cindergretta Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 We went for an ultrasound on Monday, at 12 weeks. We knew something wasn't right and then the doctor said there was "no cardiac activity." We were stunned. It didn't make us feel any better when he said how rare it is to lose a baby after "cardiac activity" is detected. We saw the heart beat at an 8 week u/s. (I am a high risk OB candidate and have frequent u/s, in case any are wondering why we would have had so many so early.) We chose to to miscarry at home, not at the hospital, no D&C. I passed the baby last night and we buried our wee angel this morning, beneath a very protective tree in our back yard. Our oldest was born at 6:36 am on June 21st, 1994. He is 18 today. We chose to bury our lost one at 6:36 am this morning. Now to proceed with this new reality, this incredible heartbreak. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
k2bdeutmeyer Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I'm so, so, so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marylou Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigMamaBird Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I'm so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I am so sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrothead Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 Oh, Sweetie, I am so very sorry. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caitilin Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug:So sorry, mama.:grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TranquilMind Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 We went for an ultrasound on Monday, at 12 weeks. We knew something wasn't right and then the doctor said there was "no cardiac activity." We were stunned. It didn't make us feel any better when he said how rare it is to lose a baby after "cardiac activity" is detected. We saw the heart beat at an 8 week u/s. (I am a high risk OB candidate and have frequent u/s, in case any are wondering why we would have had so many so early.) We chose to to miscarry at home, not at the hospital, no D&C. I passed the baby last night and we buried our wee angel this morning, beneath a very protective tree in our back yard. Our oldest was born at 6:36 am on June 21st, 1994. He is 18 today. We chose to bury our lost one at 6:36 am this morning. Now to proceed with this new reality, this incredible heartbreak. I'm so very sorry. This is so sad. May your little "angel" be waiting for you and see you first when you step over to the other side someday. I have sibs waiting for me that I never knew... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cassy Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: I am so sorry, I understand how devastating this must be for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Veritaserum Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamakim Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 Oh no, oh no. I am so sorry :grouphug:. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forget-Me-Not Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 Oh I'm so very sorry for your loss. How heartbreaking :*( :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rutamattatt Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I am so deeply, deeply sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meggie Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:I'm so sorry for your loss:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cshell Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I am so very, very sorry.:grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mama2cntrykids Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I am sorry for your heartbreak. Big hugs. I pray that you will have peace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thescrappyhomeschooler Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: So sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MariannNOVA Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I am so very sorry. My heart truly aches for you. :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
craftyerin Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :sad::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prairiewindmomma Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mabeline Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: I am so sorry. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlebug42 Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I am so, so sorry. I lost my first child in the same manner except I was at 10 weeks. I had previously had two ultrasounds that detected heart motion and finally at 10 weeks, nothing. My heart breaks for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swellmomma Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dhudson Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug:So very sorry for your loss! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heatherwith4 Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenCat Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nova147 Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: my heart breaks for you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hilltop Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: I am so sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennay Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I'm so sorry. I've gone through quite a few m/c and it is so hard. Remember to be extra gentle with yourself and your family. You are going through a lot emotionally, physically, hormonally, and spiritually. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Word Nerd Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slipper Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I'm sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nono Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest submarines Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 So, so sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ellesmere Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: So sorry to hear this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justamouse Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: My heart breaks for you, and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funschooler5 Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KS_ Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I'm so sorry :grouphug::grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justLisa Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mom4him Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug:I am so sorry for your lose. My prayers are with you during this time. Take time to grieve and heal. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I am so sorry for your loss. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bassoonaroo Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug::grouphug: So sorry to hear this. Your baby was/is a much loved child. My oldest turns 18 on Sunday. Anyway, big hug to you. I know that this is difficult. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lakeside Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: I'm so very sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slartibartfast Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jrn Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danestress Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 What a very sad thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BatmansWife Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :crying: I am so very sorry! :grouphug: :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkInTheBlue Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 :grouphug: I am very, very sorry! :( I had nearly the same thing happen at 19 weeks the year before my oldest was born. I know nothing can truly make you feel better but I really am so sorry. So many emotional hugs to you. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I'm sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DianeW88 Posted June 21, 2012 Share Posted June 21, 2012 I'm so sorry. My last miscarriage was twins at 12 weeks after I'd seen heartbeats at eight weeks, so please don't feel like you're alone in that. It really isn't that rare. :grouphug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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