Merry Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 I have a 12 year old ds who has been wanting to be like his neighborhood friends and play violent video games such as Assassin's Creed and Call of Duty. He keeps telling us that we can turn off the excessive blood but it seems to me that killing is still killing. Am I too squeamish? I understand that Assassin's Creed is actually educational. And Halo's 4 justifies killing by using aliens instead of humans. But boys have always played with guns and also they go hunting so what's the big deal, so I hear. Are there other video games that involve fun and challenge but not geeky or nerdy? My son wants to fit in and I do understand that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starr Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 We're geeky and nerdy here. lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrothead Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 I vote too squeamish. But I play shoot-'em-ups occasionally so what do I know. As long as gun safety is a priority, I wouldn't be too overly concerned about video games. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudoMom Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 My older two were interested, so I told them to talk to dh (my first reaction tends to be no on these things). He researched them and decided (for various reasons and not all pertaining to the violence) that we wouldn't get into them right now. Would you be able to leave it up to their Dad? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orthodox6 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 I don't think that OP is "too squeamish". I also laugh at the twisted uses of the word "educational" attempted by marketers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mom-ninja. Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 It's a no in my house. Fitting in with peers is not the number 1 priority. Raising my kids as I deem appropriate regardless what other parents allow or don't allow is what I focus on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dana Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 I'd say Portal is pretty safe. Good problem solving too. Some potentially dark story lines in 1, but it's not gory at all. Â We do let our son play games like CoD with my father online in multiplayer. They have it set up so ds doesn't get the talk of anyone but his grandfather. Even with gore turned off, the game is VERY violent. It's still cartooney enough that I am okay with it, although dh and I do discuss it on occasion. Our son does distinguish reality from fantasy well, and I've not heard him obsess about any of the FPS games he's played. (First person shooters) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matryoshka Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 I'm probably not qualified to answer this, as I have all girls. Until just now, I thought this wouldn't be a problem at all - two do like video games, but things like Sims and FancyPants, and they just got CivRome. Third has never been a big video game fan, though she has played with Portal and Portal 2, but again, nothing I'd have a problem with. Â But now all of a sudden she wants to play some game with an M rating. :huh: At least she's older... she'll be 15 in a month. She printed out detailed reviews of the game (BioShock) that said while there was lots of violence and swearing :glare: , there were all these complex themes - it's some Ayn Randian dystopia, apparently. But I get the feeling it's somewhat anti-Rand as it is a dystopia and apparently if you help others they will help you back and you end up doing much better in the game - if you're a user it gives you instant points but you end up with a worse outcome at the end. At least so say the reviews she showed me. I am still mulling over what the heck to say to this... :confused1: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dana Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 I don't think that OP is "too squeamish". I also laugh at the twisted uses of the word "educational" attempted by marketers. Â It really can depend on the game. The puzzle solving in Portal is cool. The Professor Layton games for the DS are absolutely math puzzles of the sort you'd find in a book. From Endless Ocean, my son got to recognize a number of fish. From MineCraft he's memorized powers of 2 ;). (Yes, that one's a major stretch) Â I don't see any benefit to CoD other than the time he spends with his grandfather though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparrow Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 Dh is a gamer, so I let him get the final say on video games. Ds has played all of the ones mentioned, but other than Halo, they aren't his favorites...until he gets with other boys! I have a socially awkward, quirky son that is AMAZING at video games. It has helped him fit in and make friends. That was important to us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkyandtheBrains. Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 We are a gamer family. However, we decided to wait on FPS games on the whole. My sons are 10 and 13. We had let them try them out, and decided they weren't ready to play them. Child specific, I don't care if someone else decides their child is ready. Â Both my boys do play World of Tanks, so I second that recommendation. They both know quite a bit of trivia about WW2 tanks now as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trish Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 They'll have plenty of opportunity to play violent video games when they're in college. I vote no! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dana Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 They'll have plenty of opportunity to play violent video games when they're in college. I vote no! Â One danger there is finally having freedom and then gorging. Â I remember during finals, playing a video game regularly, hearing my alarm in the morning and continuing to hit snooze, thinking I could restore to an earlier save game. :) Â I'll do everything to be sure m y son can self regulate his gaming and prioritize his time before college. Â If its only the violent games that are restricted, that's very different than restricting all gaming. I read some gaming forums and do hear about people who did flunk out of college due to gaming habits. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tita Gidge Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 I have one this age, and some that are older. Â Our rule is that we don't play or buy it at my home. Â I don't mind him playing it at a friend's, though. Â None of my kids were/are heavy gamers, though; even at 12 they were/are still spending time outdoors or on other interests, even at friends' homes. And if they're all balancing (any) game with other interests, then exposure (to any game) doesn't bother me. Or at least it hasn't, thus far LOL. For me it's an issue less about exposure and more about the ability to moderate oneself. I feel this about any game, even non-violent ones. If exposure is limited, then specific content doesn't bother me much. Â If this was a friend who spent most of his time playing these types of games, I'm not sure my approach would work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heather in Neverland Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 I will be the odd man out here. I am ok with some FPS games (Halo, Call of Duty, etc). I have no real fear that my ds will grow up to be a violent killer. Â However, I don't allow games with sexually explicit material because problems in life related to that kind of material are real and common. Â If the language is bad in a game then he has to play it with the volume off. I don't want him talking like that. Â Â Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catz Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 My 12 1/2 year old has gotten a couple hand selected FPS games over the last year. We started with Portal and even I LOVED that game series. I think that one is rated 10+. Â Anyway, I think this is super dependent on a kid's personality and maturity level. My son has friends I would not let at these games yet at their current ages. We're a techie family. Both my DH and I have backgrounds as software engineers so it would feel pretty disingenuous to be too strict one this stuff. But given my kid's personality, we've been more permissive than I would have thought we could be. In terms of movies too. I also think it's absolutely fine to disallow it if it doesn't work for your family. I think it's probably easier to do so if you don't have techie parents. :001_smile: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jhschool Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 I wouldn't let a 12-18 year old play video games with any blood. I would, however, let a 12-18 year old play ones with the airplanes blowing up, so I guess it's not the violence but the blood. Gaming is supposed to be fun and get adrenaline flowing and reflexes sharpened. I fail to see how blood spurting increases the coolness. I like the action and the skill aspect of it. Â That said, there have not been any video games at our house for 4 years. Before, there was Angry Birds and Plants Vs. Zombies for about 1 year. Before that there was nothing. Â So, I don't think they are necessary at all but I think they could be very cool and fun. And violent ones would be fine if the violence didn't involve blood or anything gruesome or sick. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dana Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 Yikes! I'd have trouble giving any money to RockStar! I'll let my son do the shooting in CoD, but GTA is right off the table! Dh and I used to argue about him playing Duke Nukem 3D. I suppose I'm more concerned with the representation of women in some games than the violence in them, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LibraryLover Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 Would he be interested in sports games? We have quite a lot of those. The Tony Hawk skateboard ones are geographically educational. ;) Â Â Â I'm no longer sure where I stand on video games. ;) I've played Xbox Lego games (currently Harry Potter) with my nephew...it's rather fun, although once you unlock and use a dark arts character it gets old. ;) Â ETA: Years ago I was absolutely horrified by Grand Theft Auto. I cant get pass that content. My children know that crosses a line for me, and they do respect it. I appreciate that my feelings matter to them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 I think there are different levels of violence -- the Rated T games tend not to be as bad as the Rated M games, and they also don't usually have as much s*xuality -- but you can't always count on that, so you have to be an informed parent. Â My ds13 doesn't play Rated M games because he pretty much self-restricts himself to T and under. I've told him that if he wants an M game, he has to clear it with me first, but he doesn't like excessive blood and gore, so it hasn't been an issue yet. He also doesn't buy T games until I say it's OK (but I rarely say no, because he's pretty good about assessing what will and what won't pass the Mom Test.) Â As Heather mentioned, I'm more concerned about the s*xual stuff -- as kids get older, you really have to research the games before you buy them, or you may be in for some nasty surprises! :eek: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magnificent_baby Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 My kids want to fit in and be like their friends too. It doesn't mean that we will allow them to do what their friends do. Â I will never allow my kids to play killing games. I read a book years ago that made the connections between violence and school shootings, backed up with research that video games can negatively change the brain. Â Other than a Kindle or ipod, we do not own gaming systems, and it will stay that way for as long as possible. I'd rather my kids were outside playing anyway. I'm sure we'll get something someday, but violent games will never be allowed in our home. Â I'm not debating this at all, and I will likely never change my stance on this issue. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hockey Mom Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 We don't allow first-person shooting games. While science is still sketchy on the long-term effects of playing such games, we do know that for the short-term, they increase violent tendencies for some children. DS10 has no problem walking away from video games. DS9 throws a massive temper tantrum when it's time to turn the games off, and he gets really ugly when he's losing and isn't allowed to reset the game. So for one child, these types of games would probably have little to no effect. For the younger, I could see them affecting his personality. Â We tend to go by the ratings on the games. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddykate Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 My kids want to fit in and be like their friends too. It doesn't mean that we will allow them to do what their friends do. Â I will never allow my kids to play killing games. I read a book years ago that made the connections between violence and school shootings, backed up with research that video games can negatively change the brain. Â Other than a Kindle or ipod, we do not own gaming systems, and it will stay that way for as long as possible. I'd rather my kids were outside playing anyway. I'm sure we'll get something someday, but violent games will never be allowed in our home. Â I'm not debating this at all, and I will likely never change my stance on this issue. Â Â Â Â Â I feel the exact same way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LibraryLover Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 I feel the exact same way. Â Â I used to feel that was as well. Now that i see how my children play, and I see how decent they are, despite some vid games :), I am just not sure. lol My kids are really nice people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jhschool Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 I think a nice grownup could play all sorts of terrible games and still stay nice. I have evidence of many nice college age and up people who played horrible games and went on to be peaceful great people. Â I think a young kid might be affected, though, and it might depend on his age. Â I'm not sure though because we don't have any games at our house and when we did for 1 year they were non-violent. Â And I don't know what age would be affected. That would be interesting to find out. Â Anyone have articles to link? I think a PP had some research? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MomatHWTK Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 We allow Portal and Portal 2, and (blush) Plants vs Zombies- for those who don't know this one is animated and not FPS. We considered allowing one of the shooters for a time, DH and I played multi-player and allowed kids to dabble. But we've since decided just to avoid that genre for the kids as a precaution. In addition to the violence, in the multi-player settings you are exposed to the language used by other players (unless you can set up a private game). Â Some of the other games our kids are allowed to play include "cartoon violence" but we've chosen to stay away from the first person games for now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 One danger there is finally having freedom and then gorging. Â I remember during finals, playing a video game regularly, hearing my alarm in the morning and continuing to hit snooze, thinking I could restore to an earlier save game. :) Â I'll do everything to be sure m y son can self regulate his gaming and prioritize his time before college. Â If its only the violent games that are restricted, that's very different than restricting all gaming. I read some gaming forums and do hear about people who did flunk out of college due to gaming habits. Â This is how we've approached it. Ds has been allowed M rated games since he was about 13. He plays CoD, Halo, and a few others. I do believe this is an individual or family choice. Some kids can have addictive or violent tendencies with those games. If anything, I think it has done the opposite for my ds. I'd say he's more of a pacifist in nature AFTER playing some of these games. He still plays, just not as much as he used to. I don't play, but we talk about the gaming. One CoD has a zombie add on or something that he likes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparrow Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 This is how we've approached it. Ds has been allowed M rated games since he was about 13. He plays CoD, Halo, and a few others. I do believe this is an individual or family choice. Some kids can have addictive or violent tendencies with those games. If anything, I think it has done the opposite for my ds. I'd say he's more of a pacifist in nature AFTER playing some of these games. He still plays, just not as much as he used to. I don't play, but we talk about the gaming. One CoD has a zombie add on or something that he likes. Â Â My son is the same way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LibraryLover Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 . I'd say he's more of a pacifist in nature AFTER playing some of these games. Â Â Â Not the same thing, but I notice that Overlord has a calming effect on my dd. She is a perfectionist and is sensitive. She works very hard and demands a great deal of herself. Overlord chills her right out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maplecat Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 My husband is a gamer who prefers first person shooters. My young sons' access to games is restricted to what we feel is age appropriate. Every single game that my boys play, my husband has previewed, finished, and played alongside them. We treat movies exactly the same way. I am much more concerned about Internet safety than video games. Â Â Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kiwik Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 I won't allow ds6 to play games on the computer that have any violence. At his friends place they play in the bedroom without supervision. He begs to go to his friends place every day - this is going to become a problem soon but I can't quite see round it. Luckily I don't have worry about movies and tv because he is scared of most of the unsuitable stuff. Â Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KungFuPanda Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 There are LOADS of games out there that aren't gory. Just tell them to pick something else, or read a book. My son is a 'Gamer' but he's too squeamish for gory games. He only plays Minecraft on peaceful mode because he doesn't like the zombies. He's 12 :-) Â DH on the other hand hadn't played a game since Tetris until Assassin's Creed came out and he decided he wanted it. I feel betrayed. I did not marry a Gamer! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 I won't allow ds6 to play games on the computer that have any violence. At his friends place they play in the bedroom without supervision. He begs to go to his friends place every day - this is going to become a problem soon but I can't quite see round it. Luckily I don't have worry about movies and tv because he is scared of most of the unsuitable stuff. Â Â It doesn't have to be a problem. Talk to the friend's mom and tell her specifically what kinds of games your ds is and is not allowed to play. Â If she gives you a hard time about it, start inviting the friend to your house, or start looking for a new friend for your ds. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LucyStoner Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 Games that glorify violence and sexual violence are out of the question here. Â I am yet to see a FPS game that I would be ok with playing or having my children play. I am not saying never, but I have not seen one I would be willing to allow. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poppy Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 Violent video games are a big fat NO for kids in elementary age, but teenagers? I would not restrict them any more than I'd restrict books that contain violence. It is an emotional outlet and it's fun. I've played Assassin's Creed and Half Life 2 and a few others (so I am several years out of date but I get the concepts). They are all basically solving puzzles, just, with the visceral thrill of getting shot or having to run really really fast if you do not succeed. And getting to blow stuff up if you do succeed. Half Life, like Halo, uses aliens instead of "people".   Common sense says these kinds of games are not a good idea for kids who lack empathy or who are too fascinated by guns  It's not a bad idea to read reviews on IGN to check content beforehand if you're not sure about a title.  Also, I personally am squeamish about games set in real life 20th/21st century wars. Controversial titles like "Six Days in Fallujah" are obviously in poor taste but even WWII battles are too close to home for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luanne Posted May 19, 2013 Share Posted May 19, 2013 My kids want to fit in and be like their friends too. It doesn't mean that we will allow them to do what their friends do. Â I will never allow my kids to play killing games. I read a book years ago that made the connections between violence and school shootings, backed up with research that video games can negatively change the brain. Â Other than a Kindle or ipod, we do not own gaming systems, and it will stay that way for as long as possible. I'd rather my kids were outside playing anyway. I'm sure we'll get something someday, but violent games will never be allowed in our home. Â I'm not debating this at all, and I will likely never change my stance on this issue. Â Â Â I feel the exact same way and was thinking the same thing when I read that. If I was about my daughter fitting in more than any other thing, I would never have homeschooled her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luanne Posted May 19, 2013 Share Posted May 19, 2013 Kind of off the topic a little. I had a child come into Wal-Mart several years ago when I was working there. He wanted to buy a rated M game and I told him I was not allowed to sell it to him, that his mother would have to buy it for him if it was ok with her. I thought he was about 12. His mother came over and was very angry with me for not selling him the game. I told her I wasn't allowed to sell M rated games to anyone under 17. She told me her son was 9. :huh: :ohmy: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jhschool Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 Kind of off the topic a little. I had a child come into Wal-Mart several years ago when I was working there. He wanted to buy a rated M game and I told him I was not allowed to sell it to him, that his mother would have to buy it for him if it was ok with her. I thought he was about 12. His mother came over and was very angry with me for not selling him the game. I told her I wasn't allowed to sell M rated games to anyone under 17. She told me her son was 9. :huh: :ohmy: Â What a nut. I hope she understood you were doing the right thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lizzie in Ma Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 Huge gaming family here. I think it depend entirely on your child's reaction to playing. My kids are older now, 17 and 12 and we didn't allow gory games when they were little. We have played through and loved all the Harry Potter games, all the Lego games, Portal 1 and 2, Tomb Raider and the Uncharted series are huge here too. Ni No Kuni is a huge favorite, Little Big Planet and Rayman Origins. Not a lot of FPS like COD but we have enjoyed many a James Bond game. We are seriously looking forward to The Last of Us in June. We get obsessed with a new game til we've played it through but then go months without playing at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DawnM Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 We have Call of Duty but I did not allow Assassin's Creed. I have read that Assassin's Creed has sexual content????  To me AC looks more bloody, but I may not be up on all of the game's content. I just know my boys' friends have Call of Duty and their parents don't allow AC so my kids haven't even asked for it.  Dawn    I have a 12 year old ds who has been wanting to be like his neighborhood friends and play violent video games such as Assassin's Creed and Call of Duty. He keeps telling us that we can turn off the excessive blood but it seems to me that killing is still killing. Am I too squeamish? I understand that Assassin's Creed is actually educational. And Halo's 4 justifies killing by using aliens instead of humans. But boys have always played with guns and also they go hunting so what's the big deal, so I hear. Are there other video games that involve fun and challenge but not geeky or nerdy? My son wants to fit in and I do understand that.  Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Down_the_Rabbit_Hole Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 I will be the odd man out here. I am ok with some FPS games (Halo, Call of Duty, etc). I have no real fear that my ds will grow up to be a violent killer. Â However, I don't allow games with sexually explicit material because problems in life related to that kind of material are real and common. Â If the language is bad in a game then he has to play it with the volume off. I don't want him talking like that. :iagree: I have no problem with games that have shooting and blood/gore. We all play them (well not my computer geek dh, they are beneath him) and have great fun. Â Funny story....I was in Game Stop a while back buying the new COD game and discussing it with the sales man when I noticed this HUGE man (think extra large linebacker) inching his way closer and then working his way around to get a better view of me. WHen he saw I was a woman of considerable age his eyes got so big and he stammered quite loudly "YOU play COD!?!".... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J-rap Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 No violent games here, but then again, we didn't let our children read the Goosebumps series. It wasn't the fear that it would turn them into a violent person. It just seemed like it made more sense to fill their brains with things/images that were good and positive. Â Don't mean to come off as judgmental; this is just a choice we made. I do know really nice families who play those games. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bookfiend Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 I think a nice grownup could play all sorts of terrible games and still stay nice. I have evidence of many nice college age and up people who played horrible games and went on to be peaceful great people. Â I think a young kid might be affected, though, and it might depend on his age. Â I'm not sure though because we don't have any games at our house and when we did for 1 year they were non-violent. Â And I don't know what age would be affected. That would be interesting to find out. Â Anyone have articles to link? I think a PP had some research? Â Â The book, Boys Adrift, has a very informative chapter, backed by research, on video gaming and brain development. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stripe Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 I have heard there is a lot of coordination developed by users of such games, but I can't stomach the violence. Â There are shooter games in which the shooting device is not exactly a gun. For example, the wii game Elebits, in which shooting captures blobs of energy type things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joanne Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 18 years ago, I never would have believed that I'd type and post the following. Â I do believe that the impact on the developing brain is significant in younger years. As such, I do take an active, involved, censoring and restricting role. Â That level of involvement reduces as the child matures and ages. Â I very rarely censor, restrict, or manage gaming now for my 18 and 14 year old. They are good gaming regulators, and are not at risk in other ways for that issue. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spy Car Posted May 23, 2013 Share Posted May 23, 2013 No. Â Bill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merry Posted May 24, 2013 Author Share Posted May 24, 2013 No, Bill? I was afraid of that. Oh, well. Â We've decided not to buy the games but we will let him play them at friends's houses and also to borrow them. We're not worried that he will grow up to be a killer or whatever but we just think there are better ways to spend money and time. The book, Boys Adrift, sounds intriguing so we might change our minds again later after reading it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blessedchaos Posted May 25, 2013 Share Posted May 25, 2013 For us, allowing them was a huge mistake. They can become highly addictive for certain people as we found out the hard way. We allowed only a few hours a week and then hid the games when our teen ds wasn't playing. We recently found out that he had found our hiding spots and was sneaking the games when we were gone. We also ran into the issue where he was frequently asking to go to friend's homes that had fewer (or no) restrictions in order to play. He no longer has the games and is no longer allowed at friends homes that have no restrictions. When he does go to a friend's house, we let the parents know we do not allow these types of games. I think we will always struggle with media/technology addiction with this particular child so video games will not be coming into our home again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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