athomeontheprairie Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 I've nursed to 18 months 3 times. Each time, my cycle was suppressed until 11 months. Baby #4 is 13 months, almost 14, and so far nothing. Every local mom I know that BF's, their cycles all came back around 3 months, otherwise I'd ask them. Is there a point when I should go and get checked out if it doesn't come back, or remain thankful that I don't have to deal with it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoobie Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 Could you be pregnant again? I never got mine back before getting pregnant with #2, and they weren't back to normal when I got pregnant with #4. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondeviolin Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 IME, it's not uncommon for this to vary. I've gotten my cycle back anywhere from 5mos to 15mos. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zoo Keeper Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 I would count myself in the oh-so-thankful-I-don't-have-THAT- to-deal-with-right-now camp. :) But you probably are aware that you can get pregnant even if you haven't had a monthly yet (since ovulation comes before the period...) I mention it just in case you were counting on BF as a form of birth control. I've nursed five, and my cycle came back sooner with each one (one year to six months post partum), even though they all nursed to about the same age (12 -18 months). If you had no cycles * after * weaning, well, then, that is time to get things checked out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carriede Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 I've gone to 18 mo with both my older kids and straight to being pregnant w/o a period. Current baby is 9 mo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greenvneck Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 I've gone as far as 26 months. I think shortest was 19 months. I'm in the be-grateful camp! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T'smom Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 I got my period back around 13 months with my first two. My last is only 5 months and no sign of anything yet. I wouldn't worry yet. I think mine started back about the time they started getting most of their calories from solid food. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melbotoast Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 Last time I went 24 months. I wouldn't be concerned at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imagine.more Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 My first two (boys) I got my period back at 6.5 months postpartum. My daughter I got my period back at 10 months postpartum. So apparently it can vary a good bit :) I don't think I did anything differently between the three either, if anything my second boy was the most odd since I exclusively pumped for him due to reflux. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
texasmama Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 Mine varied quite a lot so I think you are okay. :) (Unless you are pg...) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom22ns Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 Mine didn't come back until I stopped nursing. The first time that was at 12 mos. The second time it was a few months later. I go with normal as long as you aren't pregnant :). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T'smom Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 Last time I went 24 months. I wouldn't be concerned at all. I am so jealous! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathryn Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 With my first, I didn't nurse for almost two weeks when he was six months and it came back and stayed back even after I resumed nursing. With y second, it didn't come back until I stopped nursing at 30 months. I'm at 5 months now with no signs of it coming. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lolly Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 Thankful. Enjoy the reprieve! At least 2 years here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tangerine Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 8 weeks, 6 weeks, and 6 weeks all EBF. I say enjoy as well! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JumpyTheFrog Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 I agree. Enjoy it! I got 7 weeks the first time. The second time was only 10 weeks, despite nursing every 90 minutes day and night with no pacifier use. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ocelotmom Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 #1 and #2 it came back at about 12 months. #3 was close to 2 years, despite the fact that I'd been going 6+ hours without nursing at a time by the time she was 8 months old, and nightweaned around 12 months. I had a hard time gaining weight during that pregnancy, and lost a lot during the first 9 months or so afterwards, so I think I was just too depleted. I was a bit worried, but we did go on to conceive again after that, so it doesn't seem to have caused any lasting problems. It took me a lot longer to conceive that time than with my others, though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jar7709 Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 My cycle didn't return between my two kids. So agreeing with PPs, look out for that! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halftime Hope Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 The wonderful thing about not getting your period back is that during those months that you are not cycling, your breasts are not exposed to normal levels of estrogen, so that is protective against breast cancer. Woo, hoo! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maize Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 I have had everything from 10-15 months, and I know my mom went longer than that. I would not worry, just be grateful. (And take a pregnancy test if you have any doubt in that direction!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndyJoy Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 I went 15 mo. with #1 and only 6 weeks with #2, so no counting on patterns here! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happypamama Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 Mine has come back at 15 months postpartum while nursing four times. I expect it'll be the same with this little guy, who is not quite 14 months yet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Mungo Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 I nursed each of mine until they were over 2. My period came back each time when they were around 15 months. Various factors are involved. On demand nursing with no supplementing (including food), no pacifiers, etc is more likely to keep your period away. It is totally normal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LMD Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 My first 3 it came back within days of their first birthday. I'm expecting it any day now... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jelbe5 Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 If you are co sleeping that might be why your cycle has not returned. My cycle resumed one month after the birth of my oldest daughter and son. I did not co sleep with either. I did co sleep with my younger daughter and my cycle did not resume for six months. A LLL friend told me that the co sleeping may maintain the higher hormones. Many of my nursing friends did not resume for a year or more so I think you are well within the norm. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goldilocks Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 The length until mine came back increased with each pregnancy. Started at 13 months then up to 18 with the last. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carriede Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 I've gone to 18 mo with both my older kids and straight to being pregnant w/o a period. Current baby is 9 mo. Wanted to add that I got pregnant in both cases immediately after night weaning (no co sleeping here, but lots of night nursing anyway). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halftime Hope Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 Wanted to add that I got pregnant in both cases immediately after night weaning (no co sleeping here, but lots of night nursing anyway). Oh my! I would have been a walking zombie. My hat's off to you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carriede Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 Oh my! I would have been a walking zombie. My hat's off to you! Which is why we finally night weaned! :) I'm looking to night wean my current nursing sooner than that... But he's been sleeping better at night than the other two did, so it may be a non issue. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocassie Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 As long as you are actually still nursing, and don't believe yourself to be pregnant, then I believe it to be perfectly normal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freesia Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 19 months here. Don't worry, enjoy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrairieSong Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 I didn't have a cycle for about a year postpartum, but it varied from 9 to 15 months. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rmtzc2009 Posted October 15, 2014 Share Posted October 15, 2014 I would only be concerned if you had a D&C following delivery. (For retained placenta or any other reason). Not having a period return after a D&C is a concern but if that isn't the case I think your fine. Enjoy!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlsdMama Posted October 15, 2014 Share Posted October 15, 2014 My cycle is back with Woollen (2.5 months) despite nursing in demand, around the clock. ( However, I'm noticing a much reduced supply.) Other babies? Anywhere from eight months to 15-16 months. However, three times I did not have an anovulatory period before ovulation. That's when it is VERY good to know the signs of ovulation. ;) All have been different and nut necessarily dependent on nursing. ( For instance I got pregnant with Catherine while tandem nursing two children, one wasn't quite a year old.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HS Mom in NC Posted October 15, 2014 Share Posted October 15, 2014 I know a few BF moms who went without cycles for a couple of years. One went 3 years. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daffodil Posted October 15, 2014 Share Posted October 15, 2014 I've gone between 14 and 17 months. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenn121 Posted October 15, 2014 Share Posted October 15, 2014 It was 8-9 months for DD6. DD13 was bottlefed so it returned early. My youngest will be 6 months old Friday and guess what showed up today. SIGH I have not missed this!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DesertBlossom Posted October 15, 2014 Share Posted October 15, 2014 I didn't have AF between baby #1 and #2. :ohmy: (they are only 12 months apart) AF returned at 7 or 8 months after baby #2 and baby #3. I made it all the way to 18 months after baby #4. :hurray: It was awesome!! I nursed him until just before he turned 2. After baby #5 it came back at about 9 months. I was hoping it would be longer, darn it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fdrinca Posted October 15, 2014 Share Posted October 15, 2014 My return to fertility takes longer and longer with each baby. Between 3 and 4, it took 25 blissful months. I'm at 15 months now with no return. I do take a pregnancy test every month (on the 15th) just to be sure I don't have a sneaker pregnancy. The dollar store carries tests. I consider it a good investment for my piece of mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kiwik Posted October 15, 2014 Share Posted October 15, 2014 Unless you are either pregnant and don't want to be, wanting to get pregnant or are concerned for other reasons it sounds perfectly normal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Butter Posted October 15, 2014 Share Posted October 15, 2014 Remain thankful. My cycle came back at 9 months with #1, 11 months with #3, and 7 months with #4. #2 is my anomaly. It didn't come back until 21 months with him. He also was an avid night nurser and I was tandem nursing until a couple months after that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
armom Posted October 15, 2014 Share Posted October 15, 2014 My did not come back until after stopped nursing. Over 2 years! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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