TXMomof4 Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 We just left DH at the airport to begin this year long deployment. It just flat out sucks. The baby threw himself on the ground screaming - "NO! DADDY!" on the way out of the airport. An older business woman stopped and said, "Now, it can't be that bad!". I explained that it could be that bad, his daddy had just left for a year. I don't think she knew what to say. I hate this! I hate being a grown up and responsible for cheering up these kids because I just want to sit down and cry. Alright, carry on. Just had to gripe for a minute. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quiver0f10 Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 I am so sorry :grouphug: You will be in our prayers and thank you and your family for your sacrifice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swellmomma Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 :grouphug: I am sorry he had to go, shame ont hat lady for saying anything to your little guy. Later today find a reason to lock yourself in the bathroom run the water and have a good cry. I'll keep your family in my prayers, as you dh does his duty and mostly while you keep it all together on the homefront while he is gone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BMW Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 I'm so sorry! :grouphug: I know the ache in my heart when dh leaves and it is never for that type of separation or length of time. Sending hugs your way and hoping that you can get through these first days with some moments to cry or process that pain and not have the little ones upset, too! That's extra hard! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom2legomaniacs Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I am so sorry. We are here when you need us to try and help lift you, okay! I know that isn't nearly enough, but maybe it will help a bit knowing we'll do what we can.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pam "SFSOM" in TN Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 We just left DH at the airport to begin this year long deployment. It just flat out sucks. The baby threw himself on the ground screaming - "NO! DADDY!" on the way out of the airport. An older business woman stopped and said, "Now, it can't be that bad!". I explained that it could be that bad, his daddy had just left for a year. I don't think she knew what to say. I hate this! I hate being a grown up and responsible for cheering up these kids because I just want to sit down and cry. Alright, carry on. Just had to gripe for a minute. I'm sorry. It's so, so hard. Thank you for your sacrifice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mommaduck Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 Prayers for you and yours, hon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Fairy Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 :grouphug: Please feel free to gripe here at any time. :grouphug: If you don't have a reason, no one does. Hugs and prayers for you and your family. It must be so sad for you and your kids to say goodbye for a whole year. :crying: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura in VA Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 No words. Just :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mekanamom Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tracy in Ky Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Let us know how you are doing often. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenn in Mo Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 I'm so sorry! I just ache for families going through this. I whine and complain that we only see dh for 1 (sometimes 2 hours) a day, and then I remember that I *get* to see dh for 1-2 hours a day. I truly hurt for you and am praying for your family!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamapjama Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 I don't know how wives and families do it, I really don't. Being strong all the time for your little ones is so difficult. I hope you have a great support system in real life too. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plain jane Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 We just left DH at the airport to begin this year long deployment. It just flat out sucks. The baby threw himself on the ground screaming - "NO! DADDY!" on the way out of the airport. An older business woman stopped and said, "Now, it can't be that bad!". I explained that it could be that bad, his daddy had just left for a year. I don't think she knew what to say. I hate this! I hate being a grown up and responsible for cheering up these kids because I just want to sit down and cry. Alright, carry on. Just had to gripe for a minute. I'm sorry! :grouphug: My heart aches for you and your little ones. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kari C in SC Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 I am so sorry you have to go through this. I wish there was something I could say to help, but I don't think there is any words. Just know that you can vent here anytime and I will be sending prayers up for you. My ds just want off to Basic Training and I am missing him. I can't imagine if my dh were leaving for a year. Thank you for your family's sacrifices. Hugs and prayers to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennifer in MI Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 :grouphug: I sure wish there were something I could do. Thank you for your sacrifice. How often do you get to talk with him? I can't even begin to imagine . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mazakaal Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 I hate being a grown up and responsible for cheering up these kids because I just want to sit down and cry. I know just how you feel, but for different reasons. Sometimes it sucks having to be a grown up. I'm so sorry for what you're going through and will keep you and your family in my prayers. Thank you for the sacrifice you all make. Meg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:Big hug and thanks to your family.:grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muffinmom Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 I am so, so sorry. I hope the time will pass quickly. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brigitte Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 Oh, how sad. I hope you have a good support system nearby. Hugs to you and your little ones. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NevadaRabbit Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 We just left DH at the airport to begin this year long deployment. It just flat out sucks. The baby threw himself on the ground screaming - "NO! DADDY!" on the way out of the airport. An older business woman stopped and said, "Now, it can't be that bad!". I explained that it could be that bad, his daddy had just left for a year. I don't think she knew what to say. I hate this! I hate being a grown up and responsible for cheering up these kids because I just want to sit down and cry. :grouphug::grouphug: and our very sincere gratitude to your husband and your family for what you are giving up to serve us. I'll be praying for him and for your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sleepy Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 I'm so sorry. I can't even begin to imagine having dh/daddy gone for a whole year. :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kim in TN Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 I'm so sorry. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kim in Appalachia Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 I would have a good cry with your kids. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinag Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 prayers and hugs! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudoMom Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 I'm so sorry :grouphug:, and thank you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marie in Oh Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 I am sorry. Thank you for the sacrifice. I am a military wife too. Hugs to you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:Big hug and thanks to your family.:grouphug::grouphug: :grouphug::grouphug: You are in our prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teamturner Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 My heart hurts for you and your dc. I can't imagine the pain of it especially for the little ones. Thank you and your dh for your sacrifice! Your family will be in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathleen in VA Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 Thank you so very much for your sacrifice. I'm in tears reading your post. Please know that you, your dh, and your dc are being held up in prayer during this very difficult time. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs Mungo Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 It is so, so hard. If you want to talk there are lots of women here who have been through it. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris in CA Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 :grouphug: Sorry, I can't imagine how painful this must be for you - your dh and family are in our prayers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frogpond1 Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kristavws Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 :grouphug: I will keep your family in my prayers. Krista Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Desert Rat Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 I'm so sorry. It does just suck. Allow yourself some grieving though. I know you have to be strong but it's important that you allow yourself to feel. If it helps, I cry in the shower so the kids don't see me. Of course, you can't take showers all dang day, but still. I'll be thinking of you. I've watched my friend go through deployments for the last 2 years. He was gone for all but 5 months of the last 24. I can't imagine what you're going through but I do understand how hard it is to hold it together. Hang in there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
susie in tx Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 We just left DH at the airport to begin this year long deployment. It just flat out sucks. :grouphug: and then some more :grouphug: It is so hard. I suggest wine. It always seemed to help me at the end of the day during a deployment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angela in GA Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 I'm so sorry. I can totally feel your pain, as we just finished up a 15 month deployment. I've done 12 months too. I know it's tough, but try to focus on the positive...like the fact that your dh is doing 12 rather than 15 months? I know it isn't much, but I took comfort in the little things while dh was gone. I do think the beginning is the worst though. Once you all get used to your new "normal" routine, it gets better. Not easier, but better. Hugs to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HomeOnTheRanch Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 :grouphug: I'm sorry. Just last night I was lamenting the fact the DH's 1-week trip out of the country got moved up a day, so now we'll be "gone" the day he leaves, so our good-byes will have to be moved up 2 extra days. Gripe, gripe, gripe. Perspective. Thank you for the sacrifices you make for us. It is appreciated. You will be in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gandpsmommy Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 Oh, my heart goes out to you, and to your kiddos. I know it has to be really hard to have to be the strong one. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NancyNellen Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 Thank you, TXMom, for your sacrifice on our behalf. Much love to you & I hope the years goes well and quickly for you and your sweet children. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimberly in IN Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 Thank you for your sacrifice! :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysticamethyst Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 I am thankful for yours and your husbands sacrifice but I am sorry that you have to go through it. :grouphug::grouphug: I am not sure where in Texas you are at, but my dh is pretty good at fixing things when they go wrong, we are in Houston and would be happy to help if the need arises. I know you feel alone, but with all of us, you know that you are not. And, shame on that woman for even saying anything! It truly amazes me at the rudness some people present themselves with. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kidsnbooks8 Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.:grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
E_Edgerton Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 :grouphug: I feel like I can speak for everyone...we are all here for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MerryAtHope Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 (((Hugs))) I'm so sorry. Go ahead & cry with them. It's ok. My dh is disabled. Sometimes we just need to do that. Merry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adrianne Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 We just left DH at the airport to begin this year long deployment. It just flat out sucks. The baby threw himself on the ground screaming - "NO! DADDY!" on the way out of the airport. An older business woman stopped and said, "Now, it can't be that bad!". I explained that it could be that bad, his daddy had just left for a year. I don't think she knew what to say. I hate this! I hate being a grown up and responsible for cheering up these kids because I just want to sit down and cry. Alright, carry on. Just had to gripe for a minute. many :grouphug: I say you should all have a good cry together, pray, and then eat some ice cream sundaes (with 3 scoops!) while laughing about funny things he does. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassenach Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 ((((HUGS))))) and THANK YOU! I'm so grateful for your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TXMomof4 Posted August 25, 2008 Author Share Posted August 25, 2008 You are all so kind! We're feeling better and will "keep on keepin on". There are so many exciting things we'll be doing this year, so I know it will go quickly. It is just so hard to have no words of comfort for your babies. Oldest dd was saying how she hates the army, and I do too some days. But it is our reality right now and we'll get through. People ask at church all the time how I do it and I say, "What's the alternative???" We all have to do things we don't want to do and don't like at some point in our lives! Thank you for your prayers and good wishes. It truly does help. (BTW, your good wishes pushed me to 3 squares! WOO HOO! There's a silver lining to every cloud!!!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JenParrish Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 Thank you all for your sacrifice to protect our country. It is truly appreciated. I know it must be really hard for both you and your kids. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ahousefullofjs Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 :grouphug:hugs and prayers for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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