MariannNOVA Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 (edited) I've learned something from this --- there are so, so many threads I have read over the years asking for prayers and comfort, and each and every time I type the words 'Praying for you. I am so sorry....' I feel those few words are so inadequate and fall so short of what the hurting person needs.........BUT let me tell you, those few simple words, the hug emoticon, just knowing that another person is offering comfort and perhaps praying, is just an enormous blessing. From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU so much for your comforting words and kind thoughts. THANK YOU! :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I just spoke with Stacey on the phone. She and her husband will see the specialist this afternoon - Mario's parents will accompany them (I feel so badly for them - this was their first grandchild {2nd marriage for my dd} ). Stacey will be induced and will deliver today or tomorrow and she and Mario are planning a service. Dh, the kids are I are getting ready to travel to NJ to help with the grand-daughters (7 and 4 -- Allison, 7, is understandably heartbroken) and be there for Stacey and her husband and his family. I conveyed to Stacey the prayers and comforting wishes that have been extended on this board, and the experiences from those of you who have had something similar happen (I actually had the same thing happen before dd11 was born) -- your kind words, experiences and prayers are much appreciated and she asked me to say a huge thank you to everyone.:grouphug: So, as the kids and I try to figure out what is going on here, when we will travel, what activities we will not attend the next few days and what activities we can attend, I still covet your prayers and kind thoughts -- lifting up our family in that way is so very much appreciated and we do feel it here. Blessings and travel mercies to everyone here who is traveling for the holiday, prayers to everyone who is experiencing sadness, and hugs filled with hope to everyone else -- this board has had so much sad news recently.:grouphug: Thank you all.:grouphug: ETA: I must chime in here -- I should go to sleep but I have to say this: I KNOW, I absolutely KNOW that our family is being lifted up in prayer and in kind comforting thoughts by SO many wonderful people. Today was not easy, we had some very sad, weepy moments, but at the end of the day (literally) everyone did have some peace, didn't feel as ripped apart as we did yesterday, and knew that we were being buoyed by something we could only attribute to prayer and kindness. I know that we will have ups and downs and that for Stacey and Mario it will be a different process as they grieve and heal. But for those of us who are their support system, I feel so much better equipped to minister to them. So, thank you for your prayers and your thoughts offering comfort.:grouphug::grouphug: Edited November 19, 2010 by MariannNOVA To thank everyone and let them know how much their kindness means to my family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer in MI Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 Oh Mariann. My heart aches for them. And, for you. I'll pray for everyone involved. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
5wolfcubs Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug::grouphug: from some one who has lost several babies...one even that far along. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurie4b Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 I'm so sorry. May they experience the presence and comfort of God the Father, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit. :crying::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeckyFL Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 I'll be praying for a very fast and easy delivery. I know that it will never be "easy", I mean physically though. This is hard enough to handle on it's own. So sorry, Mariann! :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gratia271 Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 I will pray for each of you for comfort and peace and the ability to manage throughout these upcoming days/weeks. There are never the rights words to speak in these horrible circumstances, but please know that it is truly a privilege to be able to pray for you and others in the hope that some comfort or strength may come from it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SailorMom Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug: I just wanted to add that I think the way you are all supporting her, and respecting this as a real loss is, well, wonderful. That doesn't seem like a good word to use right now - I have just heard far too many heartbreaking stories from friends of mine who have been treated by their families as if they should just "get over it" and "move on". Sending more prayers your way.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickenpatty Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 I'm so sorry. I can't imagine the pain you all must be feeling. :grouphug: Praying for comfort for you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pam L in Mid Tenn Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug:Mariann:grouphug: (((prayers))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carpe Diem Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 I haven't been on the boards lately and didn't see this until now. My prayers go out to lift you all up. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joanne Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 {{{{many tender hugs to all hurting}}}} Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jg_puppy Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug: Continuing to pray for your family. Jan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i.love.lucy Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug:I just wanted to add that I think the way you are all supporting her, and respecting this as a real loss is, well, wonderful. That doesn't seem like a good word to use right now - I have just heard far too many heartbreaking stories from friends of mine who have been treated by their families as if they should just "get over it" and "move on". Sending more prayers your way.... :iagree: Will keep praying for all of you as you work it all out with traveling and in dealing with the loss. My heart is breaking for you all. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FaithManor Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 Praying for you, Stacey, Mario, and the whole clan. Hoping and praying that Stacey's labor goes quickly and without complications. ((((HUGS)))) Faith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tidbits of Learning Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug: Praying for you and your family. I wanted to share a link that helped me during our time of need in similar circumstances. http://heavenlyangelsinneed.com/HomeMenu.php Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MyBlueLobsters Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug::grouphug: Praying for you all!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KatieJ Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug: with Amazing Grace singing from my heart Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melanie in WI Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug: I'm so very sorry. I'll be praying for all of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beach Mom Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug: and prayers for all of you. It is such a heartbreaking loss to experience. Believe me when I say that the love and comfort of a Mom during such a crisis can mean the world. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spy Car Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 What sad news. I'm sorry Mariann :grouphug: Bill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 Praying for traveling :auto: mercies and all the little details that go along with such difficult times. I always wish everything would just stop for 6 weeks so I could get a grip. Love to all of you! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom in High Heels Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 I'm so sorry for them and for you. I'm pregnant right now and can't imagine going through this. Do they know what happened? Hugs to them and to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Margaret in GA Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug: Here are even more hugs :001_smile: I too know the power of the virtual hug. Having many sent my way last week was crucial in getting through my crisis. This board is awesome -Margaret Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kristavws Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newlifemom Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 Praying for you and your family during this time. I am glad you let her know we were praying for her. It makes a difference imo. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudoMom Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheCoffeeChick Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AuntieM Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 Oh Mariann, I apparently missed your other thread.... :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Only God Himself can nurse and heal this kind of pain. I will definitely be praying for the whole family. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparkle Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 Thinking of you :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathleen in VA Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 Continued prayers, Mariann.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom2J112903 Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 I can not imagine what you and your family are going thru. I remeber when we were pregnant with J and there were two other couples expecting within weeks of J's birth. J is the only surviving child from those pregnancies. The one couple lost their child at 22wks, she delivered him and was able to hold him. The pain they went thru is something I wish no one ever had to go thru. They now have *3* very healthy children, I pray your daughter gets thru this very difficult time and can move foward. Many, many :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LisaKinVA Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 I have been where your daughter is... literally. I am very sorry for your daughter's loss, but grateful they will be inducing (vs. D&C), and having a service. It will be a difficult process. Hugs and prayers for your whole family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChristineW Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug: I am praying for healing for your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Knittinfarmgirl Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug: My thoughts are with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Impish Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merry Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 as you go through this trip and you deal with the family and the funeral. You are doing a wonderful thing for your dd. And I pray also for comfort for all of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denisemomof4 Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 Oh Mariann. My heart aches for them. And, for you. I'll pray for everyone involved. :iagree:I'm SO sad for all of you, Mariann. I can't even begin to imagine how your granddaughter is processing all of this. It's so devasting. I pray for God to pour out his blessings on you all, to comfort you, and to bring healing to all. So very, very sorry for your loss.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dancer67 Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug:and prayers. I have been where she is. My baby died at 30 weeks. I am so very sorry.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justamouse Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 I have a family member who lost their baby in the 38th week and had to be induced. I cannot even imagine. You have my thoughts and prayers for your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
May Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug: May your family feel the loving embrace from our Lord Jesus Christ. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tess in the Burbs Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: will be thinking of you all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosie_0801 Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in VA Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 I'm sorry I couldn't post on the earlier thread--internet has been spotty here for 3 days. So sorry for your loss, and so glad you can support your dd thru it all.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danybug Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 Thanks for taking the time to update us! I will continue to uplift your family in my prayers! Just the thought of what Stacy has to face with delivery brought tears to my eyes. I know God will have His arms wrapped around her! Safe travels and may you have peace and strength to support Stacy! :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forget-Me-Not Posted November 19, 2010 Share Posted November 19, 2010 :grouphug: I don't know if your daughter would like pictures or if you guys are already aware of this organization: http://www.nowilaymedowntosleep.org/ They will come in and take pictures of the baby, edit, etc for free, even in the middle of the night. Just thought I'd pass that along. Again, I'm so sorry for your family's loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Mungo Posted November 19, 2010 Share Posted November 19, 2010 :grouphug:I just wanted to add that I think the way you are all supporting her, and respecting this as a real loss is, well, wonderful. That doesn't seem like a good word to use right now - I have just heard far too many heartbreaking stories from friends of mine who have been treated by their families as if they should just "get over it" and "move on". Sending more prayers your way.... I agree. Holding you and your family in my thoughts. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lionfamily1999 Posted November 19, 2010 Share Posted November 19, 2010 I've been praying for you and I will continue to do so. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted November 19, 2010 Share Posted November 19, 2010 Thinking of you all. My heart hurts for her. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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