scrappyhappymama Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Thinking of you today! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanceXToo Posted May 25, 2012 Author Share Posted May 25, 2012 Hey all, Well, I had my u/s and have very mixed emotions right now. Going by LMP, I should be 7w1d today. When they did the u/s, there was a baby measuring 0.40 cm crown to rump and there was a heartbeat with a rate of 102. The doctor said those measurements and that heart rate are what would be expected if I were a week behind and was 6w1d pregnant. When we talked about how I ovulated late (probably cd18 going by opk's), she said that might explain it, although seems to me it's still a few days behind what it should be. Of greater concern to me is the fact that she said the gestational sac is very small. She said that could be a problem or it could be nothing and will eventually "catch up," she's seen this happen where the baby didn't develop very far and the woman miscarried, and she's seen situations like this turn out to be fine. There is just no way to tell. She said that everything is where it should be and there is a heartbeat and she's more optimistic than pessimistic, but it is hard not to worry when the baby measured a week behind AND the sac is too small. I have to go back a week from Monday- in ten days- to do another u/s. Another agonizing wait. On top of that after I got home a couple of times I used the bathroom, wiped, and there was a pinkish tinge. They say this is normal after a pap and an internal ultrasound (which was a bit uncomfortable, they pushed, poked, and prodded quite a bit trying to find what they wanted), but it's hard not to worry about everything at this point. Please keep praying, crossing your fingers, etc. Thanks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whereneverever Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Hey all, Well, I had my u/s and have very mixed emotions right now. Going by LMP, I should be 7w1d today. When they did the u/s, there was a baby measuring 0.40 cm crown to rump and there was a heartbeat with a rate of 102. The doctor said those measurements and that heart rate are what would be expected if I were a week behind and was 6w1d pregnant. When we talked about how I ovulated late (probably cd18 going by opk's), she said that might explain it, although seems to me it's still a few days behind what it should be. Of greater concern to me is the fact that she said the gestational sac is very small. She said that could be a problem or it could be nothing and will eventually "catch up," she's seen this happen where the baby didn't develop very far and the woman miscarried, and she's seen situations like this turn out to be fine. There is just no way to tell. She said that everything is where it should be and there is a heartbeat and she's more optimistic than pessimistic, but it is hard not to worry when the baby measured a week behind AND the sac is too small. I have to go back a week from Monday- in ten days- to do another u/s. Another agonizing wait. On top of that after I got home a couple of times I used the bathroom, wiped, and there was a pinkish tinge. They say this is normal after a pap and an internal ultrasound (which was a bit uncomfortable, they pushed, poked, and prodded quite a bit trying to find what they wanted), but it's hard not to worry about everything at this point. Please keep praying, crossing your fingers, etc. Thanks! :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Christie_Jarrard Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 (edited) I have had spotting with all my kids, healthy and m/c. SenDing healthy baby dust :001_smile: Edited May 25, 2012 by Christie_Jarrard Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
staceyobu Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Ugh... sorry you still have more of an agonizing wait ahead of you. I think the pinkish tinge is definitely normal after what you had done today. Praying everything looks great at the next u/s! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindergretta Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 My first u/s with this pg was similarly mixed. I went in hoping for a great u/s with definitive answers and got a very mixed bag. I had to go back two weeks later and then the u/s was absolutely perfect! The wait in between about killed me. I understand and am praying for you!!!!! :grouphug: (Heartbeat is such excellent news. Things are significantly improved when there is a heartbeat.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
usetoschool Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 I was expecting this to put your mind at ease...I am so sorry it didn't. :grouphug: Just hang on to the doctor's optimism, right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cassy Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 :grouphug: Try not to worry, it does no good. If the doctor was optimistic, then you should be too. :grouphug: Cassy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 :grouphug: I have had these sorts of appointments before too, and the wait in between stinks. I'm praying your baby will be just fine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hsmamainva Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 :grouphug: Sprinkling ~*~*~*~*~baby dust~*~*~*~*~ for you! Hang in there! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amydavis Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forget-Me-Not Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Hey all, Well, I had my u/s and have very mixed emotions right now. Going by LMP, I should be 7w1d today. When they did the u/s, there was a baby measuring 0.40 cm crown to rump and there was a heartbeat with a rate of 102. The doctor said those measurements and that heart rate are what would be expected if I were a week behind and was 6w1d pregnant. When we talked about how I ovulated late (probably cd18 going by opk's), she said that might explain it, although seems to me it's still a few days behind what it should be. Of greater concern to me is the fact that she said the gestational sac is very small. She said that could be a problem or it could be nothing and will eventually "catch up," she's seen this happen where the baby didn't develop very far and the woman miscarried, and she's seen situations like this turn out to be fine. There is just no way to tell. She said that everything is where it should be and there is a heartbeat and she's more optimistic than pessimistic, but it is hard not to worry when the baby measured a week behind AND the sac is too small. I have to go back a week from Monday- in ten days- to do another u/s. Another agonizing wait. On top of that after I got home a couple of times I used the bathroom, wiped, and there was a pinkish tinge. They say this is normal after a pap and an internal ultrasound (which was a bit uncomfortable, they pushed, poked, and prodded quite a bit trying to find what they wanted), but it's hard not to worry about everything at this point. Please keep praying, crossing your fingers, etc. Thanks! :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caitilin Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 :grouphug:Hugs and love to you, Nance, and healthy baby prayers.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
In the Rain Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 :grouphug: Definitely praying for you and your little baby. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mommyfaithe Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 Praying:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KayT Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 :grouphug: Lots of hugs and prayers :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fraidycat Posted May 25, 2012 Share Posted May 25, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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jenn&charles Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 :grouphug: Prayers for you and the baby. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luvnlattes Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 :grouphug: :grouphug: . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ibbygirl Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 Hey all, Well, I had my u/s and have very mixed emotions right now. Going by LMP, I should be 7w1d today. When they did the u/s, there was a baby measuring 0.40 cm crown to rump and there was a heartbeat with a rate of 102. The doctor said those measurements and that heart rate are what would be expected if I were a week behind and was 6w1d pregnant. When we talked about how I ovulated late (probably cd18 going by opk's), she said that might explain it, although seems to me it's still a few days behind what it should be. Of greater concern to me is the fact that she said the gestational sac is very small. She said that could be a problem or it could be nothing and will eventually "catch up," she's seen this happen where the baby didn't develop very far and the woman miscarried, and she's seen situations like this turn out to be fine. There is just no way to tell. She said that everything is where it should be and there is a heartbeat and she's more optimistic than pessimistic, but it is hard not to worry when the baby measured a week behind AND the sac is too small. I have to go back a week from Monday- in ten days- to do another u/s. Another agonizing wait. On top of that after I got home a couple of times I used the bathroom, wiped, and there was a pinkish tinge. They say this is normal after a pap and an internal ultrasound (which was a bit uncomfortable, they pushed, poked, and prodded quite a bit trying to find what they wanted), but it's hard not to worry about everything at this point. Please keep praying, crossing your fingers, etc. Thanks! :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Oh sweetie! I"m so sorry you didn't get the news you were expecting to hear, but the good news is that everything is where it is supposed to be and your baby has a heartbeat. That's nothing to sneeze at. I got that pinkish tinge after paps as well and my kids are both here with me. I'm so sorry for the other agonizing wait. What a roller coaster this must be for you, but we're all here for you and waiting with you. I hope the next one gives you more reassurance honey. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Stay strong and positive. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
houseofkids&pets Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 :grouphug: Prayers, postive thoughts, and virtual hugs for you, your baby, and family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Buckin' Longhorn Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 :grouphug: Nance, I just know everything will be OK. I'm sending lots of positive energy and super-sticky-baby dust your way. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeslieAnneLevine Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 :grouphug: I actually don't think things sound terribly worrisome, but it's so hard to not know for sure. Hang in there, I'm sure you'll have better info at your next appt. that will be more reassuring. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BakersDozen Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 The wait is exactly that - agonizing. Thinking of you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newlifemom Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 Praying for you and your precious little one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer in MI Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 Oh honey! I know it's hard. But, try to focus on the positive!!!! YOU HEARD A HEARTBEAT!!!!!! That's amazing!!!!! Some babies are just small. :grouphug: I'm sorry you weren't reassured today. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lmrich Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 :grouphug:This baby is already loved by so many people! Keep positive. All the technology now can sure make us crazy somehow. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mykdsmomy Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 I don't know if this has been mentioned yet or not but.....Nance, you may have ovulated a few days later and on top of that, you may not have implanted until later ... Remember, you don't start making hcg until the little squirt implants. I just want to encourage you to stay positive. I know it's hard...I've been there! Praying for you!!! May God give you peace during this waiting time! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 :grouphug: This is going to be a long pregnancy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommy5 Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 I wanted to share that during one of my pregnancies my baby was measuring 3 weeks smaller ... I thought I might have ovulated 2 weeks later than the norm ... but most definitely not 3 weeks (and even based on when I tested) ... that baby ended up being our smallest baby at birth (by a lot ... both height and weight) ... but still very healthy. I just wanted to share that because it sounded very similar to what you described. I will be praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WiseOwlKnits Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 After my ectopic, the OB told me that a heartbeat drops the miscarriage rate to less than 2%. So you have come so far!! You have a 98% chance of having a healthy, happy baby in 8 more months! Having said that, I know it's impossible to not worry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanceXToo Posted May 26, 2012 Author Share Posted May 26, 2012 I have to be honest. I'm not feeling very hopeful about this. I found some small scale studies/research online with regard to a too-small sac. The studies indicated that if you take the size of the sac, and minus the size of the baby, the number that is left (how much bigger the sac is than the baby) is an indication of the outcome of the pregnancy. Two small studies indicated that anything under 5 mm had between an 80-something and 90-something percent chance of ending in miscarriage, that 5 to 7.9 mm had a 26 1/2 percent chance, and 8 and over only a 10 point something percent chance. I called my doctor to ask them for the measurements of the sac and there is only a THREE mm difference between the baby and the sac in my case. That does not sound at all promising. It would take a miracle for this gestational sac to suddenly start growing at a faster rate than the baby to give it enough room to grow. (According to my dr the sac is supposed to grow 1 mm a day, I don't know how fast the baby is supposed to grow at this stage). Meanwhile, I know the spotting after the u/s was normal, but it has continued into this morning and I don't know if that is so normal. My husband just wants to keep thinking positive because there was a heartbeat, and either I just don't want to have my hopes up too much or I'm a much bigger pessimist than he is, but I just don't feel good about it. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaxMom Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 (edited) Oops! Duplicate. Edited May 26, 2012 by MyCrazyHouse Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaxMom Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 No pessimism! No! (and stop looking at studies, you'll drive yourself mad) More baby dust for you! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanceXToo Posted May 26, 2012 Author Share Posted May 26, 2012 Bleeding now. :( It was just pinkish spotting when I wiped since after the scan yesterday, now it's red bleeding that requires a pad. Doctor says there's really no sense in spending hours at the ER as there is nothing they can do either way. She said just wait it out at home and if I'm miscarrying, which I am pretty sure I am, there probably wouldn't be very heavy bleeding as it was early and very small and should be kinda like a period. She said if it does get really bad to call back, but otherwise I can call the office first thing Tuesday morning and get seen that day for a scan just to get a definitive answer about what happened. But I think I am losing it. :( This sucks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mykdsmomy Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 Oh Nance, I'm so very sorry :( There are just no words of comfort right now :( :grouphug: Keeping you in my prayers today! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FO4UR Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 :crying::grouphug: I am praying that you are very wrong! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happyhomemaker25 Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 (edited) Bleeding now. :( It was just pinkish spotting when I wiped since after the scan yesterday, now it's red bleeding that requires a pad. Doctor says there's really no sense in spending hours at the ER as there is nothing they can do either way. She said just wait it out at home and if I'm miscarrying, which I am pretty sure I am, there probably wouldn't be very heavy bleeding as it was early and very small and should be kinda like a period. She said if it does get really bad to call back, but otherwise I can call the office first thing Tuesday morning and get seen that day for a scan just to get a definitive answer about what happened. But I think I am losing it. :( This sucks. It so very much does. I had a very early miscarriage in Feb after dealing with my ectopic in Sept. I spent a week hiding in my room with a heating pad, pain pills, and my Kindle watching Netflix. I'm so sorry!! I know it hurts in so many ways. ETA: I did hold out hope until I started passing clots. Maybe it will still work out!! I'll keep thinking positive. Edited May 26, 2012 by happyhomemaker25 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catz Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommymilkies Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 I am so very sorry. :grouphug: I would ask for a scan to double check, though. At that same stage I had huge amounts of bleeding & clotting from implantation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kitten18 Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jpoy85 Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luvnlattes Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MicheleinMN Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 Not to give you false hope, but I bled and passed clots with my first pregnancy. I thought I had miscarried, but hadn't. Had a perfectly healthy baby boy 20 years ago. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freeindeed Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 :grouphug: I am praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanceXToo Posted May 26, 2012 Author Share Posted May 26, 2012 Sorry to be gross/for the tmi but now passing kind of large clots so I really think that's that. :( Will go for scan to confirm Tuesday though. So sad to have two pregnancies in a row end so badly, especially when I'm 39 and already feel like I'm running out of time. My husband says he is sad, but glad this time it happened in a way that was early and prob needs no medical intervention that would stop us from trying again right away. And I want to but it's also so exhausting to think of all the trying and waiting and testing and waiting and worrying and waiting all over again... :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leanna Tomlinson Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 :grouphug: Praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mergath Posted May 26, 2012 Share Posted May 26, 2012 Sorry to be gross/for the tmi but now passing kind of large clots so I really think that's that. :( Will go for scan to confirm Tuesday though. So sad to have two pregnancies in a row end so badly, especially when I'm 39 and already feel like I'm running out of time. My husband says he is sad, but glad this time it happened in a way that was early and prob needs no medical intervention that would stop us from trying again right away. And I want to but it's also so exhausting to think of all the trying and waiting and testing and waiting and worrying and waiting all over again... :( :grouphug: So sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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