our cat. It was hard because our heads knew it was time but our hearts didn't want to let go. I still get teary thinking about it. :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie Elle Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 I'm sorry. Losing a fur baby is hard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoobie Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 I'm sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SquirrellyMama Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 I'm so sorry. We're going through that same decision this week. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happi duck Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 (Hugs) to everyone facing this or already grieving. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stacia Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: (to you & the others who are facing this too) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kim in Appalachia Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hornblower Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 The Pawspice quality of life scale can help with this type of decision http://www.peacefulpassings.org/images/QualityofLifeScale.pdf Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farrar Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 Holding you in the light. We had to make that call recently. It's tough. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldberry Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie G Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 I'm so sorry. It's so hard to lose a beloved pet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessMommy Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 hugs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orthodox6 Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 :grouphug: . Truly. :grouphug: Our family is leaving me to make the call for when to have our dearly beloved beagle "put to sleep". She has bladder cancer and we cannot afford to treat it. For many weeks now, she has "defiled" [euphemism] the kitchen linoleum multiple times per day/night. (We have to keep her gated in the kitchen for obvious reasons.) She exhibits no pain, but the health implications (for us humans) are not good. I can't even allow our granddaughter in the room. You have my strong sympathy. It's not at all easy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pawz4me Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 :grouphug: . Truly. :grouphug: Our family is leaving me to make the call for when to have our dearly beloved beagle "put to sleep". She has bladder cancer and we cannot afford to treat it. For many weeks now, she has "defiled" [euphemism] the kitchen linoleum multiple times per day/night. (We have to keep her gated in the kitchen for obvious reasons.) She exhibits no pain, but the health implications (for us humans) are not good. I can't even allow our granddaughter in the room. You have my strong sympathy. It's not at all easy. Do you think she'd use wee wee pads? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orthodox6 Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 Do you think she'd use wee wee pads? We tried. She floods right through them. We go through 1-2 large rolls of paper towels every 1-1/2 days. She is thirteen years old, and one of the most gentle, loving dogs ever living. (except for being an expert and relentless "birder" in the back yard!) All she does any more is sleep and eat a little. Goes outside willingly unless she is too tired. When one of us gets down to caress/hug her, she wheezes emotionally. Little tail wags if we have been gone for some hours and return. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hornblower Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 We tried. She floods right through them. We go through 1-2 large rolls of paper towels every 1-1/2 days. If the regular dog diapers aren't working, maybe try adding an additional liner from the human incontinence aisle. The Poise pads are very absorbent & will definitely hold whatever a less than 50lb dog can produce. Also more tips here: http://championofmyheart.com/2012/09/24/incontinent-dogs-diaper-options/ Using good diapers (in addition to pain control) is a really good option for these guys. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
unsinkable Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 Aww, I'm sorry. I hope you get some positive news at the vet... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orthodox6 Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 If the regular dog diapers aren't working, maybe try adding an additional liner from the human incontinence aisle. The Poise pads are very absorbent & will definitely hold whatever a less than 50lb dog can produce. Also more tips here: http://championofmyheart.com/2012/09/24/incontinent-dogs-diaper-options/ Using good diapers (in addition to pain control) is a really good option for these guys. I thought she was talking about the flat, floor pads. I have not attempted formal-wear. We are skin-tight, financially. Thank you for the link, which I shall follow and read. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orthodox6 Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 Chris, did the care provider (during the wedding) share any useful information? You said it was "questionable care", so perhaps the vet can factor that in. If your children can handle the stress and emotions, keeping someone with her as much as possible will provide comfort -- to the kids as well as to your dear pet. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hornblower Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 I thought she was talking about the flat, floor pads. I have not attempted formal-wear. We are skin-tight, financially. Thank you for the link, which I shall follow and read. I know someone who ended up using old cloth diapers for her dog so if you have some in the attic that's an option too. Kids undies are usually a good size for dogs & you just need to cut a hole for the tail. They do of course then need frequent rinsing with water & on a short haired/almost naked belly, I'd consider some zinc creme to prevent possible diaper rash. GL. I know it's hard. I'm in the trenches with one of my old dogs, counting the good days v. bad days. He's suddenly poop incontinent... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
unsinkable Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 :grouphug: . Truly. :grouphug: Our family is leaving me to make the call for when to have our dearly beloved beagle "put to sleep". She has bladder cancer and we cannot afford to treat it. For many weeks now, she has "defiled" [euphemism] the kitchen linoleum multiple times per day/night. (We have to keep her gated in the kitchen for obvious reasons.) She exhibits no pain, but the health implications (for us humans) are not good. I can't even allow our granddaughter in the room. You have my strong sympathy. It's not at all easy. :grouphug: I'm sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 I would be tempted to give the vet bill to the person who gave inadequate care to your cat. I hope the vet can provide some good advice for you in what to do now. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sunflowerlady Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 I am sorry. Hugs to you. I am having to accept that I may need to make this decision sometime fairly soon with my elderly yellow lab. She is in definite decline. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellie Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scootiepie Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 So sorry. It's heart wrenching to go through. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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