GoVanGogh Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 (edited) Please don’t quote. Updated 3/27 at end updated 3/31 at end Edited March 31, 2023 by GoVanGogh 20 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katy Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 Make a paste of powdered ginger and water. Put it on your skin in the areas where you are swollen. Pour hot water over a washcloth or two, ring them out very well. Cover the ginger with it and with a dry hand towel. You’ll likely feel a mildly unpleasant stinging/drawing sensation. Leave it on for 20 minutes. You can repeat every few hours, IME the swelling & pain will go down a lot the first two times you do this, and 50% more each time. If it makes no difference after the first two times I probably wouldn’t try a third. The other thing that comes to mind…. Flax seed added to your diet, maybe in green smoothies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MercyA Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 (edited) Please don't quote. I had a swollen lymph node in my groin area for over a year. It would get sore when I wore tight pants or hose and was definitely enlarged. I saw my PCP and my ob/gyn multiple times and no one could find any reason for it. I first noticed it after a particularly long and bad respiratory virus. After that, it would get sore whenever I was sick or even when someone in my household was sick. I took several rounds of heavy-duty antibiotics with no improvement. The ONLY thing that finally worked and totally resolved the problem was jumping on a rebounder / mini-trampoline. I am not kidding. I got relief finally within *days* and any time it flared up, I just started jumping again and it went away until eventually it just stopped coming back. I would just do like 5 or 10 minutes several times a day. I deliberately came down on my feet hard, if that makes sense. It has to do with the valves on lymph glands and how they open and close. It's actually the physical, mechanical motion of your body moving that keeps them flowing properly, so if there is a problem, sometimes jumping can help clear them out. I have no idea if this will work for your swollen gland, because I don't know if it's caused by the same type of (unidentified) problem mine was. But if you google rebounding and the lymphatic system, you'll find more information. I just wanted to mention it on the off-chance it might help you, too. Edited March 19, 2023 by MercyA 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pawz4me Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 Are you sure it's a lymph node? Could it be a salivary gland or parotid gland? Since you've got AI stuff going on I'm wondering about Sjogren's disease? It can also cause swollen glands. As you probably know, with AI diseases it can take a long time to get a correct diagnosis, and blood work doesn't always tell the tale. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 Not quoting, and not to be alarmist, but have they checked you for any type of cancers, particularly hodgkin's lymphoma. My hodgkin's was discovered in a biopsy of a swollen lymph node in my neck. I still get some inflammed lymph nodes throughout my body and usually massage will alleviate them - blood levels are checked on a regular basis too. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
math teacher Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 No answers here, but I hope you find a cause and relief soon!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoVanGogh Posted March 19, 2023 Author Share Posted March 19, 2023 1 hour ago, Pawz4me said: Are you sure it's a lymph node? Could it be a salivary gland or parotid gland? Since you've got AI stuff going on I'm wondering about Sjogren's disease? It can also cause swollen glands. As you probably know, with AI diseases it can take a long time to get a correct diagnosis, and blood work doesn't always tell the tale. I just had Sjogren’s test in Nov and it was negative. My rheumatologist said this doesn’t look like Sjogren’s or AI, so didn’t order new labs. I do love her, but the last time this happened my ENT said we needed “to strike when the fish are biting,” ie: test for everything when I am having a huge flare-up. That ENT has since moved out of state and I have a new one, but he was out on vacation when this came up last week. The whole area is swollen, so the rheumatologist said it is hard to say exactly where it originates. I was thinking lymph nodes because that was decision the last time this happened, but I guess it could be a gland. She ordered a ct scan and told me to get it done even if swelling goes down between now and appt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pawz4me Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 Just now, GoVanGogh said: I just had Sjogren’s test in Nov and it was negative. My rheumatologist said this doesn’t look like Sjogren’s or AI, so didn’t order new labs. I do love her, but the last time this happened my ENT said we needed “to strike when the fish are biting,” ie: test for everything when I am having a huge flare-up. That ENT has since moved out of state and I have a new one, but he was out on vacation when this came up last week. The whole area is swollen, so the rheumatologist said it is hard to say exactly where it originates. I was thinking lymph nodes because that was decision the last time this happened, but I guess it could be a gland. She ordered a ct scan and told me to get it done even if swelling goes down between now and appt. From what I understand the truly definitive test for Sjogren's is a lip biopsy. Just like with RA and other AI diseases, a lot of Sjogren's patients are sero-negative so labs alone can't rule it out. According to this a salivary or parotid gland biopsy can also confirm or rule it out. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amethyst Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 Are you sure it’s not parotid gland? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Happy Camper Posted March 19, 2023 Share Posted March 19, 2023 I have no idea, but that sounds truly miserable and I really hope you get answers soon! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoVanGogh Posted March 20, 2023 Author Share Posted March 20, 2023 (edited) I saw my ENT today. It is a parotid gland. As it is hard and not moveable, he is concerned it could be a tumor. My rheumatologist had already set up a ct scan for tomorrow, so the ENT said to keep that appointment and have the scans sent to his office to review. The pain has gone down considerably but the swelling has not improved at all. I can’t move my neck, eating is painful because it pulls on the area. I haven’t gone out of the house, except to the doctor’s office because - You know it’s bad when you unwrap the scarf and the doctor says OMG! ENT said to keep massaging the area, warm compresses, drink a lot of fluids, etc, on the chance it is a stone. (He said a stone would cause a soft area to form, not hard like this.) Thanks for the suggestions and esp information re: Sjogren’s. ENT and I talked again today about possibility of that. Edited March 20, 2023 by GoVanGogh 16 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kassia Posted March 20, 2023 Share Posted March 20, 2023 Sending hugs @GoVanGogh and best wishes that it's not a tumor. Glad you are getting the scan done right away at least. I'm so sorry about the pain and worry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktgrok Posted March 20, 2023 Share Posted March 20, 2023 A friend had a kid with a blocked parotid gland and sucking on sour candy many times a day was advised, and helped unblock it? I guess from the increased saliva production? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoVanGogh Posted March 20, 2023 Author Share Posted March 20, 2023 I am sucking on sour candies, in case it is a stone. Extreme warheads really are extreme sour! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kanin Posted March 20, 2023 Share Posted March 20, 2023 Oh man! That sounds miserable. Was it a parotid gland the other times, too, maybe? If so, seems strange that it would be at tumor, since it's come and gone a couple times before. Dr. Google says parotid tumors are usually benign, in case it's actually that. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El... Posted March 20, 2023 Share Posted March 20, 2023 Are you getting some iodine in your diet? I know almost nothing, but since you're miserable and we're spit-balling, could it be a swollen thyroid? That sounds awful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaybee Posted March 21, 2023 Share Posted March 21, 2023 I had a benign tumor removed from the end of a salivary gland years ago, but it had grown slowly over the years and was not painful. I kept asking doctors about it for about 5 years, before I finally had one say, "Yes, we need to get that removed." But yours sounds different, in that it has grown fast and has also disappeared and reappeared. I hope you can get it taken care of quickly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amethyst Posted March 21, 2023 Share Posted March 21, 2023 3 hours ago, El... said: Are you getting some iodine in your diet? I know almost nothing, but since you're miserable and we're spit-balling, could it be a swollen thyroid? That sounds awful. No. Thyroid is in midline, parotid is in front of ear. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoVanGogh Posted March 24, 2023 Author Share Posted March 24, 2023 Small update: I had an MRI today to determine source of the mass. DH took the disc to ENT, to hopefully expedite results. It isn’t any better, possibly getting worse as it is now pulling under my chin area. Thanks for suggestions and kind words@, 12 9 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fraidycat Posted March 24, 2023 Share Posted March 24, 2023 I hope they are able to determine cause and a treatment for you soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted March 24, 2023 Share Posted March 24, 2023 I’m sorry this isn’t improving. Hopefully they will figure it out soon and get you feeling better! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dianthus Posted March 24, 2023 Share Posted March 24, 2023 I'm not reading all the replies, but have you used a warm compress? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted March 24, 2023 Share Posted March 24, 2023 sending positive thoughts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 24, 2023 Share Posted March 24, 2023 Hoping for a quick diagnosis and resolution. I am sorry. That sounds so painful and scary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MercyA Posted March 24, 2023 Share Posted March 24, 2023 I am so sorry. I'm hoping you can get this resolved quickly. Hugs to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted March 24, 2023 Share Posted March 24, 2023 I'm so sorry. That's sounds terrible. I hope the doctors help you asap. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoVanGogh Posted March 24, 2023 Author Share Posted March 24, 2023 9 hours ago, Dianthus said: I'm not reading all the replies, but have you used a warm compress? Yes. Multiple times a day, plus standing in hot shower with water hitting the area and soaking in the tub with that side of face in the water. Nothing has helped. 😞 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted March 24, 2023 Share Posted March 24, 2023 Any word from a doctor? The way it’s spreading is concerning. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kareni Posted March 24, 2023 Share Posted March 24, 2023 Sending positive thoughts, @GoVanGogh. Regards, Kareni Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amethyst Posted March 24, 2023 Share Posted March 24, 2023 I hope you start to feel better soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoVanGogh Posted March 24, 2023 Author Share Posted March 24, 2023 5 hours ago, Harriet Vane said: Any word from a doctor? The way it’s spreading is concerning. No. 🙁 Now I have to go through the weekend without knowing and still swollen and sore. 9 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted March 25, 2023 Share Posted March 25, 2023 1 hour ago, GoVanGogh said: No. 🙁 Now I have to go through the weekend without knowing and still swollen and sore. I’m so sorry. How insensitive of them. I went through similar when my family learned we had been exposed to asbestos in our home. We had the X-rays done and received reports for my dh and dd and I but didn’t get results on my son, who was just a small child at the time. It turned out they simply wanted a pediatric specialist to look at the scans, but it took more than a week for them to get organized to make it happen. The whole time the office staff kept giving me vague messages that only served to inflame our worries. Finally I gently forced the issue with one of the staff, just confiding in her how worried we were about our little boy. As a parent she understood. She got the wheels moving properly to get the scans in front of the correct person and give us results. I wonder if it might take a similar approach to get them to deal with this for you. The medical complex sometimes forgets the legitimate real concerns and feelings and fears of the patient while the wheels of bureaucracy turn. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoVanGogh Posted March 27, 2023 Author Share Posted March 27, 2023 On 3/24/2023 at 7:38 PM, Harriet Vane said: I’m so sorry. How insensitive of them. I went through similar when my family learned we had been exposed to asbestos in our home. We had the X-rays done and received reports for my dh and dd and I but didn’t get results on my son, who was just a small child at the time. It turned out they simply wanted a pediatric specialist to look at the scans, but it took more than a week for them to get organized to make it happen. The whole time the office staff kept giving me vague messages that only served to inflame our worries. Finally I gently forced the issue with one of the staff, just confiding in her how worried we were about our little boy. As a parent she understood. She got the wheels moving properly to get the scans in front of the correct person and give us results. I wonder if it might take a similar approach to get them to deal with this for you. The medical complex sometimes forgets the legitimate real concerns and feelings and fears of the patient while the wheels of bureaucracy turn. Oh, no. I am so sorry for your experience. That is horrible. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoVanGogh Posted March 27, 2023 Author Share Posted March 27, 2023 I was called in for a biopsy today. Waiting on results, but it sounds like I will be having surgery in the next week. They wanted biopsy first so they know what they are dealing with prior to going in and to know how long to schedule for. Thanks again! 17 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prairiewindmomma Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 1 minute ago, GoVanGogh said: I was called in for a biopsy today. Waiting on results, but it sounds like I will be having surgery in the next week. They wanted biopsy first so they know what they are dealing with prior to going in and to know how long to schedule for. Thanks again! I'm so glad they are moving quickly now. Best wishes! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoVanGogh Posted March 27, 2023 Author Share Posted March 27, 2023 Just now, prairiewindmomma said: I'm so glad they are moving quickly now. Best wishes! Thank you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 Thinking of you 🤗 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kareni Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 Sending good wishes your way, @GoVanGogh. Regards, Kareni Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted March 27, 2023 Share Posted March 27, 2023 I'm so glad they are getting this taken care of. I'm sorry you had to go through so much pain waiting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kassia Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 I'm glad this will be taken care of too and sorry about the long wait. Thanks for the update. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MercyA Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 So thankful this will be resolved soon. Thank you for the update. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amethyst Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 Best wishes. I hope you have resolution soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
***** Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 Thoughts and prayers, this sounds so difficult. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BusyMom5 Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 I am glad that they are moving so quickly with this. Prayers for it to be nothing serious. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 I’m glad they are responding to the need now. Keep us posted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoVanGogh Posted March 30, 2023 Author Share Posted March 30, 2023 I feel like I am back to square one. On the plus, the biopsy was negative for cancer. Obviously major relief there. It did show a lot of infection, so Dr wants me to try yet another antibiotic, which I started tonight. (3rd antibiotic in 2 weeks. My poor tummy.) Drs still don’t want to specifically test for autoimmune, which I just don’t understand. I am frustrated and upset. I feel like I have been fighting so hard for my health and just can’t catch a break. 19 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
popmom Posted March 30, 2023 Share Posted March 30, 2023 Oh. Wow. I have been following and can so identify with your frustration. It shouldn't be this hard! I am so relieved for you that it's not cancer, and I'm praying you can find someone who is able to give you some answers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prairiewindmomma Posted March 30, 2023 Share Posted March 30, 2023 Did they culture the biopsy to identify if you are dealing with staph or strep? Hopefully they can target it more effectively. I am relieved it’s not cancer, sorry you are still dealing with this. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melissa in Australia Posted March 30, 2023 Share Posted March 30, 2023 hugs 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kanin Posted March 30, 2023 Share Posted March 30, 2023 10 hours ago, GoVanGogh said: I feel like I am back to square one. On the plus, the biopsy was negative for cancer. Obviously major relief there. It did show a lot of infection, so Dr wants me to try yet another antibiotic, which I started tonight. (3rd antibiotic in 2 weeks. My poor tummy.) Drs still don’t want to specifically test for autoimmune, which I just don’t understand. I am frustrated and upset. I feel like I have been fighting so hard for my health and just can’t catch a break. That's great it's not cancer. Phew!! Major relief. Still, you're feeling horrible. Why oh why won't they test for autoimmune? That seems crazy. I hope the new antibiotic helps soon... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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